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Namaste Hiroko,

 

Try to take it easy at home and sometimes listen to your mother even though she

may be wrong. All mothers like their children to listen to them. If she has a

fierce temper, try not to provoke her. Tell her you want peace and harmony at

home, and don't want to upset her.

 

In Japan, all older people always feel they are correct in everything. As you

are younger, they expect you to pay attention and do what they say. Don't argue

with them. Sometimes do it. Sometimes don't do it but don't let them know. This

is one way of avoiding confrontation with elders in Japanese culture.

 

There will always be problems when people live at home with parents or other

family members. Some families try to avoid troubles when all members compromise

with one another about personal habits, likes and dislikes.

 

Rudraksha has nothing to do with problems at home. Rudrakshas are worn by

individuals for spiritual purposes and for self betterment. Slowly everyone

will find their true path, find solutions to problems and avenues to move

forward to a good future.

 

Wishing you happiness.

 

Om Namah Shivaya

 

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Namaste.

 

I fight with mother every day.

I am tired.

 

Om