Guest guest Posted November 24, 2008 Report Share Posted November 24, 2008 1. SATISFACTION IN DAILY LIFE Satisfaction arises when we are true and honest to ourselves and our inner principles. When we listen to our conscience, we can never go wrong. Today, what has happened is that we have killed our VIVEK, our conscience, the intellect which tells us whats right and wrong. This does not happen over-night. We sometimes make decisions that please others, our friends, society etc. but our mind does not agree to it. That is, we ignore our intellect. Such actions make the intellect weak and then comes a time when bad qualities overpower us because we have no inner strength. This is why the humans are searching for some- thing in life, they think physical things, physical entertainment is going to help them but the root cause of unhappiness lies inside us. We are not feeding the mind with good thoughts, good principles but are always surrounded by negative thinking, bad qualities. If I want to be satisfied in life, lead a happy life, I should be able to honestly tell myself that - I HAVE DONE MY BEST. If I can say this with a clear conscience, then nothing anyone says can change it. Maybe what I do will give me immediate success or immediate recognition, but if I have sown a good seed of hardwork, good wishes for others etc. I WILL DEFINITELY GET THE FRUITS. I only need to be patient. Every morning, start the day with positive thoughts. Having a faith in yourself is the most important thing you need for success in life. 2. BE KIND TO ALL The key to be nice to everyone is to recognise your own innate qualities and then those of others. We all have weaknesses in us - no doubt, but those weaknesses are foreigners. Our original qualities are of peace, love, mercy and all the good stuff. Every single human being is made up of these qualities but because we allow bad things to overpower us, we do wrong things and then we are named 'bad people'. Everyone wants to be happy, peaceful, loved by all. There is no exception. Even the worst kind of person you have met, does all those bad things because in their disturbed little mind, they think it will give them happiness. But it is a universal law that whatever you give, you receive. If you spread bad vibrations, negative feelings - even in your thinking - you will get it back sometime or the other. Even physics says that action and reaction are equal and opposite. Sometimes, it does happen that when we are good to others, they respond in the opposite way. We might have hurt Ms X sometime, and are getting it back. It is a very subtle but important principle that governs relationships. Pure wishes go a long way in creating good relationships. 3. DEVELOP CONCENTRATION POWER Most people today have this problem - we just cannot control our mind, so don't think you are alone. The problem is that throughout the day, we are continuously using our mind, thinking about numerous things and by the end of the day, we are completely drained. This is because we do not stop to recharge the mind, or the battery, in other words. There are mainly 4 types of thoughts that run around in our mind daily - positive, negative, waste and necessary. As you can guess, we humans think more negative (inspired by anger, ego, jealousy, greed etc.) and waste thoughts than positive thoughts (inspired by love, understanding, forgiveness, all the good stuff). No one gives much importance to thoughts but they are our greatest asset. Even science, something we practically worship, was born out of ideas, thoughts and we humans have this treasure. USE IT WELL! These two things, negative and waste thoughts, are like weeds. As you know, weeds do not harm the plants directly, but they absorb the nutrients from the soil and so, there is nothing left for the plants. Similarly, the more we think negatively or wastefully, we lose inner strength and then, when we want to be positive, we want to do a good action, there is no inner drive left. The more we think positive about ourselves and our actions, we regenerate our energy and then any action will be successful. Maybe now, things do not look good, but the more you train the mind, the more it will work for you. This new attitude about life needs to be developed. So, atleast 5 times throughout the day, sit back and think good thoughts for a few minutes. Think about how we are playing our individual roles in life but we are different, we have our own specialities, values, etc. When we concentrate, we use our mind and intellect together. One without the other is useless. Sometimes when we are reading and someone later asks what we just read, we go blank because we were only using the mind while reading, the intellect was off wandering somewhere. Whatever work we are doing, we need to visualise it, not just superficially think about it. This is in fact meditation - learning to control your mind, concentrate on what you want. Meditation does not only mean sitting on top of mountain, and forgetting the world. But, it is the method of living in the world and yet not getting lost in it. They are a number of things we see, hear and do throughout the day, but we need to control what goes inside the mind. 4. WHERE IS GOD? People usually say WHERE IS GOD? when they are going through a rough patch and they doubt that He can help them. But, this is quite an intriguing character, once you get to know more about God. For centuries people have wanted to know and find God. You might have noticed in your life that when we are in trouble or pain, we often remember those people who have given us comfort and guidance - parents, siblings, friends, teachers etc. The same occurs with God. Since we have received some kind of peace, pure love from this source, we want to go back to it. Many feel that God does not exist. But all living form on earth require some source of energy. Nothing runs on its own accord. Similarly when we humans drain ourselves of our positivity, our zeal and enthusiasm for life, our peace of mind, we need to go to a reservoir to re-charge our mental battery. Science does not believe in anything that is not tangible or something that cannot be physically tested. But the world is full of things that are not LOGICAL - relationships, emotions, thoughts. We cannot experiment on these, we can only experience them. Similarly, God's power is so magnificent that our narrow, limited intellects need to effort in order to feel it. Human beings have looked and done millions of things in order to reach God. But that is difficult when we do not have a good description of God. Human beings have become so confused with all the different opinions and given up - there probably isn't any God. But to know who God really is, we have to understand what characteristics such a divine, almighty authority will have. God should be * universally accepted (God should be such a form or entity that will be worshipped by all souls. He is not just my spiritual Father, but the Father of all souls - Parampita) * uninfluenced by the effects of sorrow and happiness (always in a state of bliss, balance between love and detachment) * Knower of the 3 aspects of time (knows everything about the past, present, future) * Never enters the cycle of birth and death (anyone who takes on a body becomes trapped in that specific era; our body becomes a barrier; we cannot know about everything that is happening in the world at a particular time - but God does) * Lastly, God is a benefactor (He never takes anything, always and ONLY gives; He does not need anything because He does not have a body. With a body, there are numerous things we need to give it for proper growth.But God is the only soul that does not have a body of His own. He always works selflessly.) God is a separate, conscient point of divine energy, who has a particular home, somewhere beyond our universe, and that is where we came from. That is our true home. As souls, we lived there and then came on earth to play our roles as actors, as Shakespeare put it. People today, shy away from spirituality and religion, but that is the only thing which will protect us eternally. 5. CHALLENGES IN LIFE Do you know what happens to actors and actresses when they start taking their profession too seriously, they begin playing a role in REAL life as well. They forget their real identity. That is sad. The same thing has happened to us today. We are all aware that we are just guests on this earth and that one day we will have to leave it - meaning we will have to leave our body (death), but how many of us go through life taking it as a game, or a challenge. Over time, after taking birth after birth we have forgotten that we are just actors on this world stage. Even if you doubt that reincarnation takes place you will agree that we are more than just our bodies - the human being is the most fortunate species on earth, since it has an intellect; the power to reason. We are a separate entity from the body. Our emotions, our value system, our principles or personality are not physical things. Science today can study our brains but there is no device that can measure our thoughts. We are souls or spirits or energy and we use the body to express ourselves. Both are needed. We take on a body, a role in this drama in our particular families and try to play our part as best as we can. But sometimes, we get so involved in our role that we forget that we are just actors and also that other people are also just actors. That is when situations are not taken as challenges but as PROBLEMS. We are put off when people say things to us, we feel angry and hurt, we get upset when things do not happen our way. If you are familiar with physics, there is a law which states that all action and reactions are equal and opposite. Similarly, when we do wrong actions we will have to pay for it sometime or the other. These come in the form of challenges, as test- papers. The key to handling situation is A POSITIVE ATTITUDE. You might have experienced that when we are negative about situations, or we are tense and frustrated, then we don't think clearly. We do not find solutions, but with a relaxed mind, we can FOCUS. So everytime you are challenged in life, take time to step back - what is called detach yourself from the situation and think - OK this is part of the drama, I will think carefully about my actions because they are going to affect my future. I have to play a good role. If other people want to over-react and get upset, they are only spoiling their own role. This takes practise but you will find that everything in this world will look beautiful. You will learn to see the positive side about each and every situation- no matter what it maybe. The thought power is our greatest treasure - we need to use it more often. Every morning, before starting your day, mentally go through all the things you are going to do today AND most importantly, try to be flexible. Many times we are rigid in our thinking - things have to go smoothly, but leave space for SURPRISES. The more test- papers I pass, the more I will grow as a person. Everything happens for a good reason - believe this. A situation may look like a storm for the moment, but somewhere hidden is the benefit and we have to be patient enough to see it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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