looking for help....(love)

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hello narsimhaye, thnx for ur advice, u may not be wrong, but still

if i wish to make the destiny with her then in that case what should

i do???

 

 

, narasimhaye

<no_reply wrote:

>

> Namaste Koolbreeze, you are not going to like what I'm about to

say

> but please know I that mean well.....

>

> Yours is a very difficult problem to solve but the answers actually

> lie within you. One answer is please try to understand Maya and

> Leela. Another answer is your willpower to control your feelings

and

> let go of the girl. Love cannot be forced. Do not force the

girl's

> destiny to be with you. Its bad karma to force someone to love you

> when she doesn't love you at all.

>

> All the indications are there that a relationship with her is not

> going to work, i.e. she does not love you, both your families have

> many differences at social and professional levels. This means the

> families are not going to agree to a match-making either. Even if

> you impress her family and her, in the long term do you think the

> marriage will work? If she doesn't have bandhana and rnanubandhana

> with you, sooner or later there will be more heartache for you. In

> the first place if she has karmic propensity with you, she would be

> interested in pursuing a relationship but obviously this is not the

> case.

>

> They say there is a soulmate for every jiva on earth. Some have

many

> soulmates as they journey through life. Its best to seek your own

> soulmate with the passage of time. Only if you let go of this girl

> will there be room in your heart to let someone else new inside.

> Otherwise your heart and mind will not have room to look at other

> wonderful girls, one of whom will be your future wife who will make

> you happy.

>

> Why choose a dilemna and unhappiness when you can have happiness if

> only you would give up hope on the current girl. I've been

> scratching my head for a better answer but found I can only tell

you

> honestly what I think. Hope you don't mind. 2 years had passed

since

> you started research regarding your problem. In this time, you

could

> have found another beautiful and virtuous girl, gotten married, had

a

> baby and a splendid domestic life.

>

> Maybe other friends here will have better advice for you.

>

> ***Dear Friends, all advice for Koolbreeze highly welcome and

> appreciated, many, many thanks.********

>

> Aum Namah Shivaya

>

>

>

> , koolbreeze1221

> <no_reply@> wrote:

> >

> > hi all...

> >

> > i want to know few things...

> > pls help me in that...

> >

> > i had been going through the various sections of the internet from

> > the past two years or so in search of a solution to a specific

> > problem..

> >

> > to put my problem in short.....

> > i love a gal very much but she doesnt loves me at all. i want her

to

> > be mine n i want to marry her.

> >

> > our horoscopes match around 28 out of 36. but some people say

that

> we

> > don't have the karmic bandhan...

> >

> > our families have many differences at social and professional

> levels..

> >

> > pls tell me the way how can i be with her...

> >

> > hoping for a good help from all in this group

> >

> > thnx

> >

>