Help needed to save marriage

May 3, 2006

My Dear Friends,

I am very sorry to trouble you. My friends are in difficulty and need to guide them. Following is the question sent to me, I have already answered. But in case if you know more, I would highly appreciate it.

Such questions touch my heart and disturb me.

Once again sorry for troubling you all.

Question:

Hi! Not to sure what category to put this in. I am writing on behalf of a friend who is extremely depressed as she has landed herself in serious problem and is in a position where there is nothing she can do. She is Muslim and her husband is hindu and they got married 3 years ago. Her family organised a grand wedding and were not aware that the guys parents were unare that a wedding had taken place at all. My friends husband told her that they would have to tell his parents after his eldest brother got married and if they get married the parents would eventually agree. Finally they confessed to the parents and the parents want the son to return home and immediately divorce his wife. Now he is getting a lot of pressure from his parents and he is feeling extremely guilty and has decided to divorce his wife. The only option he has given her is if she gets pregnant wihin the next couple of months then he will stay with her. She is trying for a baby but im assuming with all the stress its just not happening. Any advice on this situation would be greatly appreciated. Also is there any mantras prayers she can do to help save her marriage? She is willing to try anything to save her marriage.

Answer:

My Dear,

It is very sad to hear about the girl. She can recite Lahol, Darud and Aital Kursi as many times as possible. Following Duas are also useful: " Hasbunallahu va ni amal vakilu " , OR " Allahu Allahu Rabbi La Ushriqu Bihi Shaiaa " these are mainly for any kind of serious problem.

Let her trust Allah. Whatever Allah/God does, does for good. Believe in luck, fate, destiny created by him. Allah will guide her on right path and show her destiny.

By continuing with this boy may lead to more periodic harrassments......mental, physical from the boy himself or his parents in future. In fact she is lucky for not bearing a child. She will be bound to the boy and his family and become helpless by all means, once becomes a mother.

I can understand that it is easy to advise others but difficult for them to follow in practical life.

If she is following Hindu religion, then let her say " Shee Ganeshaya Namaha " and " Om Namoh Shivaya " continuously. Lord Ganesha disperses all problems and gives luck, happiness and prosperity.

Wishing her Best Of Luck " .