Fwd: Anxiety, fears and PTSD

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creative_energies , " docspeed2001 "

<docspeed2001> wrote:

 

creative_energies , " hunter.cris "

<hunter.cris@w...> wrote:

> Hi John,

> All this makes sense up until the bit about " future pacing " .....I

am not

> sure I know what you mean by that - can you elaborate please?

> ta muchly

> Cris

 

Si como no, Chris! You people are so neat!

 

I do know that sometime in the future we will meet. All of us on

this

list...and that it will be fun and enjoyable. Why? Because I can see

us all working on our Radiant Circuits (those Happy flows, those

Friendly Circuits), so when we meet regardless of where, we'll

connect in a way that productive, friendly and entertaining.

 

I also know that we are different. And, that " difference " is a

blessings. Because without the differences there is no learning, so

when we connect they will be much positive learning coming from many

viewpoints.

 

Even though the Triple Warmer and all of those survival modalities

do

come into play, those behaviors are " learning experiences " .

 

Just like with weight loss. If I pretend I've already lost the

twenty

pounds, then pretend to be 90 in the future at my desired

weight...then I can just turn around, look at my past from the

present up to now, and " notice " what steps exactly I took to get

here.

 

Then I can go back into the present, and look and my behaviors in

the

future, and just know what to do when I get there, because I've

already practiced it! And I've already succeeded at it.

 

And, this is also easily done in the past, in the current past on

this life line...

 

....in the genetic past, the ones you are linked up to with ancestral

memory and by genes...

 

....and in the other lifetimes, whether they exist or not.

 

Huggy feely,

, The know-it-all, pompus butt

 

> > Can anyone help? I suffer from Social Anxiety - i.e. I get very

> > anxios and nervous around people. For me, this means that when I

> am

> > around people I go into nervous, anxious `I am not in

> > control' mode. Inside I'm panicking and feeling scared.

 

> Just curious...

 

> ...do you have this when with friends?

 

> ...with relatives?

 

> ...or just with strangers?

 

> I had a client this Monday that had it with strangers, but not with

> friends.

 

> So I had him imagine 5 friends and 1 stranger that was a friend of

a

> friend. No anxiety.

 

> ...then 4 friends and 2 strangers...no anxiety.

 

> ...then 3 friends and 3 strangers...uncomfortable.

 

> You know the numbers drill. And we verified his state with energy

> testing.

 

> Then we did the 5 minute routine, finishing up with a zip up and an

> affirmation, " I am totally in control " ....3 times...

 

> ...then we made darn sure the regulator flows and the bridge flow

> were in, and got him feeling fine with 6 strangers, as long as he

> had a purpose for being with those 6 people.

 

> Seminar. Lunch. Classroom. Work.

 

> So, instead of just tapping to clear out the fear, we gave him

> energy tools so he can use them on demand.

>

> Then we took the new him (with energy tools) and anchored that new

> and better behavior to his future with future pacing.

>

> I just got an email from him (he flew back) that stated some

> challenges he'd met and easily came though them just because of his

> newly discovered skills.

>

> Normally if someone is fearful in a situation it's because they

> don't know what to do. So, give them " what to do " .

>

> If they know what to do, and are competant at doing it, and are

> still fearful, then there is probably a negative anchor (some type

> of phobia, or PTSD from a previous event) which needs to be taken

> care of.

>

> For example, one man who had chronic back pains was easily taken

> care of permanently by going back into his past (5 lifetimes by his

> count) and while there, doing the energy drills, and the EFT

drills,

> and by doing the " change history drills " .

>

> Within a period of 12 minutes his long-lasting pain totally

> disappeared. Zip! Zero!

>

> That was Friday. Today, 5 days later it's still zip. Still zero.

>

> He's a happy camper.

>

> Hope this helps.

>

>

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