looking for help....(love)

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Namaste Koolbreeze, you are not going to like what I'm about to say

but please know I that mean well.....

 

Yours is a very difficult problem to solve but the answers actually

lie within you. One answer is please try to understand Maya and

Leela. Another answer is your willpower to control your feelings and

let go of the girl. Love cannot be forced. Do not force the girl's

destiny to be with you. Its bad karma to force someone to love you

when she doesn't love you at all.

 

All the indications are there that a relationship with her is not

going to work, i.e. she does not love you, both your families have

many differences at social and professional levels. This means the

families are not going to agree to a match-making either. Even if

you impress her family and her, in the long term do you think the

marriage will work? If she doesn't have bandhana and rnanubandhana

with you, sooner or later there will be more heartache for you. In

the first place if she has karmic propensity with you, she would be

interested in pursuing a relationship but obviously this is not the

case.

 

They say there is a soulmate for every jiva on earth. Some have many

soulmates as they journey through life. Its best to seek your own

soulmate with the passage of time. Only if you let go of this girl

will there be room in your heart to let someone else new inside.

Otherwise your heart and mind will not have room to look at other

wonderful girls, one of whom will be your future wife who will make

you happy.

 

Why choose a dilemna and unhappiness when you can have happiness if

only you would give up hope on the current girl. I've been

scratching my head for a better answer but found I can only tell you

honestly what I think. Hope you don't mind. 2 years had passed since

you started research regarding your problem. In this time, you could

have found another beautiful and virtuous girl, gotten married, had a

baby and a splendid domestic life.

 

Maybe other friends here will have better advice for you.

 

***Dear Friends, all advice for Koolbreeze highly welcome and

appreciated, many, many thanks.********

 

Aum Namah Shivaya

 

 

 

, koolbreeze1221

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>

> hi all...

>

> i want to know few things...

> pls help me in that...

>

> i had been going through the various sections of the internet from

> the past two years or so in search of a solution to a specific

> problem..

>

> to put my problem in short.....

> i love a gal very much but she doesnt loves me at all. i want her to

> be mine n i want to marry her.

>

> our horoscopes match around 28 out of 36. but some people say that

we

> don't have the karmic bandhan...

>

> our families have many differences at social and professional

levels..

>

> pls tell me the way how can i be with her...

>

> hoping for a good help from all in this group

>

> thnx

>