working with negative

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the art of qualitative transformation.....

working with the negative..........lect.- 2

 

dear blessed ones,

blessed love,

 

hello ! hope by god's grace u all must be in peace n'bliss.recently one guy

came and mocked about this " peace n'bliss phenomenon by commenting that givers

of peace n'bliss when they r perturbed how can they bless for this to others? i

told him u r absolutely right on ur place but at the same time wrong also,

because peace n'bliss is inner while perturbace is outer. it comes and goes on

outer surface, while peace n 'bliss remains constant at its own olace.choice is

urs; inner or outer.but u r no judge all judgements r relative depending on an

individual 's attitude, outlook, personality & priority.when u r in peace

,realization occurs.when u r in perturbance reaction happens.realization is for

one's own self, reaction is always for others.and once we live in realization

,there is no reaction.reaction creates chain of karmic bondage,realization

breaks the chain brings liberation.so everything depends upon u r u reaction

-oriented or realization - oriented being. ANGER IS THE BIGGEST REACTION

REFLECTING UR NEGATIVITY. NEGATIVITY IS CAUSED BY EMOTIONAL WOUNDS.we all r

suffering from this emotional wounds.and wounds need HEALING.HEALING HAPPENS

THROUGH MEDITATION. MEDITATION based on mantra/yoga/pranayaam.so in this letter

i will put an emphasis on ANGER.....

 

Q: WHAT IS ANGER AND HOW CAN I REMAIN COOL & COLLECTED, BUT RESPONSIVE IN THE

CRUCIAL MOMENT ?

 

THE ROOT OF ANGER

 

" the psychology of anger is that u wanted something , and somebody prevented

u from getting it.somebody came as a BLOCK, as an OBSTACLE. your whole energy

was going to get something and somebody blocked the energy.u could n't get what

u wanted.now this FRUSTATED ENERGY BECOMES ANGER------anger against the person

who has destroyed the possibility of fulfillng of ur desire. u cannot prevent

anger , because ANGER ISA BY- PRODUCT , but u can do something else so that the

by- product does not happen at all.and what is that something ?

 

" in life remember one thing NEVER DESIRE ANYTHING AS INTENSELY AS IT IS A

QUESTION OF LIFE & DEATH.BE A LITTLE PLAYFUL. "

 

" i am not saying don't desire----- because that will become

a repression in u.i am saying desire but LET UR DESIRE BE PLAYFUL. if u can get

it good. if u can not get it, perhaps it was not the RIGHT--TIME.we will see

next time learn something of the ART OF PLAYER. so what 's wrong with us?

 

" we become so identified with the desire , that when it is blocked or

prevented our OWN ENERGY BECOMES FIRE. IT BURNS U.and in that state of almost

insanity u can do anything--- for which u r going to REPENT. it CAN CREATE A

SERIES OF EVENTS THAT UR WHOLE LIFE MAY GET ENTANGLED with.so the best thing to

be done is --

 

" do not try to stop or control the anger, otherwise it will BURN U, AND IT

WILL DESTROY U. all u have to do is " TO GO TO THE ROOTS. AND U WILL FIND THAT

THE ROOT IS ALWAYS SOME DESIRE THAT HAS BEEN BLOCKED ..AND THE FRUSTATION HAS

CREATED THE ANGER......

 

" once this SETTLES IN UR BEING THEN EVERYTHING IS ACCEPTABLE. ANGER

DISAPPEARS, AND THE DISAPPEARANCE WILL BRING U A NEW SURPRISE, BECAUSE WHEN

ANGER DISAPPEARS IT LEAVES BEHIND IT---- TREMENDOUS ENERGY OF COMPASSION , OF

LOVE AND OF FRIENDSHIP. "

 

step 1 : CLOSE YOUR EYES AND LOOK FOR THE REAL CULPRIT.

 

" make it an absolute law that whenever something is wrong , immediately close

ur eyes and look for the real culprit. and you will be able to see because it is

a TRUTH. it is a REALITY. it is true that U ACCUMMULATE ANGER , that is why you

become angry. the other is not a real cause.

 

WHEN : WHENEVER YOU FEEL MISERABLE.

 

POINT 1 : close your eyes and go inside------ because that is the right moment

to catch the culprit red - handed. otherwise you will not be able to catch it.

when the anger has disappeared you will close the eyes. you will not find

anything there. in a red - hot situation , do not miss the point.

 

POINT 2 : " once realized that " this is my own NEGATIVITY which creates the

problem , ' it falls by itself. and then there is BEAUTY, WHEN NEGATIVE MIND

FALLS BY ITSELF. if you try drop it , it will CLING --- because the very effort

to drop it shows that YOUR SURROUNDING IS NOT MATURE.

 

" ALL RENUNCIATION IS IMMATURITY; U R NOT RIPE FOR IT. THAT IS WHY EFFORT IS

NEEDED TO DROP IT. IF I AM CARRYING RUBBISH ; DO I NEED ANY EFFORT TO DROP IT ,

EXCEPT THE UNDERSTANDING THAT THIS IS RUBBISH ? IF I NEED ANY EFFORT TO DROP IT

, THAT MEANS I AM SUPPLEMENTING MY UNDERSTANDING WITH EFFORT. UNDERSTANDING

ITSELF IS NOT ENOUGH-------- THAT IS WHY EFFORT IS NEEDED. ALL THOSE WHO HAVE

KNOWN , THEY SAY EFFORT IS NEEDED BECAUSE YOUR UNDERSTANDING IS NOT THERE.IT MAY

BE AN INTELLECTUAL THING , BUT REALLY YOU HAVE NOT FELT THE SITUATION ,

OTHERWISE YOU SIMPLY DROP IT. a snake passes along the path ; you simply jump.

there is no effort in the jump. you don't decide to jump ; you don't make a

logical syllogism within you that there is a snake, and wherever there isa snake

there is a danger ; hence i must jump. " you don't make a logical step-by- step

syllogism. all we need deep awareness. and this awareness can be attained

through SELF- AWARENESS MEDITATION.MEDITATIONAL AWARENESS ENABLES YOU TO BE

intuitive and cautious psychologically prepared to meet every situation,

circumstances with well composed mind. u handle everything with faith, trust .

peace within, perfaction outside.

 

may god bless u meditational awareness to meet the challanges of life with

peaceful performance.

 

in the service of godliness,

with blessed love,

shree swami maa