To Manoj / Rudraksha

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Namaskar Manoj,

 

Good that you're continuing to wear 17 mukhi along with your Personal

Mala, and also obtaining additional beads for yourself, your wife and

son., Ancient scriptures mention that the gifting of rudrakshas is a

meritous act.

 

Sorry to hear about your son and wife not getting on well at the

moment. Maybe you and your wife should discuss his behavior out of

his earshot and how she treats him daily, or whether he is naughty

due to rebelliousness. When a perfectly good child suddenly changes

in behavior towards one parent, there is something wrong. You also

need to sit down with your son (on his own) and ask him to tell you

what is wrong.

 

There are situations where we treat kids in a particular way and mean

it for their own good but they could never understand why. Its

essential to iron out any differences. Its important to tell and

make the kid understand why a parent is doing what he/she is doing.

 

Right now, its probably not possible for your wife to talk to your

son so he can understand her reasons for doing certain things. As the

other parent whom he still gets on with, you should have a quiet chat

with him but do not scold him. Do not make him feel guilty or sorry.

Those thoughts and feeings have to come from him personally. When he

realizes where he went wrong, I'm sure he will naturally apologize to

your wife.

 

You are wise to try divert your son's extra energy to meditation.

This will be very helpful to him even though he can't focus much

sometimes. There seems to be a kind of boiling anger that your son is

feeing. Pleas try to find out what it is as soon as possible. If

your wife has a tendency to nag at him, please tell her to stop it.

If there are things he should be doing and obeying, both you and her

should sit him down and tell him together and calmly. Never raise

your voices. When parents raise thwir voices, children can become

even more disrespectful without realizing it.

 

You're getting him the right beads as 7 mukhi Mahalaxmi Rudraksha

rules over Saturn. Rudrakshas do not have side effects so your son

can safely wear them during the entire period of Shani Mahadasha. If

possible, take him to a temple on Saturdays or pray at home to

Hanumanji. Hanumanji's mace controls 8 planets and his tail controls

Shani. Shan's malefic gaze can never fall on Hanumanji's face unless

Hanumanji permits it. Once in a year or two, have a homam done at

your home.

 

Hope this helps.

 

Om Bholenath