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Rudraksha Bead Societies ClubDear Anil,

 

1) Please use influencers, your mother/father/brother/sister-in-Law are your

friends, speak to them. Make use of common family friends.

 

2) Please focus on your career & invite your spouse to join you at UK.

 

3) Be a good listener to your spouse & apologise if she expects you to do so,

perhaps she feels ignored.

 

4) By all possibilities her parents would like patch up & separation is last

resort.

 

5) Appreciate all the good things about your spouse & tell her that you love

her.

 

6) You are being stupid & kiddish to get into argument with your spouse, allow

her to be winner, learn to loose arguments to make your spouse a winner.

 

7) Read men are from Mars & women are from Venus

 

8) Stop applying logic to everything & accept your spouse the way she is. To

make relation work is your responsibility & learn to take onus & stop blaming

her.

 

9) Lord Shivji has also done mistakes & had to repent & so Lord Ganesha was

born.

 

10) Pick up the phone & tell your spouse & all members of in-laws you love them

& apologise to them & save your marriage. Do not expect others to change, change

yourself first. I am part Himachali & stay at Shimla, separations are rare over

here. Make a point to fulfill all desires of your wife, Read Kamasutra, ancient

wisdom

 

GOD bless you !!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

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Tuesday, September 01, 2009 7:53 PM

RBSC : Digest Number 3017

 

 

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1. Serious Issues in my Marriage

Posted by: " anil_patial " anil_patial anil_patial

Mon Aug 31, 2009 9:00 pm (PDT)

 

 

Namashkar,

Respected members of forum, I need your help in resolving my marriage

issues. My marriage is going through serious problems.

I am currently abroad on company work starting Jun '09. My wife was staying

with our 2 kids (5 1/2 and 1 year old sons) in Bangalore. She left bangalore to

stay with her parents in Himachal on last week of Jul, after we had 2-3

arguments over phone while I was in UK.

 

She now has filed maintenance allowance case and alleging me of beating her

mercilessly and not maintenaing her or children. To cut the long story short, I

want to know where our marriage is headed. I am concerned about my kids life, my

job, and god knows what she has thought for her life.

 

I am stressed out and its getting impossible to do my office work. Could you

please give some hint what is the future of my family now. I do not want to file

divorce case because I am not ready to think of anything that will jeopardize my

family's life, nor I am interested in any other woman for that matter.

 

My birth details: 21-Jul-1973, 23:50, PALAMPUR (H.P), Revati Nakshtra.

 

My wifes details: 31-Aug-1975: 19:55, PALAMPUR (H.P), Rohini-4 Nakshtra.

 

Please advise.

 

Regards

Anil