regrding matching of horoscopes-frm sunil nair

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om krishna guru,

respected ramadas guruji,

namaste and sashtanga pranam to your lotus feet.

I know u already r aware of all these things which i am going to explain-----------

In kerala and what i know generaly in south india we start by matchting the rasi in 10 ways like rasi,rasyaadhipa(they use differnet than normal frndship concept),vasyam,ganam(nature like godly,demonly),yoni(male /female),dinam,mahendra,stree dergham(dooram),rejju and vedham these are 10 and giving each one mark and see if there is more marks and still rejju (ayurvedic -vata ,pitta,kapha-i think)and vedha a must

Then we go for papa samya

lagana(body),2nd(family and speech),4th house (family happiness and sukha stan),7th house (house of marriage ) ,8th house (derrgha mangala stan and maraka place and house of money of partner) and 12 th house is sayana sukha stan and house of expenditure------so there is 6 places

we see any malifics are there in above said places from LAGANA,MOON(MIND) AND VENUS (INDICATOR OF MARRIAGE LIFE),

some people will giv equal weightage to lagana and moon (as considered 2nd lagan) venus less weightage as some r of the opinion that the papatwa to venus cannot be remedied as a man with loose morals and girl with equaly loose morals can not make good couples, they see 4th and 8th matching only,Only see if too much points venus is gaining esp in the case of girl,it may boost immoral tendencies or deny normal family happyness by giving separation or even illness--it depends on the horoscope,

papatwa is considered in decressing order 8/7/4/12/2/1.Most malefic is mars(planet of aggression and sudden actions),then sani,then sun,rahu finaly ketu,

also giv some marks like mars-4/sani-3/sun-2/rah and ketu-1 also in lagana-5/2nd house2/4th house-3,7th house-4/8th house-6/12th house 1

Again this we hav to see exceptions ,own house debilataion ,means good strenght can decrees the value and planet neecha or moudya will get 100% value.Only aspect of benefics can reduce the effects and malifics will surely increase the effects.

Main consideration while analysing----

1) Papa grahas should b some what equal position or countering position

2)I f malefic is benefic from bhava concerned can giv reduction

3)if malefic is yoga karak again papatwa will be reduced

4)see major dasa of papas has passed and see their sub period

5)If lady having widowhood in horoscope match with a person who has two marriage or wife marana yaga

6)Main considerations shud b given to 7th and 8th position of malefics

7)Then in mans horo papa should b in 7th house

8)Even if in female horoscope papas r in 7th and 8th,if a strong benefic in 9th then it s solved automaticaly .

AS---- navame shubha samyukte sapae aste ashtamepi va

pathi putra yuta nari modate natra samsaya

9)see if papa graha dasas coming immediatly after marriage.

10)dasa santhi nirnayam

see in both horoscopes same period dasa ends within 6 months to one years ends .See next dasa is maraka, or papa or weak then those horoscopes shud not b matched

same period dasa of enemy of lagna lord is happening and see its promise in the horoscope.

same period dasa of mutualy enemys like sun in and sani in another or rahu in one guru or venus and guru

see the period of marakas in each horoscope and should not run together at one time

Also ones maraka dasa and anothers weak dasa of 7th lord or karaka,like papayuta,papakartari,neecha etc should not happen at same time.

if malefics r in 8th house which can cause vaidhavya(widowhood),see the 8th lord and see in whose house he attained in navamsa -in his naisargika dasa can giv the effects.like moon within a year,mars within two year sun 50years ,guru-18th years after marriage

or it can giv in dasa of malefics in 8th house

then santana chinta (progency) and prosperity all kinds of stuff frm two horoscopes,longitivity should b calculated firstly before matchting

then i hav see an elaborate prashna whether there is daivaanukulyam for this union and see all kinds of nimittas and omens

all good omens like bringings of perfumes,sandal and kumkum,somebody is bringing mangal sutra,gold or new dress,married ladies or couples coming,seeing of astamangala materials,some come singing,mangala dwani like sankh,bells ringing,cows coming,elephant,royals,horses all r considerd good.

seeing somebody puts his finger in some hole or in noses /seeing some animals/birds mating --suddenly jyothishi can say not reccommended for matching.(actualy i find all this depends on upasana balam of jyothishi)

like tatwa principle or mutual position of planets and upapada matching etc was un heard till i join the jyothish forum,

if u hav any horoscope for explaining the principle u mentioned pls send me that examples or if u want from my collection i hav very few which i copied frm my various discussions and personal consultations

so guruji ,pardon me for the long mail and bad english.

take your time to send me the charts

by the by we share same lagana and my date of birth is 9th may 1963 at 11.57 pm at trichur dst kerala.I got ur date frm sjc site.

praying holi mother mahalaxmi for the well being you and your family.

kodi kodi pranams to guruji

always your sisya

sunil nair

om shreem mahalaxmai namah

ps- i do astrology for living bless me and my family.