We ourselves are responsible for our troubles and misery.

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Anger, disquiet and frusteration are the results of anticipation. When our desires are not fulfilled, we become frusterated, and in turn we develop anger towards those, whom we perceive as 'obstructions' in our path. Really it is not so. No body is responsible for your sufferings and problems. Hence do not develop hatred towards any one. The real cause of your trouble are within your own self. It is the past misdeeds that result in the present frusteration. Without realising this great truth, we start blaming one and all for our miserable conditions. Hence, hold none as responsible for your present conditions. Outwardly this may seems to be the cause. But if you hold the truth that God is Justice and He will not inflict unnecessary troubles to any body in the world, you will not blame anybody including god for your present troubles. Hence undergo all the experiences without murmur and accept them as necessary for your own spiritual upliftment. The aim of our birth in this world is to work out our earned karmas(bad or good) and off with it. Shirdi Baba used to utter, "God alone is the dispenser of results for our karmas. Hence the best thing is to accept our lot happily with an open heart. Sairam.