Guest guest Posted May 17, 2008 Report Share Posted May 17, 2008 duggal_kamini Hi,Love is not leisuse,it is work. Don't take your loved ones for granted.Enjoy every moment as if you are going to die soon. Beautiful and meaningful... :-)This was a speech made by Pulitzer Prize-winning author, Anna Quindlen at the graduation ceremony of an American university where she was awarded an Honorary PhD. Worth reading !!"I'm a novelist. My work is human nature. Real life is all I know. Don'tEver confuse the two, your life and your work. You will walk out of here this afternoon with only one thing that no one else has. There will be hundreds of people out there with your same degree: there will bethousands of people doing what you want to do for a living. But you will be the only person alive who has sole custody of your life. Yourparticular life. Your entire life. Not just your life at a desk, or yourlife on a bus, or in a car, or at the computer. Not just the life ofyour mind, but the life of your heart. Not just your bank accounts butalso your soul. People don't talk about the soul very much anymore. It's so much easier to write a resume than to craft a spirit. But a resume is cold comfort on a winter's night, or when you're sad, or broke, or lonely, or when you've received your test results and they're not so good. Here is my resume: I am a good mother to three children. I have triednever to let my work stand in the way of being a good parent. I nolonger consider myself the centre of the universe. I show up. I listen.I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to makemarriage vows mean what they say. I am a good friend to my friends and they to me. Without them, there would be nothing to say to you today,because I would be a cardboard cut out. But I call them on the phone,and I meet them for lunch. I would be rotten, at best mediocre at my job if those other things were not true. You cannot be really first rate at your work if your work is all youare. So here's what I wanted to tell you today: Get a life. A real life,not a manic pursuit of the next promotion, the bigger pay cheque, thelarger house. Do you think you'd care so very much about those things if you blew an aneurysm one afternoon, or found a lump in your breast? Get a life in which you notice the smell of salt water pushing itself ona breeze at the seaside, a life in which you stop and watch how ared-tailed hawk circles over the water, or the way a baby scowls withconcentration when she tries to pick up a sweet with her thumb and first finger. Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and wholove you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. Pick up thephone. Send an email. Write a letter. Get a life in which you aregenerous. And realize that life is the best thing ever, and that youhave no business taking it for granted. Care so deeply about itsgoodness that you want to spread it around. Take money you would have spent on beer and give it to charity. Work in a soup kitchen. Be a big brother or sister. All of you want to do well. But if you do not do good too, then doing well will never be enough. It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours, and our minutes.It is so easy to take for granted the color of our kids' eyes, the waythe melody in a symphony rises and falls and disappears and rises again.It is so easy to exist instead of to live. I learned to live many years ago. I learned to love the journey, not thedestination. I learned that it is not a dress rehearsal, and that todayis the only guarantee you get. I learned to look at all the good in theworld and try to give some of it back because I believed in it,completely and utterly. And I tried to do that, in part, by tellingothers what I had learned. By telling them this: Consider the lilies ofthe field. Look at the fuzz on a baby's ear. Read in the back yard withthe sun on your face. Learn to be happy. And think of life as a terminal illness, because if you do, you will live it with joy and passion as it ought to be lived". Hope you enjoyed as much as i did.Lets learn to live. : Get connected, share yourself, make a difference the way you chat. Check it out! at CarPoint.com.au It's simple! Sell your car for just $30 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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