[energyhealing-essentialskills] Before there can by psychic shielding, first there must be...

March 4, 2005

Thanks Jack,

Succintly put. Sadly, I didn't have anyone with your skills around me at the time I was trying to work out the answers to those questions so I kinda got on with it in my own long winded way. I talked myself (outloud) through what was happening, my feelings, other people's reactions, when did I first feel this etc etc etc and then took notes. At the time it was a little like I was having a conversation with two different sides of me and for a while it felt scary. I think that is the way in which I managed the association and then dissociation from the process although having worked in psychiatry, dissociation also had many other connotations! It is an ongoing process, subject to revision as I take on board subsequent learning!!!!

What is interesting is that although I have shields and I control the process much better, there are still times when I don't - usually if I am emotionally involved with the person (partner or family for example). What is interesting is that on the one hand I can get completely drained/blasted by the experience but on the other hand I can find it completely impossible to "read" them too. It can be a sort of paradoxical situation - much more tuned in and completely tuned out. Not sure tuned is the right word here either.....

Many of the people who talk about being empathic first experience it in the "negative" whilst not noticing the positive. I am not sure whether that is because the negative messages get heard more clearly because they are more tuned to them or whether it is a question that once they notice the skill they can learn to direct it......

Not sure why it felt important to share this but it came up for me whilst I was reading your post......

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docspeed2001

energyhealing-essentialskills

Friday, March 04, 2005 3:05 AM

[energyhealing-essentialskills] Before there can by psychic shielding, first there must be...

> Hi group,> if I understand correctly, this person is a natural empath, right?> well, my guess is that if this person wishes to avoid the pain that > this can bring, some kind of psychic shielding might be neccesary.This is why I asked the questions I asked.Just by sitting down and thinking through those questions, and then talking those answers into a tape recorder......and then writting those answers out so you can look at them......will cause a person to associate into the process......and THEN writting down the answers will help them dissociate from their association so they can think clearly about what they actually do......what they think they do, but don't do......what they do but don't yet know that they do, and should know they do......etc.Then, building the bullet proof auric shield can be done intelligently.Sincerely,> Doc, you know a thousand times more than me, so whatcha think???> And, to add my own question, how can I teach myself the skill of > feeling other's emotions and, even more important, how to calibrate my behaviour to them? > Have a nice day, > Tim