Florie and her neighbor

[Guest guest]

Hi Florie,

 

Another way to not feel so helpless, but also allow your neighbor her own

path is to send energy to the situation, intending that it work out for

her highest good.

 

I find that it helps me let go of needing it to work out the way I want

it to, and allows me to feel that I have done my part. I don't think we

often know another soul's path, especially when their actions make no

sense to us. But we can always send prayers, Reiki, light, whatever you

like, to make that path easier.

 

Someone might still have to learn a lesson by experiencing what we see as

failure, but our added good wishes might make it faster, or easier to

recover from, or even help them relax enough to open their mind to

another way to learn it.

 

And in my experience it eases a lot of the tension between us, because I

am no longer sending out " but you're doing it wrong! " vibes, and am able

to accept them and their path.

 

My own natural tendency is to say " it would be so much easier if you just

do it right " (aka " my way " ), and learning to send energy to help them do

whatever it is they are going to do is still new. I generally try to

connect them to a golden energy net surrounding the earth, and ask for

clarity so everyone involved can see clearly.

 

Well, I hope something here helps --or helps you figure out something

more helpful.

 

Love,

Debbie Phillips, lurker

 

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Whoever undertakes to set himself up as judge in the field of truth and

knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods.

 

Albert Einstein

[Guest guest]

Dear Bonnie and Debbie;

 

Thank you both for your suggestions about sending energy to my sick

neighbor.

 

Both of your posts were thought-provoking, and I think I'm really on my way

to deciding how to best handle this particular situation.

 

I appreciate everyone's help and good wishes.

 

Be well,

 

Florie

 

PS: Hey, Debbie, stop lurking! You've got too much to offer--please share

it. Thanks in advance.