Them crying when doing the IDD on them is just fine!

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, mysterxe

<mysterxe wrote:

>

> Doc and Group,

> I did the Inner Demon Destroyer on a friend today when something

>interesting happened.

 

Glad it was interesting.

 

> As my friend was doing the psychological reversal part ( " Even

>though X I deeply appreciate and accept myself " ), her fear started

>getting worse and worse.

 

Bet that was fun;-)

 

> Her face scrunched up in pain. She turned all red. And she ended

>up breaking down and crying.

 

Yep.

 

Something deeper and totally repressed poped to the surface. It

happens. Be glad it did.

 

> Now the thing is, I was holding her neurovasculars this whole time!

>

> I was thinking, " Whoa, what the hell? This has never happened to

>me before, what do I do? " So I go into hakalau, ask the magic

>question, and the thing that came back was " Stop the PR and keep

>going with the IDD. " So I did.

 

Hummm?

 

I'd need to see you doing it before I can really show you how it

would work better with her. I will give suggestions down the page.

 

The PR is the chest lymphatic rub as you do the positive affirmation

about the aspect. You might be confusing terms?

 

> I stop her and hold her while she cries and calms down for a bit.

>She asks me if she was supposed to feel worse and I just reframed

>it as " Yeah, it's getting all the emotional toxins out of your

>body. "

 

Yep.

 

Happens once in awhile, though it's NOT happened to me for a couple

of years.

 

Why not?

 

Because I make sure that the issue we are working on is the core

issure first.

 

What has happened in the past is we'd be working on issue XXX, which

is a 6...

 

....while working on it, another STRONGER aspect comes to the surface

which is DIFFERENT than the first one.

 

Simple solution.

 

Start over again with the new issue, the new " anchor " , and a new

Psychological Reversal DONE WITH MASSIVE INTENSITY.

 

Why?

 

Because the original PR done for XXX will not work for X'X'X'.

 

So you need to go to that chest lymphatic and redo that part.

 

Rename the event.

 

Recalibrate the SUDS, and ENERGY TEST that their guess is accurate.

 

Now, on the holding of the neurovasculars...

 

I do what is called the " Vulcan Hold " . This is by holding all the

head's neurovasculars, not just the general forehead neurovasculars,

while doing the tapping sequences. So you are holding the

neurovasculars on the front, back, sides and top of the head all at

the same time, GETTING ALL THE EMOTIONS for all the elements all at

once!

 

I also have someone else hold their neurovasculars so I can focus

totally on them with my intention and my calibration...

 

....so the client can focus totally on the anchor for the

intervention.

 

Keeps us all clear and clean on what we do with our very specific

behaviour.

 

If I don't have a 3 person to help, which is almost never, I first

teach them the tapping sequences with some rather trivial.

 

That way other emotions like " I'm a bad learner. I'm fucking this

drill up. This won't work for me...blab, blab, blab...won't crop up

and distract them " .

 

Now you mentioned crying.

 

Crying is GREAT, and is NOT a problem, nor is it something to be

avoided. I always tend to have tissues there so they can use them if

they need them. Crying is a release that for some, is NECESSARY!

 

Go through it.

 

At my last intensive I caught one of my assistances taking his group

though the drill as he accidentally left off a major component of

the drill.

 

So no one got their SUDS down to a zero. They ended up between 3-6,

which in my opinion is shit. So I had him take them through again

being sure to add in the one component he forgot to have them do.

 

They all were at zero.

 

It happens.

 

We all fuck up. That's how we learn.

 

Sometimes someone real weird comes along and the normal procedures

don't work on her. That's how we learn. Most people, 99% of them are

normal, and the IDD will work just fine.

 

Now, on getting final SUDS, it's important to energy test their

answer, and NOT take their word for it. Everyone will have a memory

of " it " . The memory is NOT a SUDS.

 

Now at my last 3 intensives I've actually erased the memory of the

event also is a few of the cases, just because I know how, and it

helped them tremendously. But normally a memory erasure is NOT part

of the Inner Demon Destroyer.

 

Have fun Mike.