Guest guest Posted July 22, 2008 Report Share Posted July 22, 2008 Bhakta: What is the value of the guru in one's spiritual life? Aya: Priceless. Bhakta: Why is this so? Aya: Even in digesting worldly knowledge one needs a teacher, how much so knowledge of the spirit which is more sublime? Bhakta: But previously you have taken an anti-guru stance? Aya: Ha, ha, when was it? Bhakta: You used to derail some saintly figures. Aya: Like whom? Bhakta: Like Kadir Ibrahim? Aya: I only despise their antics. Moreover where is the true relationship? The true guru does not divert attention of the disciple on himself. He directs the attention to Iraivan. He also behaves as equals with the disciple. But today where is this seen? They have elevated the fool as God. He will finally pass away (die) as any other human beings to fare according to his desserts (according to his karmam). Bhakta: I heard that this Kadir even promotes sitting on a yantram to meditate. The people attends his talk by the droves. Recently he had a talk about the siddhars. Aya: Fools forever will abound. Look, Doesn't this man belong to the Mussulman (muslim)religion? Previously he was giving some motivational speech. Now he is dabbling into religion I suppose. Anyway can one ask another to sit on the Holy Koran and pray? The audacity of one who eats beef to be let into the temple precincts to preach about our own tradition. Truly our people have lost sense of shame. They have mistaken dignity for pride and arrogance. Where one should speak out, the fools remain tight lipped. Where they should listen, they will speak up and argue endlessly. Do you know how it is? It is like letting a stranger sleep with your mother (Matha)? (The bhaktas were shocked to hear this) Bhakta: Oh..how is this? Is not our religion the most tolerant? Why can't a Muslim (Kadir Ibrahim) give a speech about our siddhars and relgion? Moreover he says that our religion is a great religion. Aya: The fool speak thus for the sake of monetary gain. If our Matham (religion) is so great why doesn't he become an apostate and embrace our religion? The siddhars prayed to the Iraivan and applied holy ash, will Kadir Ibrahim follow this? He is a hypocrite and you are fools to follow such a man. He only speaks about the greatness of our religion to our faces. At the back these people will laugh their way to the bank. If he says such words to his fellow Muslims they will disown him. He makes such speeches making fools out of the people only. Bhakta: But.. Aya (interrupting): I also have heard about his antics during the Sunday talk. After talking a bit about Siddhars he added in veiled humour that none have in fact actually seen the siddhars, hence it cannot be known if they have spoken the truth. At this the crowd have laughed it seems. Bhakta: And he also made some humour that the cakra 'muladharam' should not be confused with 'mala dhanam' (stool excretion) at which the crowd broke out into laughter. Aya: All these are fools. Bhakta: He has also said that God cannot be known, hence one should not brood over God much and should do the necessary in the world. Aya: And what is that? Bhakta: It is acquisition of money and attaining worldly name and fame. Aya: What one eats one belches. Likewise what one does and thinks day and night comes out from one's mouth. Is this how one should talk about Iraivan? The goal of human life has been described by siddhars as attaining of Iraivan. However so not all souls are ripe, hence they will want to be immersed in the worldly life. But yet they know this ideal and try to lead a life devoted to Iraiavan upon finishing their worldly duties and reaching their ambitions. They visit the holy places and the saintly ones for respite. They get peace of mind from the humdrum of life visiting the spiritual place. But what do they get now? After listening to such fools like Kadir Ibrahim one becomes a hypocrite and a pervert. Bhakta: He made fun of those following the dictum of Adi (July) month by saying he will visit again after the month. All laughed. Aya: Yes like this and that he will make fun. The fool who laughs thinks that it is the other person who is laughed at not realizing he is the subject matter himself. This is due to one's natural predisposition to feel oneself as superior to others. Kadir understands this and makes veiled remarks. He is a good orator, period. Bhakta: But many say he is a good man and talk highly of him. Aya: These people hanker after worldly goodies and success. Seeing a successful worldly man they speak highly of him, wanting to reach the same state themselves. Many scoundrels have good oratory skills. Can the inner substance of man be judged using his worldly possessions? Only the fools do likewise. With death he will lose all these possessions. Bhakta: So must one abhor money? Aya: Have I said so? Money is a necessity in the world. But how far will one go to earn it? Will one go to the sake of cheating and manipulating? One reaps as one sows. I don't want to get into the discussion of the importance of money, enjoyment etc. It is up to oneself. What I dislike is to mix spirituality with money, lies and manipulation. (Silence) Bhakta: What are the characteristics of people who will not attain Iraivan even when in the path? Aya: Those who are perverts, who follow orthodox outer purity without observing the corresponding inner essence and the one who vainly argues for the sake of arguments without applying oneself in sadhanai. Bhakta: Is sex a hindrance? Aya: Yes. One who indulges in it will sink in it more. One who suppresses also will finally hit the wall as the force of Mayai pents up and overwhelms oneself. Bhakta: What is the way then? Aya: One should get married. By this one will overcome the pull of sex. It will not be an obsession anymore. Bhakta: But some men do stray even after getting married. Aya: This shows that they do not feel much impulse for the same woman. Hence they think they can derive more enjoyment by going after different women. This is the nature of the mind. After getting the object of its desire, it will hanker after another thing. Bhakta: Is adultery or prosmiscuousity a sin? Aya: Look. If a man thinks of sex day and night, his thought becomes obsessed with it alone. Thereafter can one think of Iraivan? Outwardly people appear decent while inside their mind they have dirty thoughts. One will become surrounded by those things one's mind constantly dwells upon. All enjoyment in this world is transitory. What is the permanent joy? Is joy inherent in the form? When a person is in sorrow due to loss of child or limbs does sex attract him? Bhakta: So must one take sannyas? Aya: It is up to oneself. Both the order of the householder and renunciant (sanyas) have their strengths and weaknesses. One should analyze one's temperament and choose wisely. Bhakta: What are the benefits? Aya: The householder does not need to beg for money. He does not need to renounce worldly things outwardly. Inner renunciation is enough. But he is tied by certain conventions and has duties to fulfill to one's parents, wife, children, occupation etc. He should perform it as an act of worship. But it can be difficult as he is always exposed to stressful situations. He cannot throw his duties and run away. It is not harmful to have sex with one's wife. But he should treat all other women as sisters or mothers. It will be better if both husband and wife follow the spiritual path. They should share the path. Bhakta: How about the sannyasi? Aya: He should not accept any worldly occupation. He should not be tied down. He should have nothing to do with money nor woman. A sannyasi must never have sex. He must renounce inwardly and outwardly. Sannyasis are teachers of men at large. If he enjoys women and money he will set a bad example. Neither should he do so in private. It will tarnish the name of the religion itself if he is caught. Nowadays already this is happening. There are many criminals, vagabonds, psychopaths and megalomaniacs disguised as sannyasis. However so being a sannyasi is also advantageous. One can be fully devoted to spirituality. One need not worry about worldly duties anymore. Likewise one should not do worldly jobs for the sake of money. One should do the work of preaching and disseminating of spiritual knowledge. By doing such one earns dakshina. One should not conduct homas or ceremonies to bless worldly affairs. These are the work of the pandarams and pujaris. One must do work related to spirituality only. One could do translation of spiritual works or deliver good talks. But these most are wont to do. Hence people like Kadir Ibrahim take up this place. They should also not let other worldly people to lecture about religion and spirituality where they are invited to give a talk. Rather they should speak. I have seen that most simply sit there with eyes closed or just let people fall at their feet and give blessings after introductory speeches and long winding lectures by the worldly people who are probably their disciples. These are bogus. Is it so easy to meditate? Can anyone learn it in a day? What is the purpose? Can knowledge grow like this? I hope that some genuine sannyasis do the work of preaching rather than becoming involved in unnecessary charitable activities. Charitable activities are meant for men of action who lead a worldly life. The world is a place where only the fittest survive. In one way or another the money earned becomes tainted. One loses one's temper. One is pushed by others to do many other things to survive also. To seek good karmam and to nullify the bad karmam worldly men are encouraged to practice dhanam (charity). These things belong to the realm of activity. The sannyasi who has renounced this must not get entangled in this anymore. The world will forever have the evil and good people. It will forever have the rich and poor. Look. Iraivan has created limited beings. All are in duality of Mayai. All are not of equal strength or capacity. If such is the case none could do trade or excel another. If there are only plants in this world what will happen? They will soon use up the nutrients. Hence there are creatures which eat the plants. Plants breathe in carbon dioxide and breathe out oxygen. This is used by the animals which eat the plants. But if the herbivors (plant eaters) breed rapidly they will soon eat all the plants and thereafter face scarcity. Hence Iraivan has created the meat eaters (carnivores) also. As one moves up the food chain the population should decrease. If there are too many hunters (meat eaters) they will face extinction also. But man is now furthest up in the food chain. His population is growing rapidly. The produce of earth is limited only. All resources of earth like oil, iron deposits, etc are limited. All are getting depleted also. Land is limited also. The earth is the same size only. Hence all will soon compete for the limited resource and man's beastly nature will come out. Previously three people shared a pie. Now ten will fight for the same pie. This is the Kali Yugam. So like this and that there will always be some kind of rife and suffering. The men of the world will know how to take care of this world. The renouncer should not get involved in this. It will mix worldliness with spirituality. Sannyasis are teachers of the general public, hence they should behave such. A sannyasi who gets involved in worldly affairs is like a person who swallows his own spittle upon spitting out Bhakta: But some siddhars are married and some are not? Aya: Siddhars cannot be compared with sannyasi. It is like comparing a natural lake with a man-made lake. Siddhars cannot be fathomed and cannot be known. The general public will never come to know a siddhar as long as he lives (as a spiritual person). Only a paltry few will know. These can be counted by the fingers. Only upon the siddhars demise these few souls might undertake the work of forming a spiritual organization or such work. The siddhar himself is not involved in the work of propagating his name. In truth he abhors the public. The few who know him intimately out of their own desire form an allegiance amongst themselves upon his demise. This in time grows into an organization. Hence some siddhars run away or hide to avoid all this thing coming up upon their death. It is because whilst alive itself the siddhar does not permit such acts, why should he condone such activity upon his death? So the worldly people will say the siddhar has vanished or something like that. In truth he has run away to avoid unnecessary attention and to prevent man's innate desire to turn everything into an organization. Organizations are worldly things. They run on money. True spirituality should be free from the taint of money. With money comes arrogance, lewdness and many other ills. Bhakta: How come there are some souls who become siddhars? Why don't all become so? Aya: Son. All souls in time mature and reach the Iraivan. There are seven planes of existence altogether. All souls have come from pure Mayai. This is the timeless region. But not all enter at the same time. Hence some are old souls and some are relatively new. This old soul means a soul which has entered the manifested universe stemming from Mayai at a earlier period of time. The mature souls automatically seek Iraivan. After many lives they manage to enter OM. Thereafter they have a choice of manifesting above the third plane. Most souls will choose to enter here for the burden of embodiement is lesser. Hence they pass the fourth to the seventh plane till they merge into Iraivan without Mayai. It means not to be tainted with Mayai anymore. Hence the Gayatri Mantram mentions the three planes (worlds) only. Those who have reached above this are beyond the reach of Savitur (Sun). They do not need the shakti from this Sun to replenish themselves. They have become deities. It is like entering a room where one just need to walk till reaching the inner chambers. But some very few souls who have merged into OM but yet having a taint of Mayai wish to proceed their journey from the world itself. It is because they wish to attain Iraivan from the earthly plane itself. Though there are less distractions in the fourth plane upwards and the soul as deities are not caged in a gross physical body, they have other duties to perform and will take a longer time to merge in toto due to the same duties. This is due to being endowed more with the powers of Iraivan. It is like humans also. Due to having more shakti these thereafter have taken the task of administering to the lower life forms also. But man being sunk more in Mayai exploits also. Hence the old soul which has merged and takes birth will become a siddhar. In that one life birth he will shake off the remaining taint. Usually one such will not have a guru. He will be drawn to Iraivan without any outside agency. Maybe he dilly-dallies a little. Then he becomes engrossed in Iraivan and attains the beautitude without any help. He attains it in a short period of time also. He attains 'darisanam' (vision) of Iraivan almost immediately when he steps into the path. Thereafter he just has some little toiling (sadhana) to do. He is like one tasting the fruit and toiling a bit afterwards. Ordinary people have to toil on arduously and then get the fruit. Bhakta: Isn't this double standards for the less toil? Aya: But he has toiled much in previous births. Bhakta: Ahhh... Aya: He doesn't need initiation nor anyone's guidance. He doesn't seek it either. That is why a siddhar is said to be like a natural lake or mountain. It comes up on its own. Due to this he is always in natural surroundings. He has no marks of outward holiness. Normal souls seek Iraivan for other things also. The siddhan seek for Iraivan's sake only. The worldly people if they are told not to pray to Iraivan for worldly goods will remark, 'why, is it wrong? can't one ask this and that from god?'. What they cherish deep inside comes out from their mouth and actions. The siddhar even in the company of young attractive women do not find himself drawn to these. He neither feels repelled nor attracted. The body is only a body, a mound of flesh for him. The normal aspirant must suppress his desire and tell himself not to feel attracted due to the presence of lust. Hence only must the sannyasi keep away from women. The siddhar has got no such fear. But sometimes some misunderstand this and go too far as to look down upon women and treat them with contempt. Bhakta: But you have said some get married? Aya: Yes, due to some balance of duty these do. They have some obligations to fulfill. Bhakta: Then they must enjoy sex then? Aya: Is the enjoyment of the siddhar the same as the worldly man. The siddhars merges with Iraivan in joy. He sees all joy as manifestation of Iraivan. The glutton thinks of food day and night. He thinks of the food, relishes and reminiscenes over it even after the meal. But some eat what is served. They do not have any preferences. Some live to eat and some eat to live. Hence the difference. But after some time the siddhan will not engage in sex anymore. It falls off. Bhakta: How if the wife is sex-minded? Aya: You are a fool! It is Iraivan which chooses his life. Though having wife and children he is aloof from them and they are aloof of him also. The siddhan is on his last and definite lap. Hence the Iraivan will remove any such obstructions for him be it if such a wife. It is as Iraivan has taken the power of attorney for him. The siddhan accepts wherever he is placed. He prays for true devotion only. Bhakta: You have glowed so much about siddhars. If they are such why don't they become world teachers instead of the sannyasis? Aya: Truly you are a moron! The teachings of the sannyasi is accepted by the people as much as they want. But a siddhars' words on a person will become a reality. Hence if he is let loose, all will thereafter get the grace of Iraivan regardless of their stupidity and non- deservance. This the Yaman cannot permit as it is not dharmam (just). The Yaman and the Navagraham are in charge of these 'karma veenai' (fruit of karmam). Iraivan has relegated it to these. Hence the siddhar cannot make himself known to many. It will spell the end for him. Bhakta: Why? What will happen to him. Aya: He will have to leave the world if such happens. The siddhan is able to take the karmam of others upon himself. Ordinary gurus and so on cannot do this thing. They can talk only. But the siddhars body is ruled by the pancha boodham (5 gross elements) also. By taking karmam of others his own body breaks. After his first wake of spiritual grace the siddhar learns to distinguish. Milk poured into a dirty bowl will itself become stenchful. Unlike the sannyasi the siddhar does not expect dakshina from the masses. The Iraivan in one way or another provides for him. Also unlike Kadir Ibrahim and the likes of such, the siddhar does not work for monetary gain or any ambitious projects even like building temples, ashrams and so on. Truly he is not bonded to anyone and none he treats as bonded to him. He treats all as equals and does not permit another to fall upon his feet nor call him as another's guru. Bhakta: So the siddhar rarely accepts disciples? Aya: Yes. Bhakta: If ever he has (disciples) how many will he have? Aya: Oh..maybe one or two, or possibly none at all. Bhakta: What? Aya: So truly one must be gifted if the siddhar calls one as a disciple. But rarely does this happen. One might become known to him but it doesn't mean that one becomes his disciple. The rarity of seeing a siddhar is like hitting down a clump of mangoes with eyes closed. The rarity of being a disciple of such a one is like having all the mangoes obtained likewise to be ripe. Bhakta: If someone knows a siddhar by some means and thereafter finds out him to be so (a siddhar), if he tells other persons will they believe it? Aya: They will not. Bhakta: Why not? 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