[LK] Separation

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Hi Guruji,

 

Thank you so much for your kind reply. I will listen

to your advice and not opt for separation or divorce

for the time being. I will be patience for the time

being. I love my husband so much.I know both of us

have problem to conceive a child. For your information

I had a baby girl in 2003 born premature 7 months and

passed away after 1 week alive. Since then I never get

the chance to conceive again since this women came

into our life in 2005, and been disturbing us. I have

been advicing my husband a lot not to continue this

relationship because this will only jeopardize his

future but he refuse to listen.

 

Attached herewith a picture of the women my husband

keeping taken 2 years ago. I appreciate your help.

 

Regards

Shamin

 

 

--- gurujikopranam <gurujikopranam wrote:

 

> laalkitab , SHAMIN IBRAHIM

> <shamin2267

> wrote:

> >

> > Hi,

> >

> > I have been married for the past 10 years and

> going

> > thru mental tortures for the past 2 years.

> Initially

> > my husband has been forcing me to accept polygamy

> with

> > this 20 years old girl but I refused. Since then

> he

> > has been keeping this girl for the past 2 years

> and

> > giving me mental tortures.

> >

> > I told my husband this women is only using him for

> > money, but my husband refuse to listen.

> >

> > I have ask for a divorce since this is giving me

> so

> > much of problems, but he refuse to give... I told

> him

> > not to ruin my life and her life as well and go

> ahead

> > with his marriage with her but first give me a

> > divorce, so that I can move on with my life and

> lead a

> > life with dignity rather than getting insulted by

> this

> > girl all the time (she goes out at night with

> other

> > man as well and my husband aware of it) but he

> refuse

> > to divorce me since he needs me as well in his

> life

> > because he is very proud of me and his family is

> very

> > proud to have me as their daughter in law. He

> wants

> > both of us in his life ...however I dont trust him

> > anymore... because he says if this women doesn't

> give

> > child he will continue marry another one, but I

> will

> > always be the first wife. We are muslim and

> allowed to

> > marry more than once.

> >

> > Reason for this new marriage is I'm not able to

> give

> > him child but I know very well why we dont have

> > child...I tried telling this girl to move on with

> her

> > life and not to disturb us, but she refuse.

> >

> > I'm thinking I should opt for separation first and

> > leave alone on my own, since I always get insulted

> by

> > my husband and this girl.

> >

> > Husband

> > DOB 18/11/1964. Time 9.00pm night. Place

> Tiruvarur,

> > Tanjore, India.

> >

> > Me- Wife

> > DOB 02/02/1967. Time 12.10pm afternoon. Place :

> Kulim,

> > Malaysia

> >

> > The other women.

> > DOB 12/05/1987. Time 5.00pm evening. Place, Kuala

> > Lumpur.

> >

> >

> > Regards

> > Shamin

> >

> >

> > god bless

> shamin u r story bringtears in my eyes. listen

> one thing i am

> dame sure she will no more wityh him after

> nov2007, u hv to pass

> few more mothe i stress but its very wrong for u r

> hubby becoz huby

> nov born and in her magic he is unable to

> understand wht is

> right and wht uis wrong but within a day i will give

> the best

> solution if possible send her pic on my email

> god bless

> krishna

> 9826070286

> >

>

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