I was NOT offended by you posting Janice's comments. It helped me to look at me.

September 7, 2006

mysterxe <mysterxe wrote: >Hi Vivian,>Thanks for your post. I’d like to point out the difference between >your post and Janice’s post. Even though you both have similar >points of view about “needing a man,” you posted in an intelligent >and respectful manner. You also came from a position of wanting to >learn more and wanting to improve, and ultimately that’s what this >list is about. >Now I’d like to comment on some things I see in your post.>On 9/5/06 3:15 PM, "Red Woman" <ahaxta.viv >wrote:>The part that I feel she is right about is that without sex for a long >time it is harder to achieve certain goals. I have many male friends >and a few male

customers that help my >radiant circuits but there still isn't anyone of them I want to have sex >with.... >And none of whom would help me fiancially unless I would have sex >with them.>So... I have to ask. >Are there any males on this group who help any females financially if >they are not having a sexual relationship with them?!? Other than >your daughter, your sister or your >mother? >Personally I wouldn’t help anyone financially unless there was a very >good reason to. >snip>That aside, I have to ask: Why do you feel you need someone else >to help you financially? Why can’t you help yourself financially?>This isn’t an attack but a observation about a mindset that I don’t >think is very productive. Even if someone does step in to help you >financially you would be

dependent on them. You would put yourself >in the mindset of the victim that needs help. You would NOT be living >at cause. I have a phyisical condition that prevents me from being able to stand outside at a bus stop and wait for a bus if someone there is smoking. I was unable to leave my house for 10 yrs. starting in '92. I am currently working but very close to home. I use EM, EFT, etc and have had some improvement but none of those things have produced a cure. You have an underlying presupposition that we are all physically the same. I am more than willing to work for the money I make. The challenges I face to do that are

different than your challenges. My current job has me standing for 8 to 10 hrs at a time as a cashier and the last several weeks I've been working 44 to 47 hrs a wk. although I was hired for 30 hrs a wk. I have these clerical/secretarial skills I could use at home if I found people who had the money to out source some of their office work. BUT selling my services thru many internet groups is spamming. >You have many great tools at your disposal, why not use them so >that you can be financially secure yourself?>Besides, what kind of person would only help you out if you have sex >with them?>You seem to have a lot of people in your

life that you would be better >off without. These men that want to trade sex for money are some. > The person who laced your pot with PCP is an example of another.>Can you change your environment and get rid of these toxic people? Tw That was 25 yrs ago. > Is there something in your beliefs about yourself and what you >deserve that are attracting these people to you? If there is, use the >IDD and get rid of it...then replace those beliefs with better ones that >will set up better attractor

fields.>Once you have better people you can have sex with, then sex will be >fun, then sex will be uplifting, then sex will be productive. Sex with a man who knows how IS fun. That's like saying just because someone is physic they are spiritual. Not always true. I've know nice guys who didn't have a clue how to pleasure a woman. Again 25 yrs ago.>It’s nice to see that you are trying to better your life and you are >open minded about ways of doing so. Stick with Doc, stick with this >list, and DO THE DRILLS and your life can’t help but get better. When I wrote the first post

I did a lot of crying and EFT/IDD. Then I did more EFT/IDD. When I first started doing EFT a couple of yrs ago I used it on those emotions from 25 yrs ago and on those issues. LOL!! Boy am I glad I did. My son's father showed up about a month ago after 25yrs. Isn't life an adventure!?! I am still open to suggestions but especially on how to make money from home. Vivian >Have Fun!>-Mike