Gift of rudrakaha problem..???

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Namaste Gina, its not at all a strange question so there's an

apology is not necessary

 

The first paragraph of your message is the most preferable practice

as the electromagnetic properties of your rudraksha have bonded with

you.

 

If you purchase a mala or bead from a market, there is no telling

that the previous owner is of your own generation. You would have to

ask the seller to furnish more information. At the same time, be

aware that the seller may tell you what he/she thinks you wish to

hear. Only you can gauge whether he/she is telling the truth or

lying when speaking to the seller in person.

 

There isn't a puja as such to nullify your energies from the beads

before giving them to someone else. But you can try washing, drying

and oiling them first. Then place them on the altar and offer

flowers, fruit, unsalted nuts, milk, honey and prayers to Lord Shiva,

telling Him why you wish to give your rudraksha away and seeking His

blessings.

 

If your upaguru tells you there is no conflict, then there won't be

one (most likely). You know your friend and her vibes best. If you

feel there will not be a loss of energy on your part after gifting,

then that's fine.

 

However, if something has benefited you such as your Siddha Bracelet,

its best to keep it. Its very generous of you to want to give it to

your friend. But its more advisable to give her/him something else in

the interim and tell your friend you have something special coming

soon, that is have a new Siddha Bracelet made for the person.

 

Here's a true story:

A person gave her rudraksha mala and a terminated clear quartz to her

best friend who was doing poorly in circumstances with no career

prospects. She was going to replace the items later. Before she

could do that, she went down with a bad flu, lost her strength and

subsequently prosperity literally went out the door. Her friend

flourished on the other hand and went on to create a successful small

business within a short period of time, found a boyfriend and a

social group. That was years ago. To this day, the giver has not

recovered. Coincidence? We don't know for sure.

 

Anyhow, don't take my word for it, I'm only sharing thoughts based on

other people's experiences. Like mentioned before, you know your

friend best and can gauge the energies (or energy exchange) between

the two of you. Most of all, follow your Upaguru's advice.

 

Om Namah Shivaya

 

 

 

, " paxetamo "

<mirmade wrote:

>

> Namaste,

>

> I pose a strange question, sorry.

> I have read that once a rudraksha bead has been owned (worn?) it

> cannot be given to another unless the recipient is of the next

generation.

>

> Yet if I purchase a mala or bead in the market, how do I know the

> previous owner is not of my own generation?

>

> More importantly, while I recognize that the beads synch their

> energies with the energy of the owner/wearer, is there a puja that

can

> negate this,so it may be given to someone else?

 

> I wish to bestow rudraksha as a gift for a friend, and I do not have

> the time to purchase a new one for that person before the event

which

> the gift will be given.

 

> My Upaguru tells me there is no conflict, as I wouldn't feel

inclined

> to part with this bracelet if it had not already benefited me and is

> ready to bless another (it is Javanese Siddh bracelet).

> Does the love with which I offer it preclude any conflict?

>

> Bom Bom BholeNath

> Gina

>