Guest guest Posted December 17, 2008 Report Share Posted December 17, 2008 Hi Swamy, i want some instructions from you . i want to share something .Actually we are three brothers. before year we had mala and went to sabarimala for darshan .actually previous year i was trying for a break in software industry. before having mala i faced lot of interviews.even i was selected in one of the MNC company, but at last in a simple round i was rejected. But after visting sabarimala i got break and now working in a good company.Actually i thought to have mala this year also and again we three had mala we almost completed our 26 days of mala.But on one unfortunate day (i e 13.12.2008) my aunty(i e my father's , brother , wife) passed away . so we had to remove mala.Now we three of us are feeling bad and my parents too . whenever i see a swamy my eyes will be filled with tears,actually we were planning to visit sabarimala on 1 st jan on peddapadam.But now i think , i even can not travel in civil also. when i have gone through a book it was written that we should not visit temple for 21 days. so i think i will miss this trip.because if i want to visit temple with irumudi we have to complete 41 days. but i do not have much time. we think that god is angry on us.Anyhow this year i will visit temple.so please can you suggest me is there any option left for me to visit before makarajyothi , or can i visit temple in the month of feb, if in this case can i continue this remaining 15 days or i need to start from first. please suggest me. if i am not elligible to visit before makarajyothi. please convey to swamy , if we have done any mistakes in unknown, please excuse us. Thanks and regards, rajeshwar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 18, 2008 Report Share Posted December 18, 2008 Hi Rajesh First of all don't think like ' god is angry' ' feeling bad' etc., against any natural happenings... You can go to temple by Feb... But with Irumudi or Irumudi depends on your sentiments or customs ... for ex, if a death occurs in our family or close Pangali (close blood relation thro our father's side, where we also allowed do final rites) family we can go to any temple to pray after 30th day; But in our custom we are not allowed to break coconut. So we cannot offer ghee coconut or padi coconut to swami. Please note this custom varies between region / caste. So you check with your elders. If you want to start Viradham, it should be treated as fresh one... not as continuation. Rajesh... You will get more blessing from Swami Ayyappan; Don't feel bad. You can pray him any day any moment by keeping in your mind. He is the only Swami for all Common Man. Swami Saranam Ayyappa Saranam With Best Regards N.Jayakumar " Just because something ends doesn't mean it never should have been " N.Jayakumar www.kanyahomes.com--- On Wed, 17/12/08, rajesh kanna <kanna.abap wrote: rajesh kanna <kanna.abap please help mesriayyappan Date: Wednesday, 17 December, 2008, 2:08 PM Hi Swamy, i want some instructions from you . i want to share something .Actually we are three brothers. before year we had mala and went to sabarimala for darshan .actually previous year i was trying for a break in software industry. before having mala i faced lot of interviews.even i was selected in one of the MNC company, but at last in a simple round i was rejected. But after visting sabarimala i got break and now working in a good company.Actually i thought to have mala this year also and again we three had mala we almost completed our 26 days of mala.But on one unfortunate day (i e 13.12.2008) my aunty(i e my father's , brother , wife) passed away . so we had to remove mala.Now we three of us are feeling bad and my parents too . whenever i see a swamy my eyes will be filled with tears,actually we were planning to visit sabarimala on 1 st jan on peddapadam.But now i think , i even can not travel in civil also. when i have gone through a book it was written that we should not visit temple for 21 days. so i think i will miss this trip.because if i want to visit temple with irumudi we have to complete 41 days. but i do not have much time. we think that god is angry on us.Anyhow this year i will visit temple.so please can you suggest me is there any option left for me to visit before makarajyothi , or can i visit temple in the month of feb, if in this case can i continue this remaining 15 days or i need to start from first. please suggest me. if i am not elligible to visit before makarajyothi. please convey to swamy , if we have done any mistakes in unknown, please excuse us. Thanks and regards, rajeshwar. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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