Healing relationships with Reiki.

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Healing Relationships With Reiki

 

by Laura Ellen Gifford

 

As we progress on our journey through life, many

opportunities are presented to develop relationships

with other people. When we are small children, we form

our relationship with ourself, our parents, siblings

and other family members. When we go to school we add

our friends, peers, and teachers to our lives. As

young adults, romantic relationships often become the

focus. If we choose to marry, or otherwise commit

ourselves to another person, the romantic relationship

brings us almost back to the beginning, as we now have

new family members and friends to relate with.

 

Reiki is a very effective tool to assist in creating

and nurturing successful relationships in your life.

The first step is to recognize that each relationship

is a living creation. It is a special blend of

energies between people. Once you recognize the

relationship as a life form, it becomes much easier to

detach your thoughts and emotions and be able to serve

as a channel of healing energy which is directed tothe

relationship.

 

When there is an imbalance in a relationship, it is

very often rooted in power issues, and/or fear. The

first step in healing a relationship with Reiki is to

identify the areas of weakness or imbalance. You need

to focus on the action of identifying these areas. It

is often helpful to select an object, that can

physically represent the relationship. Items like

pictures, crystals, or gifts the parties have given to

each other can serve very effectively in this role.

 

The purpose of selecting an object is to more clearly

focus the healing energy when you are working on the

relationship, and to give you a point of reference to

visualize when conflicts arise. For example you may

wish to select a quartz cluster to represent your

family relationship with your parents, or a tantric

twin crystal for a life partner. By selecting the

object to use in your meditations and healing work,

you can bring the energy of it to you through

visualization by simply thinking of the object.

 

Often there are weaknesses in relationships that

produce symptoms which are very much on the surface,

and only glimpses of the real issues. As The Course in

Miracles teaches us; " I am never angry for the reason

I think I am. " We attract relationships into our lives

to assist with our growth. A very common way this

happens is for a person who faces lessons of power and

control to select a relationship with either a very

controlling, or a very docile person. Learning to

bring this energy into balance is vital for the

relationship to survive, or to transform peacefully.

 

To determine the issues you need to work on to heal

your relationship, select the object which represents

the relationship. Find a special place to keep it, an

altar, a table or shelf, where you can keep other

items away from it so the energy field is not

disrupted. If you want to carry your object with you

keep it in a special carrying case, or perhaps a

scarf. Find a quiet time and place where you will not

be interrupted by the telephone, or other people. Sit

or stand before the object in a comfortable position,

and create a prayer of intent. Something like;

 

" Creator, Infinite Spirit, Mother Father God, I

request the presence of the Angels and Archangels of

Healing, my Reiki guides and forces, and the purest

and most holy spiritual guides. I ask that these

energies gather with me at this time for the purpose

of healing the relationship of (name all parties

involved). I ask that I be guided to determine the

imbalances in the relationship, and that the lessons

needed be made clear so all concerned may grow with

Divine Love. Thank you for this guidance. Amen. "

 

Then draw all the Reiki symbols you are attuned to

over the object, and invoke the sacred name of each

symbol three times as you draw them. (If you are a

Reiki I practitioner you can do this without the

symbols) Then draw the symbols on your palms, crown,

third eye, throat and heart chakras. When this process

is complete ask the Reiki energy to flow fully and

completely through you for the purpose of clarity and

healing this relationship. Let the energy flow as long

as you feel it. The first time you empower the object

it is good to try to allow at least 30 minutes for

this work. Subsequent work can be accomplished

sometimes in 5 minutes, but try to allow at least 15.

 

When you feel the process is complete seal it in

Divine Love and Healing. It is very important to then

acknowledge the healing that has taken place by giving

thanks to all the guides and forces which assisted

you, and send Reiki back to them. This is to balance

the energies between you and your guides, and to

create a complete acknowledgment within your entire

spiritual, mental, emotional and physical being that

your prayer has been answered and the healing has

taken place. This signals to your mental and emotional

being to be aware on the conscious level when issues

present themselves in the relationship, that they are

being offered as opportunities to heal. As each and

every issue comes up ask why it is presented to you,

what is the source of your discomfort with it, and how

can you perceive it in a positive light?

 

You will be presented with the answers in many forms,

so be open and aware. God speaks to us in infinite

ways.

 

Often problems in relationships are simply related to

the perspective in which we see things. We each live

in our own Perspective Reality, based on our

experiences. When we can step into another's

Perspective Reality and see the situation through

their eyes, based on knowledge of their experiences,

it is much easier to understand one another. When we

understand something, we no longer fear it, and our

relationship is healed. Remember, Reiki always

produces results on some level, and no prayer goes

unanswered. Wishing you much peace and joy in all your

relationships.

 

In the Light of the Creator ...We See Only Love

 

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