Guest guest Posted October 8, 2007 Report Share Posted October 8, 2007 Thank you Narsimhayeji, No my father is in USA, no contact at all on his side. As for my marriage's permission, It was an arranged marriage selected by my mother. We are in touch & it's not that grave hate relationship. After birth of my daughter things have softened a lot, she is 5 yrs now. Regarding financial condition, my mother is very prudent. She refused any maintanence after divorce, did'nt ask for her share of property from her father (i.e. my nanaji), and even refuses to ask any share from my father's side. Now he and all his relatives being in the US, there is no meaning of the paternal part. At 15 years of age she managed to buy a small apartment on bank loan which is still pending for 3 more years. She is working as a primary school teacher. Regarding my income, it is not so much as it appears. There is lot of professional competition these days with lots of people ready to do any job at measly pay scales. Hence when supply is more than demand, you get negligible pay actually (on paper it is a lot to show in their accounts, but we have to return a large amount back; so what is left is not much). Also Surat is a very costly place to live, what used to cost 3.5 lakhs 3 years ago now costs 35-40 lakhs. Such has been the inflation. So very difficult to buy a house. Thus we have to manage on rent which is also very high. Same for the school fees and donation. Many such things and no lavish lifestyle as it appears to you. I mean the problem is genuine and not just a perception as you might think. Regards, Dr. Pritesh Patel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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