No one hepled me regarding my problem

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I posted a message under " my love relationship " but no one helped me

about future of this realtionship. I am posting the text again if

someone will have time to look into it. I starting with my details

Name Bachitter singh

Family name Kabba but I dont use it

DOB July 5, 1978 (time of birth around 5PM)

place of birth Chaunda (distt. sangrur), Punjab, India

I try to keep long story short. I am in deep love with one girl from

california. We wanted or want to get married. but this realtionship

was not acceptable to her family as we were from differnt caste. In

the mean time so many silly things happened as she was forced to get

engaged to one guy from there and that guy also wanted to get her

from long time. She told him everything about our relationship but

he said he dont care as she does not believe in internet love ( I

need to clarify that we never met each other except talking on phone

but we love each other like deep ocean). but she kept resisting to

her family and that guy. she went through very bad phase in the mean

time and in stress also met with accident and so many other thing

happened but no one melted (her family and that guy). she loves her

family very much and she was convinced that she would able to

convince everyone about our relationship. at the same that guy was

using some undecent ways to pressurise her and act so innocent to

her family. suddenly her father got very sick and she carried out in

the emotions and decided to break up completely from me and acts

like that she just dont care about me. But i know whats going on her

mind and she is forceing herself to break up this relation. I dont

know may be she will get married to that guy soon for her family. I

like to mention here that she is already married to that guys in

papers as he managed to do it through his melicious moves. well I

dont wanna say here whats going on in my heart. and still I have one

hope somewhere that I am going to get her although in reality

everything is entirely crystal clear opposite to my hope. well I

dont know how astrology work..does anyone think I would be able to

overcome all these things with my firm believe that I will get her

when reality is horrible.

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Dear Member:

 

It will be better for you to forget her and get married to some

other suitable bride. I can understand your pain, but it is better

you leave this matter gracefully so that everyone can settle down

happily in due course. If you cling to her emotionally, it will be

problematic for all - she will be torn between your affections and

her family pressures, and will suffer endlessly. A prashna chart

erected at 10-15 p.m. at Chennai (date 18th June 2007) also is not

promising about the success of this matter. Moon in the 6th house

from the prashna lagna in conjunction with malefics is not a good

combination in vivaaha prashna. This is just one of the many

negatives I found in the chart with regard to your query regarding

marriage with that girl. Otherwise, there are some good effects to

be realized within the next 3 months for you. Your persistence with

this matter might depress the girl and may even drive her into any

wrong decision (I think you would have got the hint about

the " wrong " decision that she might be forced to take). She will

either take the decision to live with the person chosen by her

family or not at all! Please leave this matter here; take your time

to console yourself and kindly move ahead. Life is vast. Love is

just one aspect of life, and you should let the one whom you love to

live in peace. You also get ahead with your life.

 

Blessed be.

Pandit R.DAKSHINAMOORTHI.vedic-

astrology , " bach_kabba " <bach_kabba wrote:

>

> I posted a message under " my love relationship " but no one helped

me

> about future of this realtionship. I am posting the text again if

> someone will have time to look into it. I starting with my details

> Name Bachitter singh

> Family name Kabba but I dont use it

> DOB July 5, 1978 (time of birth around 5PM)

> place of birth Chaunda (distt. sangrur), Punjab, India

> I try to keep long story short. I am in deep love with one girl

from

> california. We wanted or want to get married. but this realtionship

> was not acceptable to her family as we were from differnt caste. In

> the mean time so many silly things happened as she was forced to

get

> engaged to one guy from there and that guy also wanted to get her

> from long time. She told him everything about our relationship but

> he said he dont care as she does not believe in internet love ( I

> need to clarify that we never met each other except talking on

phone

> but we love each other like deep ocean). but she kept resisting to

> her family and that guy. she went through very bad phase in the

mean

> time and in stress also met with accident and so many other thing

> happened but no one melted (her family and that guy). she loves her

> family very much and she was convinced that she would able to

> convince everyone about our relationship. at the same that guy was

> using some undecent ways to pressurise her and act so innocent to

> her family. suddenly her father got very sick and she carried out

in

> the emotions and decided to break up completely from me and acts

> like that she just dont care about me. But i know whats going on

her

> mind and she is forceing herself to break up this relation. I dont

> know may be she will get married to that guy soon for her family. I

> like to mention here that she is already married to that guys in

> papers as he managed to do it through his melicious moves. well I

> dont wanna say here whats going on in my heart. and still I have

one

> hope somewhere that I am going to get her although in reality

> everything is entirely crystal clear opposite to my hope. well I

> dont know how astrology work..does anyone think I would be able to

> overcome all these things with my firm believe that I will get her

> when reality is horrible.

>