Guest guest Posted September 19, 2000 Report Share Posted September 19, 2000 Excuse me - I am very new to this list - have not even introduced myself but what is this all about? I can give you tons of anatomical info as to what happens even in a person's reptilian mind and our own physical responses and it is physiology without judgment and qualifying. Get this -we are human and as human beings we are mammals. Men are different than women (that is wonderful) and our society and upbringing makes us that way as well as our genes. Glory in it and don't find faltering in it or judgment. I will go out on the limb here and say I LOVE SEX . I am a practitioner and I feel so horrible for the many women that I treat that have fallen into the power game. Into the being that they cannot enjoy because they truly do not enjoy their own bodies and being in them. That they feel that having sex is somehow " giving " even more that they have. That they are surrendering to something outside themselves. But they have yet to understand that sex is an enjoyable thing for them. They have not let their own guard down and allowed themselves the pleasure that is there for them. It is not a subservient duty thing, it is miraculous and quite wonderful. It's a head trip that WE as women have chosen to acquire and it is a shame. Damn - I could write a book on all that I have heard and I too have been through - what a waste of my own soul and body and heart and being. Pheramones. We all have them - most of us don't understand the repitilian mind but we ALL experience it. Whatever - I will introduce myself soon. Patricia Gilmore, C.M.Ht. http://www.BeBest.com RECEIVE A FREE SUBSCRIPTION TO " BE YOUR VERY BEST " Wellness and Success Tips, Life Enhancement Techniques, Presentation Information and Empowerment. Be The Best That You Can Be - Empower Yourself !!! - <viv44 Monday, September 18, 2000 10:54 PM Re: Polygamy? > > I Often wondered why some men wondered, while some men had no problem being > faithful even in a very difficult relationship. I've talked to men who > would be distraught about > being pulled into extramarital affairs and would describe the situation in > the same > way I've heard people describe the addictive nature, of substance abuse, or > obsessive/compulsive disorders. I might add, the man's condition does not > obligate > his wife and children to stick it out with him, if it drags them down too. > > A couple of years ago, they had a program on the Discovery channel. It was > testing > male, white mice. One group was faithful and the other group sniffed out > all the girl > mouse's they could reach. Sum of this is that, the unfaithful mouse's > lacked an > important brain chemical, (the name of which escapes me now) that the > faithful > mouse's produced. They even did deliberate tests, by giving the faithful > mice a > drug that would deplete the specific, " faithful " chemical. Again the result > was the > original faithful mouse's, started carousing with the other girl mouse's. > Now granted, family genetics have a large influence in this, but it is not > the whole > picture. IMO, it's chemistry again, which brings us back to nutrition, and > finding > out the right combination of things for the individual. We may not know all > there > is about nutrition to cure infidelity, but the condition suggests the body > is out of > balance, and not just on a behavioral level. > > On the other side of it, this is not an excuse for a carouser to " cop out " , > with an > excuse, " it's genetic, and nothing can be done about it " . Even though we > don't > know in terms exactly the nutritional connection, at this time, it would > seem a > full medical workup and hair analysis would help, along with a healthy diet > and > alternative methods of healing, including acupuncture, Reiki, etc. I'd also > suggest > a big detour away from tranquilizers or most pharmaceuticals. The man's > condition > should be considered within the structure of an addiction, or a sever > obsessive/compulsive disorder. > > Viv* > > > > MidwifeST wrote: > > > > > Thanks to everyone for the advice and suggestions for my friend and his > lack > > > of sexual control. I will pass these on to him and hope they will help. > > > > > > Another friend made a comment about things like this not happening in > cultures > > > where men were aloud to have more than one wife, any comments? > > > > > > In love and light > > > Norma > > > > > **************************************** > Visit the community page: > For administrative problems -owner > To , - > > All messages, files and archives of this forum are copyright of the group and the individual authors. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 19, 2000 Report Share Posted September 19, 2000 LOL... Well, what an introduction. If you would care to read the archives, what we are talking about is a man who is having an issue with sexual infidelity that is breaking up his marriage, which he feels powerless to stop. Hypnosis has been suggested, and treating it as an addiction has also been suggested. The question was raised, as to whether it was just a social anomaly, and that if he was allowed more women within our social structure (i.e. polygamy) if he would be faithful. Somehow, I doubt it... if he truly has a problem, he'd find a way to step out on his wives, no matter how many he had of them. Look at King David, all the women he could handle and he wanted somebody else's wife. " P.M.Gilmore, C.M.Ht. " wrote: > Excuse me - I am very new to this list - have not even introduced myself but > what is this all about? I can give you tons of anatomical info as to what > happens even in a person's reptilian mind and our own physical responses and > it is physiology without judgment and qualifying. > -- Blessings, Crow " Look for Rainbows in the Darkness " -- --- Rev. Caroline Gutierrez Abreu, BS, RN, CHTP/I, CRMT, CH AIM: CaroCrow http://www.geocities.com/nrgbalance " We see things not as they are but as we are. " The Talmud " We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them. " Albert Einstein A wise person learns by the experience of others. An ordinary person learns by his or her own experience. A fool learns by nobody's experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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