Guest guest Posted December 14, 2006 Report Share Posted December 14, 2006 <joy_radiant wrote: > > doc why did you kick that guy out of your last seminar? Joy I don't waste time with want-ta-bees that will NOT do the damn drills! PERIOD! Well, he was one of my kung-fu clients and wanted those seminar skills also. So I invited him to that seminar without energy testing him. That was my first mistake. I believed he would do the drills, because he'd been doing the kung fu training drills to an adequate level. But in the seminar class, he would sit in the back row, and NOT do the damn drills. And he did that brain dead Water Element behavior for 5 hours that first night. Even after I walked back there and told him politely to do the damn drills. Then he had to keep going outside for those cigarette breaks. When others were doing the drills, he was smoking a cigarette. So, when it came time for class feedback that first evening I called him up to the class first to tell us what he'd learned. And he and the class was warned in advance. I told everyone, " write down 50 things that you have learned...blab, blab, blab " . SO, since I knew he was NOT doing the damn drills, I wanted to see how lousy his attitude really was. After asking him 3 times " what have you learned " , he finally smirked and said, " I guess I didn't learn anything " . What he REALLY MEANT was that he " hadn't DONE anything! " So I nicely & politely told him he could go home. It's on DVD! I even had a sweet grin on my face. As he walked out the door I had everyone turn around and say " GOOD BY " to him. Next morning he was there bright and early, ready to start doing more of nothing again. I told him he was not welcome and to leave. That I would refund his seminar fee later. The more I thought about it the less I wanted to have him in my presence for any reason. The following Wednesday he attempted to reschedule his kung-fu lessons. I told him " he no longer had any lessons with us, and I'd refund all his monies paid, by Friday for his Kung fu training " . Friday I refunded all the monies paid for the $3,500 intensive, and for the prepayment of $2,600 bucks towards his kung fu lessons. Hopefully he has found another trainer that better fits his Water element personality. Why did I kick him out of any of my trainings forever! Because I do NOT waste my time! My seminars are SELF-HELP Intensives. I show my clients what to do, how to do it, and why it's important to do them. Then it is up to them because I am NOT going to do it for them. Which is the reason that my seminar attendees have such a GREAT AND AWESOME SUCCESS RATE! And when you have a rotten apple in the apple barrel, he will negatively affect all the others in his small groups, when they are attempting to do the damn drills. So, for the benefit of ALL THE CLIENTS at the seminar, I had to let him go. He is a nice guy, and very intelligent. I let him float away on his own negativity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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