Resourceful State or NOT?!

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Hello Doc/all,

 

 

> And others ask the " MAGIC " question.

>

> And in the case of constipation, asking the question about " what

> meridians do I stimulate to cure constipation " is really a limiting

> question.

>

> What might be a more expansive and helpful question?

>

>

>

 

Magic Question:

 

From the posts I remember that magic questions always or most of the

time go along the lines of

 

IF XXX can get me to YYY, what would it be?

 

So in this case of constipation,

 

If I can use this constipation experience to get to where I want to

be, what do I have to do?

 

Then...that would make this constipation experience part of the

process to getting your goal. Rather than being in the way.

 

So does taking that approach put a person in a more resourceful state

since he is processing the experience differently???

 

 

 

> Sometimes you look at the problem and make a decision " if " it is a

> problem, or not.

>

> How do you notice that? Simple. Is it in the way to your goal, to

> your ideal, or not.

>

> And if not, then just ignore it.

 

 

Doc. You mentioned ignoring something if it is not leading to your

goal. So, tell me if I am undesstandin this correctly...

 

I have a family constipation issue (figuratively - you know ones

where the family members talk to you and its just crap/nagging or

other types of emotional constipationthat spews out)

 

Well...I come back from a trip and my wife tells me that a family

member of ours (lets call her JANE)said XXX. Some stupid thing about

the water bill is higher and hinting to conserve more water

etc...etc. Not really getting to a point. In my mind so what if the

bill is higher.

 

I ask in my mind...

DO YOU WANT MORE MONEY?

DO YOU WANT US TO SAVE WATER?

DO YOU WANT US TO MOVE OUT?

 

Normally that e actions would be ok for me...

Except that MY FEELING on Jane is that she just CANNOT tell us

directly what she want. And maybe these questions above are

mindreads on my part.

 

FOR ME I see it as a constipation from her.

 

So part of me is saying....yeah just ignore it.

 

SO what is really more resourceful?

 

IGNORING it or asking the magic questions to have the issue be part

of the evolution?

 

I guess I am sorting out THE QUESTION WHETHER it becomes an

overgeneralization to think that all events that happen in my life

are for my own good...

....to make me stronger

....to make me better

....to help me evolve to the next level (whatever that means)

 

Looking forward to feedback/comments from the group and all.

 

 

JIA