It seems everyone around me has ADD

[Guest guest]

Hello everyone,

I have valued this group for years and just decided

the other night, while looking up the stars, that I

was going to make a couple statements here.

Most of my friends live in different states, but I

have been fortunate enough to round up a few close

ones here where I live. I am constantly frustrated

though, even though I try to remain calm and loving;

my friends, including my boyfriend (at times),

interrupt, don't pay attention, change the subject,

lose interest, space out,

I am being very serious here, this is very hard to

accept sometimes.

I have quit 2 jobs in the past several months because

of the high unnecessary stress levels in the

workplace. People are so gossipy and mean, so passive

aggressive in that they are nice to someones face and

then turn around and talk behinds that persons back. I

know life is tough for everyone these days, but I am

seeing dim and feeling grim of all of this seemingly

A.D.D. nonsense.

Maybe I shouldn't have chosen to live in a city where

everyone moves so fast, rushing around, going nowhere,

and forever failing to just watch the clouds go by.

Maybe I should slip everyone some kava kava in their

bottomless cups of coffee or pop.(just kidding) Or

perhaps I should move to a sleepy quiet town on top of

a mountain. Who knows? I'm tired of speaking

passionately about something, to someone, while

watching them look the other way, or worse, interrupt

me with a story of their own, about themselves. I'm

not boring, nor is what I speak of; at least I don't

think so, and I always give people the " time of day. "

love and light

brookelyn

 

 

 

 

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[Guest guest]

Hi,

After reading this description of your ADD " experience " it really sounds

like something else, not ADD. Even if there were something " like " ADD, it

doesn't actually represent a clinical condition. Have you read the book,

Rediscovering Real Medicine, by Jean Elmiger? I suggest this as a way of

introducing you to homeopathic solutions that may be of more sue to you

than quitting jobs, and constantly feeling frustrated. You CAN change the

way you feel, no matter what the situation, and indeed you must in order to

function in the increasingly hostile world that we seem to be living in.

 

I recommend that you use NSOL:

NSOL is made of 4 remedies: Natrum mur, Staphysagria, Opium, Lachesis

Nat-m for grief, loss

Staph for anger, violation of self

Opium for fear and being stuck

Lach for self-directed guilt and jealousy

 

Use each of the remedies at the same time, in the 30C potency. You

may be disadvantaged if you don't know how to use homeopathy, but these

remedies make up the standard treatment for nearly all conditions, and

provide a basis for other healing to take place, if that's truly what you

are seeking.

 

I would also consider getting a good book on NLP, like Heart of the Mind

by Connierae Andreas, to take control of your life again, and regain your

personal power. For too long, it sounds like you have allowed others to

determine how you feel, rather than YOU determining what your moods are

going to be. You are the captain of your ship, ,and only you can decide

who makes you sad, , mad or glad. Fill your life with happy people and

determine to be one of those " happy " people. You don't have to be

FAKE. What you do have to do, is to manage your emotions better, which is

why I suggest starting with homeopathy to unlock the trap you seem to be

feeling in many areas.

 

If your problem was really ADD, I'd suggest the remedy Medorrhinum, which

is a treatment for ADD, and it's actually the treatment for

gonorrhea. When dealing with the genetic miasms homeopathically, all the

sexual disorders are dealt with, and in many theories of homeopathy, they

support that all disease results from the root of sexually determined

genetic miasms. This would make sense to a wholistic practitioner who

sees the reproductive functions of the body as the same as the regenerative

functions. They are inseparable.

 

What I am hearing you say, isn't that you are sick, injured or otherwise

unhealthy, but that you are unable to " create " the life that you desire due

to circumstances that you feel are outside of your control. Of course,

this is a disabling lie from hell, and you have in fact, begun creating

your new path by sharing your needs on a list like this. Once you not only

perceive the control that you've always have had, but begin to FUNCTION

effectively within your chosen activities without " reacting " but ACTING the

way you want to in more situations in your life, then it will matter less

and less to you that there are people who are snotty, gossipy, mean,

passive aggressive, etc. because they will have no impact on your

emotional health. I have found that homeopathy does this quite nicely, by

handing control of your emotions back over to you.

 

 

 

Warmly,

Moe

 

 

 

 

 

> Mon, 4 Nov 2002 08:24:11 -0800 (PST)

> Brookelyn <faerierealmutopia

>It seems everyone around me has ADD

>

>Hello everyone,

>I have valued this group for years and just decided

>the other night, while looking up the stars, that I

>was going to make a couple statements here.

>Most of my friends live in different states, but I

>have been fortunate enough to round up a few close

>ones here where I live. I am constantly frustrated

>though, even though I try to remain calm and loving;

>my friends, including my boyfriend (at times),

>interrupt, don't pay attention, change the subject,

>lose interest, space out,

>I am being very serious here, this is very hard to

>accept sometimes.

>I have quit 2 jobs in the past several months because

>of the high unnecessary stress levels in the

>workplace. People are so gossipy and mean, so passive

>aggressive in that they are nice to someones face and

>then turn around and talk behinds that persons back. I

>know life is tough for everyone these days, but I am

>seeing dim and feeling grim of all of this seemingly

>A.D.D. nonsense.

>Maybe I shouldn't have chosen to live in a city where

>everyone moves so fast, rushing around, going nowhere,

>and forever failing to just watch the clouds go by.

>Maybe I should slip everyone some kava kava in their

>bottomless cups of coffee or pop.(just kidding) Or

>perhaps I should move to a sleepy quiet town on top of

>a mountain. Who knows? I'm tired of speaking

>passionately about something, to someone, while

>watching them look the other way, or worse, interrupt

>me with a story of their own, about themselves. I'm

>not boring, nor is what I speak of; at least I don't

>think so, and I always give people the " time of day. "

>love and light

>brookelyn

>

>

[Guest guest]

Brookelyn:

 

Though it is a rather harsh statement you make, I do agree somewhat

with what you say about everyone moving so fast and going nowhere in

the big cities today. People are in fact under a lot of stress, fear,

and anxiety today, and modern life just doesn't provide much support

for living fully in the present moment.

 

At the same time, when it comes to our criticisms of others, it may

be helpful to remember, as some great teachers have said, that " we

see in others what we are unable to see in ourselves. " Another way to

put this is that " our being attracts our life. "

 

So, finally, it may come down to beginning to " listen " to ourselves

more sincerely from the inside. In doing so, we might see that many

of the things we criticize in others are the very things that are

often operative in ourselves--although we mostly refuse to see them.

It's quite a shock--but very freeing--to realize that in many ways we

create the world that we perceive. And so does everyone else. This

can bring us a real sense of compassion both for ourselves and

others. And this compasion will, in fact, begin to change our

relationships and make them more creative and fulfilling.

 

I recently wrote a short piece on " listening " and another

on " relationship " that you might enjoy. You can find them, among

others, at:

 

http://www.authentic-breathing.com/spiritual_perspectives.htm

 

With my best wishes,

 

Dennis Lewis

http://www.authentic-breathing.com

 

, Brookelyn <faerierealmutopia>

wrote:

> Hello everyone,

> I have valued this group for years and just decided

> the other night, while looking up the stars, that I

> was going to make a couple statements here.

> Most of my friends live in different states, but I

> have been fortunate enough to round up a few close

> ones here where I live. I am constantly frustrated

> though, even though I try to remain calm and loving;

> my friends, including my boyfriend (at times),

> interrupt, don't pay attention, change the subject,

> lose interest, space out,

> I am being very serious here, this is very hard to

> accept sometimes.

> I have quit 2 jobs in the past several months because

> of the high unnecessary stress levels in the

> workplace. People are so gossipy and mean, so passive

> aggressive in that they are nice to someones face and

> then turn around and talk behinds that persons back. I

> know life is tough for everyone these days, but I am

> seeing dim and feeling grim of all of this seemingly

> A.D.D. nonsense.

> Maybe I shouldn't have chosen to live in a city where

> everyone moves so fast, rushing around, going nowhere,

> and forever failing to just watch the clouds go by.

> Maybe I should slip everyone some kava kava in their

> bottomless cups of coffee or pop.(just kidding) Or

> perhaps I should move to a sleepy quiet town on top of

> a mountain. Who knows? I'm tired of speaking

> passionately about something, to someone, while

> watching them look the other way, or worse, interrupt

> me with a story of their own, about themselves. I'm

> not boring, nor is what I speak of; at least I don't

> think so, and I always give people the " time of day. "

> love and light

> brookelyn

>

>

>

>

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