Amma /marriage - pssssssssssss

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One thing I'm committed to is not sitting idle when I hear what can be

considered spiritual " wishful thinking " , or common beliefs that aren't

true. Devotees that leave Amma or their respective guru, I've found,

had beliefs that others had, but weren't necessarily true. When

their bubble burst, they left.

 

There's plenty of Mangaliks out there wishing for a partner, but will

never have a lasting relationship (aside from hooking up with another

Mangalik whom they won't find attractive by nature). Being a

Mangalik can be determined from your chart, and it means you won't be

getting married. If a Mangalik gets married, divorce is in their future.

 

I also know many Manic-Depressives, some devotees, that will be

miserable to the end of their days because they don't want to change

their unhealthy ways. To be involved with such a person means

endless suffering. So " hanging-in there " is not always good, even as

a challenge. Some are born under bad birth stars and will always

start arguments and create suffering for others, by nature. I've

gotten good enough to tell just from being around someone.

 

Of the 5 devotee-couples I know, 2 had at least one devotee that

simply had a strong desire to have a partner or family. They caused

great suffering to their partner because of unhealthy behavior, but at

least they got their wish for a while.

 

Keep things real and you'll be less disappointed later,

tom

 

 

 

 

 

Ammachi , Stacee Kramer <stacee.kramer wrote:

>

> ONS

>

> God wants us to be happy and will bless our wish for a

> partner. Relationships are challenging no matter what

> the circumstances. Learning to love another selflessly

> and learning to work as a team requires much patience,

> love, trust and faith.

>

> There are no ideals when it comes to loving, once you

> get in there and really see what life is like with

> another.....

>

> Amma will however fulfill our desires for a

> companion.....it is up to us to accept the challenge

> and opportunity, and be willing to grow and stretch

> and face our fears in order to allow love to blossom.

>

> S

>

>

> --- tom <tomgull wrote:

>

> > In case something comes up, you should know that

> > even if Amma blesses

> > a relationship or even marries you and your/any

> > future bf, things may

> > not always work out. Of devotees, I can think of 5

> > couples that had

> > troubles even after Amma blessed and/or married

> > them. 3 of them are

> > now divorced.

> >

> > tom

> >

> > Ammachi , " Julia Milin "

> > <juliamilin@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Ammachi , " tom " <tomgull@>

> > wrote:

> > > >

> > > > Maybe you'll be getting married soon... ;-)

> > > >

> > > > http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqD_79SQEXo

> > > > http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=osZdERYt5jo

> > > >

> > > > India's customs never cease to amaze me.

> > > > tom

> > > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > LOL, at getting married soon. It's funny that the

> > dream was identical

> > > to the Haldi pre marriage ceremony, and the powder

> > is the same color

> > > as in the youtube video and other Haldi pictures

> > I've seen. Amma's

> > > idea of a joke maybe because my boyfriend just

> > broke up with me 2

> > > weeks ago. Unless she was trying to comfort me.

> > Either way, I

> > > consider the dream a huge blessing with definite

> > instructions from her

> > > that I can't list here as to how to further my

> > spiritual growth from

> > > here. It's amazing that she painted me with

> > turmeric, a most amazing

> > > and potent member of the plant family....thank you

> > to the devotee who

> > > posted the aryuvedic article with the David

> > Frawley forward.....Namah

> > > Sivayah

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >