Those NASTY people can be you BEST MOTIVATORS!

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, " dstbod "

<dstbod> wrote:

>

>

> Defensive mechanisms, shit I don't have any of those ;>, so I

can't

> just dismiss this post, and if I don't do the drill then I will

stay

> where I am - damn it Doc that means I have to improve and enjoy my

> life :>

 

Nice.

 

YOU noticed!

 

Most don't notice.

 

Okay group, here is what dstbod noticed.

 

I did NOT give a definition of manipulation...

 

....what I did do (like I did in Colville) is I gave two different

choices...

 

....one choice meant one thing...and I gave the meaning...

 

....the second choice meant another thing...and I gave the meaning...

 

So you, since you are responsible for you own behavior can now make

choices between those behaviors I gave you and defined for you.

 

Hopefully you'll notice that I do that much.

 

Now the big question is, am I a manipulator, am I a coach, am I a

teachers, am I an asshole...

 

YOU guys and gals know the drill.

 

Have fun.

 

 

> > Yes Lori,

> >

> > I totally agree with you...

> >

> > ...and, most people will NOT take that responsibility upon

> > themselves.

> >

> > ...but the few that do, most of them will make it a guilt trip,

> > instead of a roadmap to success.

> >

> > All those steps, all of them, are necessary learning steps.

> >

> > And taking those steps consciously is a spiritual journey, the

> real

> > one, NOT the follow-the-leader one that the Jim Jones of the

world

> > preach about.

> >

> > One form of spirituality is about taking full responsibility for

> > whatever occurs in your life...

> >

> > ....good or bad, it has to all come from you.

> >

> > So group, what do you think about the above?

> >

> > If you agree, then " why is that so " ?

> >

> > If you disagree, then " why is that so " ?

> >

> > PLEASE REALIZE that is you simply dismiss the above, that

> basically

> > means that a defensive mechanism to protect your old values and

> > beliefs have just " clicked " into place...

> >

> > ...and by NOT DOING THE DRILL you'll remaind exactly where you

> > currently are with your life...

> >

> > ...and IT'S ALL " YOUR " CHOICE!

> >

> > Goody goody!

> >

> >