2-Suravi: re. Question re. chart....from Mark Kincaid

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Dear Suravi:

You're right! I put in 23:08 vs. 23:09.

Sorry for that. So, let me do a quick subtle revision then. Let's just say that

Saturn is now, ruling you're house not so much because of it's House rulership but because of its 10th House

aspect. In any case, you can hear a person's chart, when you listen to

the symptoms or signs that we're going

through. The fact that you're have frustrating delays in the area of

marriage is a classic

Saturn sign. So, looking at

one's chart and finding that yes, indeed Saturn is ruling or

directly influencing the 7th house, is still

an important Jyotish aha for you. What it truly means to have any

negative functioning influence is that we're living the negative side of that planet and we therefore need to

culture or enliven the

positive side of that

planet. So, you're wanting to get married. But, Saturn or life

is not surporting. There are many potential Astrological reasons why you're not

succeeding in your natural desire for marital bliss! The exact reason

why we're being disappointed or struggling in any area of life is directly due to the reality of any number of malefic

planets. So, it's very important that you come to realize what your

Benefic strengths are

and what your Malefic

weaknesses are. Then, the formula for life success is to learn to flow better

through one's Benefices and at the same time to stop flowing negatively

through one's malefics.

So, if your Mars in Aries is good, then doing, standing

up for oneself, being a champion of yours and other people's causes is a

good thing. However if your Saturn is not functioning properly or in a

balanced or healthy way; which by the way is the real meaning of a Malefic

functioning Saturn then

we need to figure out a way to

strengthen that malefic planet! This is where the area of Jyotish

Remedies and Remedial Measures come in. And, though they're there

potentially in Jyotish, they're never really emphasized enough. For example, it only takes one talk like this to determine

what the probably malefic or benefic status of our planets are. We could, then

start spending the bulk of our time practicing various Jyotish remedies

until the negative consequences of our planets are completely

gone! So, you need to understand and realize that Saturn is in this

case, the probable

offending planet. Saturn, however, is

not the real cause. We are the original cause of all of our planets,

so we therefore are the real solution! Each step you take now towards

strengthening and balancing your Saturn; turning him into a more and more

benefic force...will immediately eliminate this and all the negative

consequences that you may be presently going through. Therefore, this

very frustrating and debilitating Astrological and human

situation is a great opportunity for you to

learn how to strengten a very important planet in your chart! Hope this helps,

again. Sincerely, Mark Kincaid

ps... take a quick final look through below for some other comments

in blue! Chakraborty Suravi

<suravichakraborty wrote:

Respected Mark,

 

I have one clarification.

When I read my chart, I see that moon is in the 6th house

(Acquirus) and not the 7th house (Pisces). 7th house is empty. 10th

house has the saturn and ketu together. So I am confused when you mention

that Saturn rules my 7th house. May be I understood it

wrong. No, you were

right! Sorry, about that.

 

To answer your other

questions.

 

I am in Information

Technology and contented with what I am doing. I am highly spiritual and

have lot of faith in the GOD in whatever form he is in. I am not baised in

any religion like hinduism, christianity or islam. I have seen through

self realization that religion has nothing to do with dharma, Dharma is

more with knowing and performing one's responsibility towards living

beings and the mother nature. Good, so it sounds like you know what

you're doing. You've got a career and yet you've also defined

much more clearly for yourself what kind of IT person you are.

You're a highly spiritual person. So, what I want to

suggest for you, is that you not only pursue someone who's has

similar material goals of family and children; and believe me there

are thousands out there who would jump at a chance to find a good

man who wants to be honest and a good husband and father! But, it's extremely important that you also find a woman who has a

similar intensity for God, for spiritual development as you

have. And, even though you say you do not prescribe to any one

religion; this too is a clear sign of the kind of person you should

look for. Look for someone else whom you would be

compatible with in terms of your same compatibility!

 

 

I have been travelling across

the globe due to work, knowing different cultures and people. At the same

time trying to find one soul who is not selfish and hippocrate.. India

has a great precedent for all that's really necessary to find a good

bride! Arranged marriages, or help with matchmaking is a

great service and purpose of Jyotish. My suggestion is that

you look on any one of those kinds of sites. In the very near

future I'm going to create the Worlds's first interactive jyotish,

dating and marriage site. This site will not only help

people peruse a number of possible choices, but it will also teach

the two most important parts of Jyotish wisdom for marriage... #1 compatibility and also... importance of #2

good skill.... In everyone's chart we need to look for a

compatible enough person. Then, we need to figure out if

any Malefics are negatively aspecting our relationship or marital

status. The major malefic influence for you is you

Saturn. Saturn in the 10th, fully aspecting your 7th, and

fully aspecting your 4th where your Sun and Mercury are,..is a clear

indication of potential malefic ness. Especially Saturn's

direct influence upon your Mercury because Saturn's at the 7th degree in

your Gemini while Mercury's at the 8th degree in the opposite sign and

house in Sagittarius. So, Saturn is influencing your 10th,

4th and 7th houses and also potentially negatively aspecting your

Mercury decision makings. So, again put attention on

strengenging and improving your Saturn!

 

Having travelled across now I

feel I that I should also settle down in life getting married and having

my own children, whom I want to teach the good things i have learnt from

my gurus and respected elders... But not quite sure whether this will

remain as dreams only or will have a chance to be fructified.

 

Yours is a good and natural great goal! The fact that you

seem to have your physical or mundane career in order is a great boon! Many people are wishing and hoping for success in marriage and

relationships and they are not quite yet knowing what their career is or

sayed up enough money to start a marriage. My advise to you

is: begin planning right now for being married. If

you don't have enough money saved then work on that while you're

improving your Saturn! Saturn is there in life to teach us

about the importance of timings. Saturn delays

means.... " not this way and not this time.... " So,

take this Saturn delaying time to prepare better. Get more

ready for your future married life, and put this time on strengthening

your Saturn! It will help you for the remainder of your

life! Good luck Mark Kincaid ps... I also have created a very

nice 42 page e-remedy document on Saturn that I'm making available to

people. I'm charging only $ 5.00 so if you're interested let

me know.

 

" markkincaid "

<markkincaid To:

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Monday, March 12, 2007

11:38:55 AM [vedic astrology] 2-Suravi: re. Question re.

chart....from Mark Kincaid

 

To All Respected Guruji's

I am suravi and since last 2 yrs trying to find a suitable alliance

to get married and settle down in life. I was married in 2000

for 3 months and got separated but finally got divorced in

Jan 2004. Ever since then I am trying hard thru matrimonial

sites to find a match, but not been successful. Dear

Suravi: First of all the Astrological climate during

2000 was not very auspicious for starting new endeavors

including marriage. Jupiter & Saturn were in a major

planetary war and millions of people lost their jobs to name just a

few of the Saturn struggles that were going on back then.

Now, the climate is much improved, but we should also look at your

chart. It's important for you to know what the issues of marriage might be fore you. You have the all important

Moon in your 7th House so you have the right attitude and disposition to be successful in marriage. There is

only one potential negative influence in your chart that may be

influencing your 7th house wishes. Saturn rules your 7th

House and is acting in a malefic way. You know the conept of

benefices and malefics? Malefics show us where we need to

start thinking of doing things differenently. The

placement of malefic functioning Saturn's in our charts shows us

where we need to act with more Saturn patience and balance. In your chart, your Saturn rules the 7th House of marriage and

is negatively aspecting or influencing your Sun and Mercury. This often times represents someone who's Saturn is causing

us to wish and want things to develop more quickly then

they're developing on their own. So, be patient.

Nature is taking the time that is necessary for you.

One of the things you can do in the mean time is work on your dharma

or life purpose. This is always an even more

important thing anyway, and finding a partner is easier if we're

farther along in our career. What are you doing now

for your work? Is it what you're supposed to be doing? Do you know what your true dharma is? These are

all good, important questions. Hope this helps a

little. If you want to talk more personally you can write

me back or talk to me on IM. My username there is

kincaidmark@ Sincerely, Mark Kincaid Founder

Nature's Astrology www.naturesastrolog y.com markkincaid@

.com IF anyone can advice me what

should I do. suravichakraborty vedic astrology@

. com Friday, March 09, 2007 2:35

PM [vedic astrology] Can you pls guide me to start a

new life To All Respected Guruji's I

am suravi and since last 2 yrs trying to find a suitable alliance to

get married and settle down in life. I was married in 2000

for 3 months and got separated but finally got divorced in

Jan 2004. Ever since then I am trying hard thru matrimonial

sites to find a match, but not been successful. IF anyone can advice me what should I do. My DOB : 29th

DEc 1973 Place : Calcutta, India Tie : 11:08 pm,

Saturday Help me Plsssssss. Warm

Regards Suravi