SaiBaba & Matrimonial Problems

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This article is on the net and written by C.Venkat RamanThe need to relate shirdi saibaba with your love and married lifeFor any women, deciding her life partner is the most crucial one. After a point of time, when a problem happens in relationship , the first emotion that grows in them is anger on our SAI...Many say , its sai who gave me this life and united me with this guy but why did it breakup and why gradually am pushed to such a state because of situation.Dont blame Sai after doing things to satisfy your own needs and desires.

Every time someone says that they are looking for a prospective

bride/groom, iIts habit of few highly devoted shirdi saibaba followers

to ask him for hints like using "answer book", writing chit, few good

incidents, getting a photo, happening of good event, little things like

flowers falling down from statue etc when they pray sai . Baba seems to

give positive hints confirming that the guy/girl involved is good , is

chosen by sai for you and he will keep you happily and marry you. But

later when problems arise between you and your in laws or spouse then, you say

-"Baba only gave that guy/girl to me , then why did he/she leave me and why baba

cant help when am suffering like this ? " Why did Sai let you go through all these stages of love :

1.Meeting

2.Talking and understanding,few incidents

3.Proposing,Loving, spending time together, roaming, the most common activity of talking in phone

4.Getting married . some do it with ashirwad of parents and some opposes parents and marry

5.Finally problems with in-laws & then your spouse & then in

few months or years the relationship turns bitter and ends in

separation or divorce.Baba has said this " Unless there is some relationship or connection, nobody goes anywhere. If any men or creatures come to you, do not discourteously drive them away, but receive them well and treat them with due respect. "

The philosophy of "Pay Back your past lifes bad karma" :

The reason is simple, who are these people whom you get attracted to ,

fall in love and suffer ? Do you think others doesn't deserve your

attention. Why is it that am in love with a purticular girl and that

purticular girl is in love with some other guy. .Why sai first makes

you meet a man , fall in love with him, marry him and atlast your life

gets worse and you are forced to divorce him. The reason is simple.we

are born to "Pay back" what we got in our previous birth. May be i

would have cheated the same girl in my previous births life and thats

why am suffering now. I mean we are suffering , accepting punishment

for the sins thats done by our atma in some birth we took. Though we

are not responsible for that , its our karma to go through it. Now Baba would have helped us before but that needs Total Surrender to Sai.Please dont think baba did`nt help you. Baba and all pure saints act as per dharma and they have to let you go throw your "Pay back" phase in life only after which you will get wisdom and with wisdom comes the gift of sai. They will help you for sure but if your karma is so bad then it wont let you take a devotional path that easily. Thats why baba says " surrender all your senses and just say my name sai sai sai and i shall take you over the seven seas" ....what does sai mean by this seven seas...Its the pains and suffering you are facing now. Had you and i remembered sai , sai and sai alone with out giving space to our sensory needs then surely baba would have got a chance to protect us. Ok leave the past. Atleast now we are in sais fold and lets be totally devoted to him, read sai satcharita regularly, light candles or lamps ,offer garland to sai, humbly prostrate before him , ask him to forgive us for our past mistakes and guide us, show us a light from this very minute.

" IF YOU SOW FAITH, YOU WILL REAP MIRACLES" SOWING - ROHIT BEHAL

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