To Gaurav / serious help needed

[Guest guest]

Dear Gaurav,

 

 

 

I am deeply pained to learn these happenings around you, despite you

have tried or trying everything. You must first realize that, you are a

blessed and fortunate person. The reason are many, but two important

reasons I see clearly are (1) you are born as a human and (2) you are

getting support and help from people around.

 

 

 

It is very clear that the fulcrum has shifted and you are not balanced

properly, both mentally and physically. Physical well-being is a must.

So try to live a normal life (with good food, sleep, reading and work).

If you do work out (yoga, or gym, or simple walk or running) that will

be very good. Don't overdo things.

 

 

 

Its you who have to find the solutions. In my personal life, I

struggled over problems, but I never gave up. When results came good it

felt the sweetest, when it did not, I took it as it is. Don't agonize,

it will ruin you otherwise. You have to absolutely win over it, and

show us that you did it.

 

 

 

There is only one person in this world who can really help you, comfort

you, give solutions, and he is your pure divine energy within you and

it is upto you how do you tap it. I can see you have tried all the

options that the members suggested, and have not left any stone

unturned. Good job! Now, prepare yourself for the test ahead. Start it

by pure divine meditation.

 

Forget for the moment who you are with no

desires attached. Read something absolutely blissful, that brings tears

to eyes, think of a situation where you have absolute peace - go there

while meditating. Think of a tough challenge in your life you faced and

you were victorious in that situation- these might help you fight the

problem, rejuvenate yourself. Think of practical and feasible ways to

solve the problem. If need be, you have to be diplomatic. Give an

honest effort, which you think you can do about it. It is also

important to do justice to one's life.

 

If you have found a job, focus

on it, if you don't have an employment, try finding better means. You

know your own resources better than anyone. Present consequences are

results of past actions and choices, so don't complicate the present

for the forthcoming good future. We want to learn from our mistakes,

and set examples others may want to follow in future.

 

 

 

Cheer up! you have a purpose to live this world, for you and for all,

with pride, dignity and self-belief. And don't let the problem eat you

up. The human soul is too big for it.

 

 

 

Once you find the inner balance, the problem will be solved. Finding that may be

critical, but it is not impossible.

 

 

 

Best wishes,

 

 

 

Sudipta