is a pleasure that is NOT good, or a pleasure that is beneficial?

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--- coachdrgridley@a... wrote:

 

> That's how I kick-start. And I'm not sure I agree that fear is

>the best motivator.

 

Hi Sue,

 

I was talking about the prime motivator for most people, not about a

specific person.

 

> It is a very good one, as is pain, but joy is a great motivator,

>too.

 

Okay.

 

But for what percentage of the population?

 

15%?

 

And what type of joy?

 

Many people that have addiction are motivate by something they

call " joy " but if they took in the long term picture of what

that " joy " does to them, what do they find?

 

How can they use the way they relate to time to know in advance if

it is a " pleasure " that is NOT good, or a " pleasure " that is

beneficial?

 

And if you are using the incorrect meta-program to motivate someone,

ie, using YOUR meta-program and NOT theirs, your chances of success

are nil.

 

So, how do you use the proper meta-program (s) with those you work

with, including yourself.

 

Have fun.;-)

 

 

 

 

 

>Said like a fire

> element, no?

> Sue