I love folks who ask the right questions & then take action!

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> RE: This person's gripe

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> > > When I saw that you maintain two groups, one for everyday

> > > people and one for " the elite " I saw through you,

> > > and dropped the association with your beliefs.

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> The person is upset because he doesn't have the

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> money to join the elite group. So instead of doing

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> something positive, he is bashing the group in its

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> entirety. (I haven't joined the elite for the same

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> reason, but I'm not going to vent a vein).

 

I agree with your post on a superfical level and disagree on a deep

structure level.

 

If someone cannot see value in doing something, THEN it costs too

much.

 

ONCE people understand what those skills are going to give them, THEN

achieving those technologies are just about worth any price.

 

Poverty consciousness is pretty rampant, and those who suffer from it

seemed to be doomed forever.

 

That's because they ask themselves the wrong questions, just like

sami asks the wrong questions.

 

Instead of asking proactive questions they ask self-limiting

questions and get very boxed in answers.

 

" I know I can't afford it and here are the reasons why... " is much

different from, " I love this stuff and I want it so if I could go to

the seminar, how could I manage that? "

 

Unfortunately that leads many to beg and plead their case. Like one

fellow told me " I don't have money. But I need your information. So

you should just allow me to come for free " .

 

Ugh!

 

Let me give another example.

 

Another fellow has knowledge that neither I or my son have...and he

loves to share it with him (my son) because he loves our stuff.

 

So I do reciprocate with him.

 

In fact he was a bit short during the time of my last Intensive...

 

....and he really wanted to come badly and asked me " how he could do

it? " ...

 

I love folks who ask the right questions & then take action!

 

.... so " I bought Him his ticket " and gave him all 4 events (total

value $3,700 bucks) for free.

 

But, was it really for free?

 

Did I do that because he whined?

 

Might be a great thread.

 

John M. La Tourrette, PhD

PS, he's already paid me back in full, and with interest for the

roundtrip plane flight, which I never asked him to do. He did it on

his own, with no asking. What does that tell you about him?

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He is very " balanced "

 

Helen

 

 

 

 

> PS, he's already paid me back in full, and with interest for the

> roundtrip plane flight, which I never asked him to do. He did it on

> his own, with no asking. What does that tell you about him?

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