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I'm actually surprised no one " bit " on this one <LOL>

 

No, I do not think that men require more than one woman for variety in the

boudoir, any more than women require more than one man. It is a matter of mind,

imagination, and work to maintain a healthy relationship, just like everything

else in life.

 

It is a two way street, however. If you want to keep the fox at home, you have

to act like a chicken sometimes ;-) We all have to compromise and communicate,

and then do it all over again the next day. I find there are very few problems

that people cannot truly work through if they are determined; the real problem

is that they are determined to indulge themselves and their weaknesses rather

than maintain a relationship. Priorities.

 

So I say, that anyone who can say that, must not be much of a man, because he is

not working to bring out the most in his woman; he is lazy, and prefers quantity

to quality, in himself and others.

 

That is an issue in a lot of addictive behavior; which is better, a single taste

of the perfect thing, or a basket full of mediocrity?

 

MidwifeST wrote:

 

> Thanks to everyone for the advice and suggestions for my friend and his lack

> of sexual control. I will pass these on to him and hope they will help.

>

> Another friend made a comment about things like this not happening in cultures

> where men were aloud to have more than one wife, any comments?

>

> In love and light

> Norma

>

> ****************************************

 

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Crow

" Look for Rainbows in the Darkness "

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AIM: CaroCrow

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" We see things not as they are but as we are. " The Talmud

 

" We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we

created them. " Albert Einstein

 

A wise person learns by the experience of others. An ordinary person learns by

his or her own experience. A fool learns by nobody's experience.

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I Often wondered why some men wondered, while some men had no problem being

faithful even in a very difficult relationship. I've talked to men who

would be distraught about

being pulled into extramarital affairs and would describe the situation in

the same

way I've heard people describe the addictive nature, of substance abuse, or

obsessive/compulsive disorders. I might add, the man's condition does not

obligate

his wife and children to stick it out with him, if it drags them down too.

 

A couple of years ago, they had a program on the Discovery channel. It was

testing

male, white mice. One group was faithful and the other group sniffed out

all the girl

mouse's they could reach. Sum of this is that, the unfaithful mouse's

lacked an

important brain chemical, (the name of which escapes me now) that the

faithful

mouse's produced. They even did deliberate tests, by giving the faithful

mice a

drug that would deplete the specific, " faithful " chemical. Again the result

was the

original faithful mouse's, started carousing with the other girl mouse's.

Now granted, family genetics have a large influence in this, but it is not

the whole

picture. IMO, it's chemistry again, which brings us back to nutrition, and

finding

out the right combination of things for the individual. We may not know all

there

is about nutrition to cure infidelity, but the condition suggests the body

is out of

balance, and not just on a behavioral level.

 

On the other side of it, this is not an excuse for a carouser to " cop out " ,

with an

excuse, " it's genetic, and nothing can be done about it " . Even though we

don't

know in terms exactly the nutritional connection, at this time, it would

seem a

full medical workup and hair analysis would help, along with a healthy diet

and

alternative methods of healing, including acupuncture, Reiki, etc. I'd also

suggest

a big detour away from tranquilizers or most pharmaceuticals. The man's

condition

should be considered within the structure of an addiction, or a sever

obsessive/compulsive disorder.

 

Viv*

 

 

> MidwifeST wrote:

>

> > Thanks to everyone for the advice and suggestions for my friend and his

lack

> > of sexual control. I will pass these on to him and hope they will help.

> >

> > Another friend made a comment about things like this not happening in

cultures

> > where men were aloud to have more than one wife, any comments?

> >

> > In love and light

> > Norma

>

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