how to get rid of a stalker in a nice way

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Wow lilly and kimberly and doc, i really related to that story.

thank you for sharing that method of getting rid of a stalker in a

nice way.that was so timely for me with the seasons cheer going so

strong right now. Joy

 

, " Ms.

Kimberly " <valandviolet wrote:

>

> Thanks Lillie for your post. It got thinking aobut everyone's

different self-preservations.

> It also reminded me of a time about 12 years year ago or so, I

went out drinking, hadn't been in quite awhile, and being a single

mom, I needed a break, sent the kids to the grandparents, and went

to the local bar. Brought some people home after closing time and we

sat around my kitchen table for few more hours. then everyone left,

made sure, made sure I locked all the doors, put wood in the stove

and went up to bed. I woke up with this guy sitting on top of me,

grinning. I knew this guy, he was notorious for this. I was Angry,

yelling what do you want? I knew. How the Hell did you get in, I

checked all the doors???? The F*C*B just laughed and said I know how

to get in. So we wrestled around a bit I got hima off me and pushed

him between the wall and the bed, he was struggling to get back up,

I was pissed and drunk and tired just from that and thought I had to

do something else. So when he popped up really angry, I changed my

attitude, and started asking him questions

> about his kids, about some other stuff, things I knew that were

his fault but made like I was on his side, the F*C*B. calmed down

and thought I was really sincere and layed down next to me and

hugged me and held my hand, and we talked for maybe 2 hours, then he

made a date with me and left. nothing happpened. I called some

friends and had them tell him to stay awayy from me, I wasn't going

on the 'date'.

> Then I hear form a friend that he was telling them that the F*C*B

thought I was 'the 'one'. ha ha ha. I just played a part to get out

of a situation. I would look on that time and think how I

thought 'I' won. But I diddn't really, Lillie's post brought me to

think of this and then I realized the point, the aspect that has

plagued me many a night, the evil grin, that laugh,, the " i know

how to get in'. I was'nt confronting that that really pierced my

security in my home, even though i was able to get away from what

could have happened, i was still stuck there, not knowing all this

time. That was a pretty big break thru for me.

>

> So thanks again Lillie, and Doc thank you for all your time and

help you have given me, I have tools to see this, tools to deal with

this, and tools to use to become the person 'I' want to be.

> I am truly grateful.

>

> Lillie Reibold <lfr3 wrote:

>

>

> Well, there certainly seems to be a theme going on in the posts

recently and

> into real life. The theme is self-defense.

>

> As you said " In the old movies, the female movie star always had

gumption,

> balls and stood up for herself " .

>

> As you state in your " Self-Defense Creed " ... " If I am forced to

defend myself...

> then I am ready, willing and prepared to defend myself with my

natural weapons "

>

> I am adding to that Self-Defense Creed the ability to use the

power of my mind

> as one of my natural weapons. I don't know how to use my hands

for self defense

> in the same way most people on this list do but I can and will

continue to train

> my mind and the use of my energy for self-defense and

more...because when

> you are attacked and it's impossible to fight physically...it's

important to

> know how to fight psychically

>

> Thank you Doc for the training you have already given me...it

saved my sanity

> and more this week. I am looking forward to this weekend to work

on my skills.

>

> Self-defense comes in many shapes and forms. Maybe you could add

a division

> to I Chi Mu Kung Fu that would include excellence in the powers

of the mind.

>

> Lillie

>

>

>

>

> speedhitting-essentialskills

[speedhitting-essentialskills ] On Behalf Of

kahunamaker

> Thursday, December 14, 2006 4:21 AM

> speedhitting-essentialskills

> [speedhitting-essentialskills] A SECRET to change from an

Earth element to a WOOD element.

>

>

> Tonight my wife and I, Jack and his girlfriend went to see the

new

> movie " Holiday " .

>

> Not my type of movies, but there were some interesting

psychological

> threads.

>

> Here's one of them.

>

> One of the females in the movie (the one from England) had

> relationship problems. She let her man walk all over her without

> standing up for herself.

>

> So her and another female trade houses for the holidays. One lives

in England. The other lives in LA. Both had major psychological

problems, and both were running from their problems.

>

> Anyway, the english lady noticed an old man on the street with a

> walker. The old man looked confused so she stopped and gave him a

ride back to his house.

>

> He covertly elicitated from her the man problem she had, and then

told her to watch some old movies. In the old movies she was

directed to watch the female movie star always had gumption, balls,

and stood up for herself.

>

> Guess what happened then in the movie...

>

> And what does that " girlie " movie have to do with self defense?

>

>

> ps. My wife and Tara loved the movie. My interest lasted about 5

> minutes, but I was polite and oohed and aaawed properly.

> A SECRET to change from an Earth element to a WOOD element.

>

>

>

Kimberly,

>

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