2-Nasira or capsunariesmoon re. Mars in Leo, question -

[Guest guest]

HI Mark, Thanks for the

insight. Unfortunately, I dont know if this man is really MY problem

anymore. We've been together since 1992 but (venus in Gemini?) he won't

stop cheating on me, Hi Nasira:

Well, there's your first clue! There are a number of absolute

reasons NOT to be with someone. This is definitely one of

them. it's always totally and explicitly all about him

And, here's a 2nd clue.

Relationships are all about sharing, and compromising. Look

for someone who's more mature, who's more willing to meet you 1/2

way! and he got me to the point where I stopped

feeling anything but obligation to him. And this seems natural. We end up not receiving long

enough and we will get all dried up inside.

So we've seperated. Maybe to divorce, maybe to reconcile. I don't

have any faith that anything will ever change because his mercury does

conjunct his mars and he's too self centered to change.

In astrology there are 2 aspects that will help us

in relationships. #1 there's the element of

compatibility. Are two people compatible enough? In

other words, are you both going to a similar place spiritually? Our

charts will show that, what we're all about. #2 then,

there's the quality of skill. I find many people are unsuccessful in

relation- ships because of a lack of skill. Men,

especially, are especially undeveloped when it comes to skill in

relationships. Perhaps this is as Dr. Johnny Gray says,

because Men are predominantly from Mars while women from Venus. And, Venus is the natural ruler of relationships, especially

marriage. It would be giving me too much power.

My heart is broken and I am totally miserable but at least i dont

feel like I am dying mentally and emotionally anymore. It's very distressing to not have the knowledge and wisdom

of how to attract the right kind of partner for ourselves. Sometimes it's better to be alone. I know the first step in

successful life is to learn to be truly happy by ourselves, or with

God. Then, relationships are an icing on the cake, instead of

the cake! On another note, what do you think of Pluto

transiting into Capricorn? and- when you respond do so to

nasira372 because i hardly ever check this box.

The most powerful thing I've learned from

astrology is that astrology can help me understand what positive

and negative planets I'm bringing to every relationship.

Also, I now, know how to better interpret what the other person is

bringing to me! Sometimes, we need to be clearer about

what is truly healthy for ourselves. Sometimes, we're

sabotaging our relationships and we don't know why.

Sometimes, our planets are attracting literally the wrong kind of person

to us, unconsciously. In our charts, there are some

planets called positive planets or benefices, while there are also

some planets which are negative planets called benefices.

Astrology's greatest feature is to help us see what our positive strengths

are and what our negative weaknesses are. If we don't

learn to change ourselves, we can end up attracting another kind of

person which is not really helpful for ourselves. We have

much more power then we realize. Once we balance ourselves

better, get clearer about who we are and how to be in a successful

relationship our self, then we'll be more successful. Just

focus on those few ideas we talked about above. For example,

be more discriminating. Be sure your next potential partner is

more able to be more fair with you. You deserve it! Hope this helps. -Nasira

Sincerely, Mark Kincaid PS... I

also do eastern astrology charts and if you're open I'd love to share

how your eastern chart works too.

www..com markkincaid