Guest guest Posted June 20, 2007 Report Share Posted June 20, 2007 CHAPTER 49 A disagreement is the clashing and confrontation of two minds that bicker only to protect and survive its own selfish desires. In such a situation, each one becomes a stubborn, unruly child and simply argues to want his own way. Realize, My dear, that it is the small, petty disagreements that sow the seeds of hatred, which, in the future, blossoms to be the evil tree that shelters the mind from the pure pleas of the innocent heart. Hence, a wise one will end the beginning of the smallest disagreement by instantly responding with natural love and complete understanding, thus, allowing the one that has temporarily lost his stability to gather his lost strength, and with it, retrace his steps back to the first step. Once again, the noble soul will rise above the past experience and will completely erase the memories and like a good and dedicated teacher will allow the one that is immersed in remorse and repentance to rise to the surface and see the present moment. With the strength of love, compassion, forgiveness and understanding that one receives from his so-called opponent, one will rectify his past and will come to embrace the one that he had once wished to assault! It is very easy to be an enemy, My dear, and very difficult to remain, ever, as a true friend. Learn not to criticize, My child, for criticism is like the lime that sours every friendship. Do not praise with insincere comments, for insincerity is the axe that cruelly cuts the link of pure love in the existing friendship. Friendship must never be built on the foundation of fear, neither must it ever be encompassed by the insecure walls of evil competitiveness. The biggest comfort of a true friendship is in one being his very true self. There must be no hypocrisies - no masks - for the friend must be able to see and accept the true face you wear. These two, that are linked together in this bond of loyal love, must believe that it is their strength, together, that makes their love pure. In true friendship, one willingly takes the other's burdens and gives him the strength of his own inner joy. Realize, My child, that life itself is your very best friend, for it walks with you until the very end and even beyond! Plan life, not the way you desire it to be, but instead, spend every moment in building the inner strength to face its sudden changes. A change is experienced, only when one is floating in the dreams of his desires and is rudely awakened by the call of bright daylight. The one that has no expectations from life will not notice nor be aware of any change, for he is too immersed in seeking the way out, instead of being submerged in the bitterness of complaints. In any relationship, My child, give, as much as you can - do not waste your time in finding ways of receiving it back. Remember, always, love has only one way - one direction and one purpose. Yes! It is freedom! freedom! freedom! Free yourselves, from this moment on, by picking up the barriers that limit your love. It is the limitation of your giving that makes the joy of endless love a battle of equal exchange. The root of every pain is in one fostering one's own hidden desires. Give up your secret wish and what will appear before you will be the basis of your every need ........ Peace - Love - Joy! Source : LIVING IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD (Volume II/Part II) Divine Messages received and recorded by Mrs Seema M Dewan For more inspiring divine messages, texts, movies, videos, etc., Visit : Sai Messages : http://saimessages.blogspot.com/ Sai Divine Inspirations : http://saidivineinspirations.blogspot.com/ Love Is My Form : http://loveismyform.blogspot.com/ (for non-Sai members) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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