talking about energy technologies where they belong

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Hi Doc. Hi Group.

 

> It's Mark's list.

>

> And when in his house I do his rules.

>

> And Mark doesn't believe that hypnosis has anything to do with

> energy...

>

> And even though it's valid, proven and very effective, talking about

> it on his list is against his rules.

>

> That's pretty simple.

>

>

 

Right.

But then again it's also his fault since he has the possibility to not

let through posts that violate his rules.

He did that last time and he could have done it this time.

 

Anyway.

Strangely enough (?), my posts always end up showing me a lot about

myself and my buttons. I probably learn more by them than anybody else.

 

The topic of " energy " is something I want to improve in how to convey

it to people and such discussions are a good training ground for me.

I know I should keep on doing this elsewhere where I'm not violating

any rules...

 

> On the other hand, my understanding of hypnosis, psychology, NLP and

> Energy is very LARGE, and I can quote resources and authorities and

> experiences with hundreds (maybe thousands) of clients...

>

> ...and I do disagree, BECAUSE of my training and my experiences,

> with much stated here about energy and energy methods...

 

I never claimed to be an expert and I know that you are.

 

The radiant energies package is one of my dreams.

I am very disappointed I just came home and missed your offer with

your notes about it.

 

I take you're not going to offer me another way of being able to get

it. Even more so since I'm pretty sure you have to answer/ignore

hundreds of mails at the moment with the same question.

 

For me all this isn't just something I'm " interested " in, it's my

passion and I want to learn everything related to " kundalini " or

sexual energy, how to use it in the common sense of the word, how to

use it for rapport and for hypnosis, EVERYTHING.

 

As long as it will take me to afford your program, do you have any

reading suggestions on how to connect some dots for myself?

I have " promise of energy psychology " (even twice since it was also

part of your IDD), are the exercises in it worth doing them as they

are described?

 

Any suggestions on how to turn on the radiant energies internally in

any given moment? Anchoring...?

 

Do I have to project something to others or just turn them on?

 

Does this relate to unzipping a person and can unzipping be done

" mentally " , without external movements?

Are there any signs that show me it was succesful?

(If it's good kinesthetic calibration skills to " feel " if it was

succesful how can I train it for myself when I have no feedback in the

first place to calibrate?)

 

How long does it usually take until it " snaps " back?

 

I've been doing the Carebear-Drill from time to time externally and

very often internally for about a year and I can't complain about my

rapport skills. Everybody I am interested in likes me, mothers of

girl-friends love me and I had more sex in this year (in fact...

triple it. quadruple it. I think that's still not enough) than in my

whole life before, not to talk about the quality of it.

 

Of course it's not only because of this drill as I have developed in a

lot of areas of my life and behaviour but I'm pretty sure it took its

part in the clockwork suddenly working much better then for years before.

A lot of it has to do with this list(s) and changing my way of thinking.

The more I learn " theoretically " about NLP the more I learn what it is

called what I've been taught on this list and in your programs I own

so far.

 

I've been putting off the thing about " unzipping " for a long time

since it seemed too manipulative to me to use it for " seduction " but

as I am really happy in my relationship at the moment (which has a lot

to do with my male ego being satisfied by the successes of the last

year) my focus can finally change to much more important things and

since the first step I chose for myself is to get really good at

hypnosis and you keep mentioning its usefulness in a

therapeutic/coaching sense...

I want to learn more about it. I suppose the archives are source

number one I should contact. Any other suggestions? Hints about how to

connect some dots?

 

I know you once mentioned that people that ask too many questions tend

to do nothing but I hope that my questions show you that I am serious.

I am really trying to get the bigger picture here.

 

The last sentence made me thinking.

This isn't the way you approach it I think and I should learn to be

more flexible in my behaviour and start with smaller chunks and DOING

them.

 

Whatever you or anyone else can give me, privatly or publicly, direct

or indirect is HIGHLY appreciated.

 

No matter what I find out by your answers and hints or by myself, I'll

buy you're radiant energies program anyway.

Just a matter of time.

That's a promise.

 

Michael

 

 

PS:

My experiments have shown that by getting rapport by matching

breathing and then doing figure 8's between my root chakra and that

one of the woman lying next to me more often than not she suddenly

leans over and starts... having fun.

I am aware that there are several factors involved like energy level,

general (and current?) level of her sex drive, possible/expected

pleasure she links to sex AND expectation on my part (= what I suggest

to her mentally at that moment) and that some of them being to my

favour might distort the usefulness of the technique.

Any hints on this one or my approach to it?

Is this a " valid " technique or just a construct that works for me?

Can doing figure 8's between chakras be used in even more ways,

according to the goal? (I remember you mentioning it in your RV/RI

program and using the heart chakra for rapport with that waitress if I

am not mixing up or misunderstanding s.th. here)

 

By the way, this specifically is a level of " manipulation " I can

accept since I am pretty sure it won't be to her disadvantage