Guest guest Posted October 9, 2007 Report Share Posted October 9, 2007 OUR CHILDREN(Chapter 23) We must raise our children in such a way that from early childhood they develop this divine connection with the Lord. Parents are custodians not owners of their children. They belong to the Lord and are His life and blood. He will guide, mold and make them His very own and as such, they have the right to a great deal of leniency providing they take to this path of love. We are entrusted with this incredible duty, responsibility to bring up our children in a manner that will please God, in a manner that will make Him proud. Yet all too often we bring up our children as images of ourselves and we want them to do what pleases us rather than what pleases the Lord. At times, we even see the Lord as a threat and competitor for our child's affections. If only we ourselves could turn to the Lord and in turn make our children lead such lives also. At an early age, it is so much easier to develop this love, to acquire this divine guidance, this divine feeling for the Lord. From adults, He seeks so much more in the way of faith, confidence and love, which must spring from the heart but with children, merely the love will suffice. Love of parents and a stable home helps a child to avoid vagrancy and drugs. They can proceed so much faster and quicker in this path and achieve in childhood, at a young age, what we are yet struggling to attain. Every parent on this earth, everyone responsible for another has a duty to guide their charge on this path of love. Everyone in charge of another should teach, inculcate only this love for God and instill all the principles and values of right living, right conduct and right action and this love of God. Where there is love of God, all disciplines and values will emerge from the heart by themselves as naturally as a flower turns towards the sun. It is the one and only way. Loving God is the only way to easily assimilate all the other teachings; to assimilate all of the Lord's advices. Once on the path of love, everything else falls into place by itself. It is not needed for children to learn so much these days. It is not necessary because we can have a computer. If we know the code, we can get access to anything and everything. Love cannot be obtained from a computer. What we need to teach children today is to think for themselves, to have intelligence, to be able to use information correctly, to apply and make use of information. But is that all we want? No, what is the point of being full of knowledge, full of intelligence, but no peace. What is the point of being rich and powerful, when there is no happiness in life? It is worthless. Our life must be full of peace and joy, happiness and love. If we can have that, then everything else will have meaning. If we have a lot of knowledge and we go and take advantage of other people, we have no love in our heart. That is worthless. So we want children to grow full of love, full of sacrifice, so that they can serve humanity. We must tell children that it is easy to do good, to do bad is very difficult. Now when we say that to do good is easy, it also means that to control our emotions is easy because it is doing good. It is easy to control our anger. Take, for example, a big house. When the sun is not there then the house is dark, the surroundings are dark. But when the sun comes up, the darkness disappears. The sun doesn't have to drive away the darkness, the sun doesn't have to fight the darkness, not at all, it simply appears and darkness disappears. So, in the same way, the darkness within ourselves, that is the anger, hatred, desires, jealousy and envy, that is the emotion that we have to learn to control. That is the darkness within ourselves. Nature shows us, when there is light, darkness cannot appear. All we need to do is to bring about light within our heart. What is that light within our heart? It is love, it is peace, see good, do good, hear good, say good, think good, that is the way to live, that is the path to God. That is the light that we bring within our own hearts. Now, when we bring in all these things into our hearts, it becomes light. When we have love in our heart, how can we be angry with anyone? It's impossible. How can we be envious if we have love? When we have love in our heart, anger cannot coexist. Light and darkness cannot be together. That is the light that can dispel the negative emotions. When we do not have anger, when we do not have hatred, jealousy, envy, attachment, then the result is peace. We must teach children to raise this conscious mind upwards all the time. To do this, they should see good, do good, hear good, think good all the time. This will control the subconscious mind, bring about peace, so there will be no anger, hatred, envy or jealousy, automatically the conscious mind is raised upwards. Then we are in contact with God. We can win His love. Then we get to know what is the truth, the truth of the universe, the truth about everything, the real truth, the truth that does not change. This is how we can obtain this truth, to understand about the purpose of our life, to understand about ourselves and who we are. To acquire this love and truth is really the purpose of our life. By doing so, we are far away from our emotions, there will be no anger or hatred and we will have peace, joy, contentment and love. There is something that can help us raise that conscious level in children very easily. And that is the love energy. It has been found that if children lack love, they suffer. The children who lack love from parents or children have been abandoned by parents, they suffer. The morality rate for children who are orphans is very high. It is important that we hold the children, talk to the children, give love to children. They become normal children. So love is very important. When we receive love, all our problems disappear, automatically we get peace, automatically our actions become right; automatically the conscious mind is raised upwards. Therefore, we must teach children to develop love and to give love. By having love, we attract love, we attract the same energy, by radiating our love throughout the world, the world will fill us with love. So draw this energy towards you and automatically the conscious mind is raised upwards to great heights. The prime objective is to further a child's ability to look within, to find its own source, realize its own divinity by living correctly with humility. This cannot be achieved by indoctrination or pressure but through teaching by example, by heart to heart language, whereby the child is made aware of something precious already in its possession. A child is always looking for exemplars. Always keep in mind that science without humanity, education without character, politics without principles and commerce without morality is useless and positively dangerous. Education must lead to character. (From : THE KEY TO GOD'S HEART by R SAI)Copyright by the Author. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or means without permission of the Author. Visit : Sai Messages : http://saimessages.blogspot.com/ Sai Divine Inspirations : http://saidivineinspirations.blogspot.com/ Love Is My Form : http://loveismyform.blogspot.com/ (for non-Sai members) Pinpoint customers who are looking for what you sell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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