What do I tell others when I have no money?

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I would think twice about spending time with people who would wish to borrow money from me. Isn't that what banks are for? Are you as lending institution?

 

 

 

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sandygodheart

Wednesday, August 09, 2006 5:15 PM

What do I tell others when I have no money?

 

 

--- "bizzylovah80" <bizzylovah80 wrote:>> Hello all! I have a question and welcome all answers and opinions. I > was wondering what you say to people when you have no money and they > want to borrow some. If we're not supposed to focus on how broke we > are how can we tell these people that we have absolutely no cash to > give them and still maintain our focus on abundance? Thank you all in > advance!> > ShanInteresting linguistic presuppositions you have.Here's one of yours, "if I have money, then I must loan them some".Here's another of yours, "if I don't have money I must lie to them about NOT having money, so they think I have money so that my own unconscious mind is fooled into NOT knowing I don't have money."You have some major belief patterns that are installing shame and guilt into you that should be taken care of. Maybe you might want to find an old copy of Harry Browne's book, "How I found Freedom in a Unfree World". That book goes hand in glove with Ester Hicks, and with Neville, but on a level that you can relate to in your own life, digging through the trenches, attempting to grow and evolve.Sandy Godheart

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Hi all,

 

I am new to responding here. In fact this would be the first. I just

wanted to say that although the points brought up are valid I think

that the actual question was missed in being responded to. I believe

that the poster may have been asking if we are not supposed to focus

on our lack and saying we are poor/have no money how can we deal with

a situation that calls to respond that way. At that time shan does

not have money to give (regardless of whether he feels like he must

give it or not) and so the focus becomes that he cannot give it

because there is no money to give. Calling attention to that though

is focusing on lack so he doesn't want to do that. how does he

respond to the question without calling more lack into his life?

 

With Light and Love,Jade

 

, " Lee "

<lhorner2 wrote:

>

> I would think twice about spending time with people who would wish

to borrow money from me. Isn't that what banks are for? Are you as

lending institution?

>

>

> -

> sandygodheart

>

> Wednesday, August 09, 2006 5:15 PM

> What do I tell others

when I have no money?

>

>

> --- " bizzylovah80 " <bizzylovah80@> wrote:

> >

> > Hello all! I have a question and welcome all answers and

> opinions. I

> > was wondering what you say to people when you have no money and

> they

> > want to borrow some. If we're not supposed to focus on how

broke

> we

> > are how can we tell these people that we have absolutely no

cash

> to

> > give them and still maintain our focus on abundance? Thank you

> all in

> > advance!

> >

> > Shan

>

> Interesting linguistic presuppositions you have.

>

> Here's one of yours, " if I have money, then I must loan them

some " .

>

> Here's another of yours, " if I don't have money I must lie to

them

> about NOT having money, so they think I have money so that my own

> unconscious mind is fooled into NOT knowing I don't have money. "

>

> You have some major belief patterns that are installing shame and

> guilt into you that should be taken care of. Maybe you might want

to

> find an old copy of Harry Browne's book, " How I found Freedom in

a

> Unfree World " . That book goes hand in glove with Ester Hicks, and

> with Neville, but on a level that you can relate to in your own

> life, digging through the trenches, attempting to grow and evolve.

>

> Sandy Godheart

>

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Say " No, I will not lend you money. " Then offer no explanations.