Siddhashram

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Charity

 

All give something in charity as per your capacity. By not giving you

will also not get. Whatever you will give you get the same in

return. Charity is a Virtue; virtue is meant to be followed. In this

matter one should not think too much. If a Praarthi (beggar) is

deceitful and cheat, then it is his act of sin - for that you are not

at all responsible. If some one spends, money given by you in

charity, in sinful activities likes alcohol etc. then you will not

face negative consequences of that; he did not ask for your money for

consuming alcohol. You should give as per your capacity with simple

feelings. Whoever will do sinful act will pay for it, you are not

responsible for his paap-punya (Sin & Virtue).

 

 

Some simple but important precautions

 

Do not ever sit right on the doorstep, sitting right on the doorstep

causes debt. Do not unnecessarily draw lines/marking on earth or on

any object at any place (Using nails, fingers, pen, wooden piece etc)

and do not make any kind of sound without any reason. These are very

bad activities - they cause severe harm.

 

 

Param Pada

 

" Believing in the word of Guru, living in the atom of Braham with

doing " Kriya " is the ultimate destination (Param Pada).

 

 

Physical contact

 

Sitting with one's body touching with other makes the atoms of two

bodies to intermingle and show their respective effects. To maintain

independent persona and its purity is important for a person. Not

doing so causes obstacles in progress related to sadhna.

 

 

Utilising good dreams

 

After seeing an auspicious dream related to Kriya, or a God or a

Goddess, telling it to someone else is not advisable. Getting into

discussion or criticism related to that is not right because it can

prove counterproductive and any good thing or thought which was

developing inside you gets obstructed. A good thought or quality

before developing inside you gives you a premonition through a dream.

At that time it should be kept secret by good effort, keeping it

close to heart, one should become more industrious in sadhna. By

discussing about it with others or putting it open for criticism it

will not be in sight any more. Then that good thing or thought will

take long time to develop- may be not again in this life.

 

 

Selfish Relations & Relationship of Love

 

All those whom we consider our near & dear, about whom we are always

worried due to our ignorance; they actually are not our friends. They

all are attached due to selfishness. A little reduction in

fulfillment of their desires shows us a very stark picture about

them. You can see for the sake of selfish desires, satisfaction of

their instincts, even due to argument or harsh words there is much of

the acrimony between father & son, Mother & son, Brother & brother,

husband & wife, there is so much of dispute, arguments, Court cases

etc. between them.

 

Until you will keep on satisfying their selfish needs they will keep

saying that all of them are your friends, a little bit of deficiency

and tricky issues crop up.

 

But there is one friend by thinking about Him, by doing good with Him

you can see how much you benefit. There is no end to His blessings,

kindness and charity. If you want to behave with love with someone

then do with Him. In that love, good behaviour there is no breakup,

no suffering - only comfort, only peace & only bliss is there.

 

to be continued...