The REAL truth about Doc's training... and what you should know about it

[Guest guest]

Real NICE, Gary.

 

 

, Gary Graves

<ggraves wrote:

>

> If you are the type who doesn't like having fun,

>

> or you don't like having secret skills for your own success and the

> success of those close to you,

>

> or you don't like making new friends instantly as if you've known

each

> other all of your lives,

>

> then Doc's training's are NOT for you.

>

> If this is the case, then don't read the following either!

>

> Not too long ago, I had heard about Doc's upcoming event " The X-

Factor

> of ESP Mana Magic for COVERT Bonding " .

>

> Basically, as I understood it, it was about a secret so powerful

that

> very few know about. The ones that do know about it, keep those

secrets

> to themselves. According to Doc's ad copy (the one he wanted taken

down

> so you can't read it), letting people know you have these

secrets " will

> cause them to avoid you... think you are crazy... attempt to

discredit

> and badmouth you " because of their " FEAR, HATE and ENVY " .

>

> I don't know why, but I wanted to know these secrets. I wanted a

certain

> confidence, I wanted power and I wanted control. I didn't realize

what

> else I would be getting, something I didn't expect. I'll get to

that a

> little later...

>

> I got into the Medford airport on Thursday afternoon. I like being

> early. It gives me a chance to get things situated. Got my rental

car,

> checked into my room, and I had enough time to take care of a few

other

> things I needed to take care of. It took me a couple hours, and it

was

> still early. So after all that was done, I thought it would be a

good

> idea to go down to Doc's studio and 'check things out', i.e. see

who

> else was there, hand out for a while and maybe go get something to

eat

> together (which we did).

>

> I will say one thing, Doc and Jack sure do make you feel welcome

when

> you get there.

>

> Doc had some things he wanted to take care of, so we waited a few

> minutes for him to get done what he needed to get done. So Doc and

the

> early arrivals (including me) went down the street to eat. Doc had

> already begun...

>

> The next day I got there early again. I had offered to help set up

> things up for the afternoon session; chairs, tables, books,

training

> manuals, posters, etc. I do this as a small token of my

appreciation

> (plus I get to pick out the seat I want before anyone else takes

it,

> which I think is fair).

>

> That afternoon session started out with what stops people. Doc

asked

> after going to a training and learning new things, what stops

people

> from continuing to do those drills to get the skills once they

leave.

> What is it that separates those few who do get the skills, and the

many

> who do not?

>

> We also went over secrets of confidence, did some drills testing

out

> confidence, along with some simple yet POWERFULLY effective

anchoring

> secrets. While we were doing that, I was still wondering when the

hell

> was going to tell us what stops people from really getting the

skills

> they learned. By the time the first day ended, I was somewhat

frustrated.

>

> He didn't tell us! He never came out and said what it was! I think

he

> did it on purpose, getting us all excited about knowing how to make

that

> change in our lives, and then just completely neglecting to tell

us. I

> paid good money to be there, and that is what I get?

>

> Come on Doc, what's the deal here?

>

> I was determined that I wouldn't let him get away with it that

easy. So

> I started thinking, I checked my notes, I mentally reviewed what

we did

> and I finally realized it. He DID give to us, but he was sneaky

about

> it. Instead of telling us, he made us experience the answer. The

secret

> was in doing something, something so simple you needed to

experience it

> in order to really get it.

>

> He does make things hard sometimes, unlike other people who just

give a

> lecture while you sit down in your chair the whole time taking

notes

> (even if it puts you to sleep), thinking you got all the answers.

>

> Continuing on, and realizing how Doc likes to sneak things in, I

had to

> pay extra close attention just in case he decided to pull another

stunt

> like that again. And boy did he ever!

>

> Many have fell victim to this next one. You better be careful,

because

> it just might happen to you, too! This is one of Doc's big secrets.

>

> Doc loves to tell metaphorical stories, some people sit there an

think

> that those are just fun stories, but there's more. A lot more. Each

> story has a purpose. One story might be to install joy, or another

might

> be using humor in order to get you past a belief that's holding you

> back, in order to get you to move towards something you feel good

about.

> Sometimes though, he uses a story to get you to move away from

something

> first, then he gets you to move towards something better.

>

> So Doc decided to have us tell stories of our own, which was

actually

> pretty interesting because the drill was to notice what was going

on

> with the person telling the story. Just noticing the different

state

> changes, their energy on a more detailed level was pretty neat.

>

> That drill tied in perfectly with the locational anchoring, and

that

> hitting drill we did w/ an uke was really cool. It was actually

pretty

> difficult at first because we were trying to remember to do all

those

> different things at once. Making us stretch ourselves in doing

multiple

> operations at once, I began to realize just how many things one CAN

do

> all at the same time, while consciously noticing all the things we

noticed.

>

> There was a lot of other things we covered that weekend, including

> changing the energy of our fuck ups to something positive in 3

seconds

> or less, secrets of modeling others for YOUR success, secrets of

turning

> on the radiant energies in others and how to turn into your best

friend

> (or whatever 'else' you want) with just a simple hand gesture,

secrets

> of getting a FREE breakfast and having it be a win-win situation

for

> everyone involved.

>

> You see, I have so much stuff to cover here, and really not enough

time

> or space to cover it all. I haven't even come close to mentioning

what

> happened on Trainer's day. Fully half of my notes from those 4 days

are

> from Trainer's day alone.

>

> Unfortunately for those of you who didn't attend, I think that was

the

> LAST one Doc plans on having. Gone forever.

>

> One last thing I am going to cover is that in doing those drills

for

> getting people to bond with you, I noticed something POWERFULLY

> important. I noticed that I accidentally bonded with them in a

special

> way, and MANY of us left that weekend with great new friends, even

if we

> had known them before!

>

> I think that's enough for now, without turning this into a 13 page

mini

> report.

>

> All of you who were there, be CONFIDENT, and have FUN!

>

> Gary

>