Guest guest Posted April 30, 2008 Report Share Posted April 30, 2008 DEVOTEE EXPERIENCE - Contributed by Geetha Reddy Anant, Hyderabad Sai Ram To All I was suffering from deception, material losses, betrayal and physical assault. The expected outcome was depression, very high sugar levels and severe diabetic condition with a reading of 460-75. I suffered because that was karmic. My secretary even presented me with Sai Satcharita - but my sanskaras perhaps prevented me from reading it. But His grace and blessings had to lead me to it. Finally when the situation became desperate with court cases and police stations, losing properties in the court and I was left without even a house to stay in, I took shelter in a government quarter. Then one day a friend suggested that I visit the Sai temple and read Satcharita. I read it in a saptaah. Then I read it in one day. Then someone suggested I read Gurucharita. I read that too. Each story and chapter was a revealing lesson to me. I learnt a lot. Meanwhile, my health improved. Earlier I could not walk and found it very painful to stand up after squatting for a while. I was detected with cancer in both breasts. I did parikramas. The next scan projected an arrest - status quo. My health improved. My daughter secured a seat in medical school. I received the promotion that was denied to me for 23 years. One of my research articles caught the attention of the Prime Minister’s staff and I received appreciation. Even now I get depressed because the forces that are creating difficulties are so many, but I chant the name of Sai - consciously and sub-consciously every waking minute of the day. He has finally, after testing me for years, willed so much progress in a span of three years. He will right every wrong done to me by fellow men and women. I have found the beauty of his omnipresence even in China - when I wondered when I can see a champa flower. When I returned - the first Thursday after I returned, the priest at the temple gave me a champa flower from His lotus feet. He is there when I seek Him. Without Him I would have perished. My only worry - this morning in chapter 16 of Sri Gurucharitra, I have read about the duties of a woman. I see that only women have responsibilities and duties. Men do not. No matter what husbands may do wives must tolerate and have forbearance and patience. I have been married for 24 years. From day one I was exploited, abused, taunted, maligned, and beaten up. I had to bring up my two children with little or no support from my husband. He has neglected the children too. I have never neglected my duties as a daughter in law. They were my responsibility and I served them with pleasure. I cannot even repeat some of the things said to me. I have paid up his debts. All this is possible by Sai's Grace. But as a mortal I always craved for a little concern - some affection - it has never come through. I am working and therefore financially not on the road. But in similar situations, women who are not educated, not employed, have to find other ways. Why should they not remarry so someone better can take care of them? I know shaastras say something different. They were written when the world was not so materially oriented. Now everything is money based. So employment is important. If the husband cannot support should the wife commit suicide? What about the children? I feel strongly that some system be evolved to make life more secure for women and children and old parents. Some of my doubts and questions are answered soon and some after a long time. But no query goes unanswered. I am developing more and more faith in Baba. I am sure He is The One! Om Sri Sai Ram Geetha Reddy Anant Hyderabad ______________________________\ ____ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 9, 2008 Report Share Posted May 9, 2008 Dear brother Swamiji, Sai Ram! spiritually there is only one Purusha in the world., we can choose divine relation as our atma wants and it happens as written .. Our Vedas does not differentiate that for men or women. However, Our ancient ancestors separated this long time ago and even kept Vedas away from women... maybe because of wars , invasions and focus on family..etc Buddha broke it by opening up the surrender for women and the doors for Bikshuni's. Baba knows when the human relationships which is anyway maya and not permananent and needs to be broken and when prayed to HIM personally will come to the rescue to the caller.. Our manu Shasstra's dictate the niyams of conduct for an orderly society that can follow truth and dharma, but when there is adharmam done in a marriage - maybe that union is to be broken and if they have to marry agin to seek support from each other and follow life continue following the path of dharma , is to be applicable to a man, can be applied to the woman.. Women revere husbands to be their GODS, first their Father till marriage, then their husband as the established margam long time ago. Also when children are born, she becomes divine and has her duty to make the young be able to stand on their own in the right way .. Any creature that gives birth ( animal, birds are human ), there is a fierce protectiveness and strength given to the female to protect , cherish and nurture the young .. again this is the innate strength given to women by God to bringing forth other jivatma's to the world.. Praying to Baba as Parashakthi helps .. He will give atma Gyananam.. Atma transcends gender, religion, caste , creed ..everything .. But everything that is done for GOD and only GOD first becomes sanctified... then all actions make sense .. those that does not make sense will clear away the path sooner or later .. God also plays the part of parama purusha for stranded widows, single women, stranded ,abused women and also those that just call him for the purity of love for HIM and do not consider any other relationship meaningful.. .. As she stated that real affection does not come through .. Only permanent love and relationship is with GOD. To feel that one should feel GOD is second to none..everything belongs to GOD..even our actions .. but if we have not surrendered that to GOD, we write our own fates with the actions .. as HE will leave it for free will of mind.. Once you feel GOD's love, you will reflect on others without any expectations .. as you are already saturating with the sweetness of Divine Love.. there is not much pain in life afterwards and if it is. .He has the salve to soothe it for you.. Christianity and buddhism created the ways for nuns , bikshuni's .. Hinduism is not that formal .. I did not have this devotees email, but if you feel my response is appropriate .. and will be received well .. please forward.. i prefer not to communicate except through you, if possible.. Priya Sharma , swamy mahadevan <mahadevanvnswamy wrote: > > > DEVOTEE EXPERIENCE - Contributed by Geetha Reddy > Anant, Hyderabad > > Sai Ram To All > > I was suffering from deception, material losses, > betrayal and physical assault. The expected outcome > was depression, very high sugar levels and severe > diabetic condition with a reading of 460-75. I > suffered because that was karmic. My secretary even > presented me with Sai Satcharita - but my sanskaras > perhaps prevented me from reading it. But His grace > and blessings had to lead me to it. Finally when the > situation became desperate with court cases and police > stations, losing properties in the court and I was > left without even a house to stay in, I took shelter > in a government quarter. > > Then one day a friend suggested that I visit the Sai > temple and read Satcharita. I read it in a saptaah. > Then I read it in one day. Then someone suggested I > read Gurucharita. I read that too. Each story and > chapter was a revealing lesson to me. I learnt a lot. > Meanwhile, my health improved. > > Earlier I could not walk and found it very painful to > stand up after squatting for a while. I was detected > with cancer in both breasts. I did parikramas. The > next scan projected an arrest - status quo. My health > improved. My daughter secured a seat in medical > school. I received the promotion that was denied to me > for 23 years. One of my research articles caught the > attention of the Prime Minister's staff and I received > appreciation. > > Even now I get depressed because the forces that are > creating difficulties are so many, but I chant the > name of Sai - consciously and sub-consciously every > waking minute of the day. He has finally, after > testing me for years, willed so much progress in a > span of three years. He will right every wrong done to > me by fellow men and women. I have found the beauty of > his omnipresence even in China - when I wondered when > I can see a champa flower. When I returned - the first > Thursday after I returned, the priest at the temple > gave me a champa flower from His lotus feet. He is > there when I seek Him. Without Him I would have > perished. > > My only worry - this morning in chapter 16 of Sri > Gurucharitra, I have read about the duties of a woman. > I see that only women have responsibilities and > duties. Men do not. No matter what husbands may do > wives must tolerate and have forbearance and patience. > I have been married for 24 years. From day one I was > exploited, abused, taunted, maligned, and beaten up. I > had to bring up my two children with little or no > support from my husband. He has neglected the children > too. I have never neglected my duties as a daughter in > law. > > They were my responsibility and I served them with > pleasure. I cannot even repeat some of the things said > to me. I have paid up his debts. All this is possible > by Sai's Grace. But as a mortal I always craved for a > little concern - some affection - it has never come > through. I am working and therefore financially not on > the road. But in similar situations, women who are not > educated, not employed, have to find other ways. > > Why should they not remarry so someone better can take > care of them? I know shaastras say something > different. They were written when the world was not so > materially oriented. Now everything is money based. So > employment is important. If the husband cannot support > should the wife commit suicide? What about the > children? I feel strongly that some system be evolved > to make life more secure for women and children and > old parents. > > Some of my doubts and questions are answered soon and > some after a long time. But no query goes unanswered. > I am developing more and more faith in Baba. I am sure > He is The One! > > Om Sri Sai Ram > Geetha Reddy Anant > Hyderabad > > > > > ___________________ _______________ > Be a better friend, newshound, and > know-it-all with Mobile. 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