Psychology: Living with a Sociopath....from Mark Kincaid 9/30

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Psychology:

Living with a SociopathTo DesertStargazer:Re. emotional roller coasters, craziness and insanity.For each person the reason why " we " go crazy sometimescan be found in our Astrology.There are several aspects to

Astrology that need to belooked at simultaneously.#1

There's obviously our charts.Looking at the Moon, the primary

planet of Lunacy! isthe most important planet.You'll

find in people with especially troublesome, smallMoons and Moon's

with strong negative aspects...the most difficulties....#2 Then, there's the influence of the Planets on ourpsyches

from the Astrological environment, every day!The effects of

the Stars upon us, all the time, is calledthe Transits in

Astrology.Looking at how the Stars affect you for 3 months

willgive you invaluable information as to why " we "

freakout.Make a concerted study of your own Stars for 3

months.1st month you'll discover a lot about your patterns.2nd month, you'll find similar patterns repeating them.That will tell you alot about your own vulnerabilities.#3 ASAP, then, focus on the lessons that you need tounderstand for strengthening those planets that arecausing you

your grief.For example if the Moon is weak or vulnerable in

yourchart, then you're supposed to strengthen it!Or, if

your Saturn's way out of balance, and chaos andcraziness is also

related to not having a healthy enoughSaturn; then one or both of

these planets needs to beimproved...Most people don't

realize that we can improve our Stars!In fact, that's the

whole purpose of Astrology!#1 To identify and understand

our Astrological selves.But, then,#2 Much

more importantly: the real goal is to strengthany and all our

planets that are weak, undeveloped orgiving us our sufferings.Sincerely,Mark KincaidAstrologerFounder Nature's Astrologywww..comyalilialiliaseagreenlisadreamoh. thanks.well - sometimes it's just

i have friends who are fine normally - and then they turn into psychosthen sometimes i am fine normally and then my friends say i am a

psychoso desertstargazer has a point - that timing is of the

essence.it's an i ching philosophy that moments of opportunity

with others (like life) are like the tides - they come and go - so we

better go with the rhythm.sometimes though i think we need to

make ripples ourselves if we feel it's important.i personally

feel that if I have been connected to someone - then it hurts me to

'demonise' them - however much of an ****hole they have been -

because i know there is a context - and also - if I'd had good times with

them - i want to remember those and appreciate the good bits - not just

throw them out by focusing on all the bad bits.and i know i can be

an ***hole too.(yes - i guess we all have them.)i like to have

balanced perspective i guess otherwise i feel it hurts me. (hm. i also got

chiron opp. pluto and uranus in libra in 5th house maybe that's why?)it's like whenever i got a problem with someone i always want to see

their side to understand them - otherwise i can't deal with it. I feel

unbalanced. I want them to know my side too, (hm, that's the ripples) but

then I accept their side of the story too - to create balance and harmony

and then life can begin again - Yes, Yalilia - Those

'toxic' people need all of the support and good feelings they can get to

improve. " if I'd had good times with them - i want

to remember those and appreciate the good bits - not just throw them out

by focusing on all the bad bits.and i know i can be an ***hole

too. " I agree with that whole-heartedly. I

currently know a person who is very confused about her life, but she means

the world to me. And regardless of the awful experiences we've been

through in the past with each other, I know she truly means good in her

heart, and she doesn't want to be the way that she is. We all want

the same thing, but there are many different paths to achieving

well-being..many different lessons to be learned. I am finally

realizing that her behavior is a cry for help, masked beneath layers of

sorrow, confusion, and depression, but it's taken me a long time to

realize this. It's hard to maintain a balanced point of

view, but once you really see what's going on, you can't turn your back

(if the afflicted person means a lot to you). Hope that made sense

in the way I wanted it to! .