2-Krishna,....kuja dosha & success in relationships & marriage? Mark Kincaid.... 3/26

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Dear Krishna:

 

There are 2 primary aspects to successful relationships...

 

#1 Compatability,....and

 

#2 Skill in relationships....

 

and not necessarily in that order. I've met a lot of people who had compatable enough charts but failed, and I've also met people, with small degrees of compatability, and yet they succeeded...

 

Marriage and partnerships is probably, 90% attitude, so if one is willing to work on the relationship, and has 'enough' compatability....

 

then, it can work.

 

But, both people need to want success, in their relationships....and the climate, today,

where it's so easy to get divorced is disastrous for partnerships...

 

Your Mars in the 7th, can be combined with another person who also has Mars aspecting the 7th, but this isn't a guarantte for success.

 

There are many other issues, that need to be addressed...

 

the Short version of all this is:

 

o Are both people going to the same place spiritually? In other words, are your long-term,

life goals, similar....

 

o ARe you compatible, emotionally, or are your Moon's compatible...?

 

o ARe the two charts compatible, in general....

 

o If compatibility is enough, then, how are each person's skill at relationships..

 

o And finally, I've noticed a lot of people suffer and fail, because they have two many weaknesses in their individual charts, so Saturn and malefic houses, can't be so strong, that one fails, no matter whom one is with....

 

I'd suggest you have both your charts analysed, with these kinds of points in mind...

 

Good luck,

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

ps... oh, yes, your Mars in the 7th, can be a detriment to marriage, but it doesn't have to remain that way. Any Malefic influences to the 'relationship' houses and Planets, ... needs to be improved, and if we improve ourselves, then success is possible...

 

You have to ask yourself, if 'partners' complain that you're too aggressive, or fiery, or bossy, in relationships?

 

If partners tell you this, then, you can be inspired to learn how to diminish, that maleficness, otherwise, it may be difficult in marriage.

 

There are other things that can be good and bad, for ex. your Moon's very good, in Cancer...

and emotionally, you should be with someone else who has a generous, softer, more kind hearted emotional nature...

 

However, you also have those planets in Virgo, Sun, Rahu & Mercury.

 

Only Mercury's really happy there, so you have to be careful that you're not too hard, or critical

on 'yourself',....or 'others'....

 

You can use that good detailed, conscious energy at work, (in your 10th house) but when you come home, you need to shift into a more sweet, giving, Venus nature....

 

Lots of people fail in relationships for a number of clear Astrological resons.

 

Men especially suffer because they're either too Marish or too critical.

 

That's why Venus is the natural ruler of partnerships...

 

And for Venus, Venus appreciates, see's the half-full glass, and is loving and giving....

 

Giving, after all is the key, to success in relationships....

 

hope this helps

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

 

 

kris nag <storageman1977

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Sat, 26 Mar 2005 12:14:58 -0800 (PST)

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Re: [vedic astrology] 2-Krishna,....Re: what is kuja dosha? > Mark Kincaid.... 3/25

 

 

Namaste Gurujis Mr.Mark,

 

Thanks for replying to query on kuja dosha.

 

As requested Iam sending my D.O.B. Please tell whether I need to look for bride with kuja dosha as Iam in the process of seeing bride.

 

MY

> date of birth:7th october 1977

> time: 11:19 am

> place:Erode, 11.20 N, 77.46 E

>

>

> Rasi chart:

> RASI:KATAGAM

> lagna:sagittarius

> sunsign: Libra

> 4th house: ketu

> 7th house: Mars, Jupiter

> 8th house: Moon

> 9th house: Venus, saturn

> 10th house: sun, mercury, Rahu

 

 

by God blessings,

 

krishna

 

 

 

Mark Kincaid <m.kincaid wrote:

Dear Krishna:

 

Kuja dosha is both an important consideration in marriage, and is yet, not the dreaded curse,

that one would get from others sometimes.

 

However Mars in the 7th is part of kuja dosha because it represents one of those places in the chart where Mars will be influencing the 7th house of marriage.

 

Generally the rule is to be connected with someone who also has kuja dosha, but practical experience shows that too, can have it's own set of problems.

 

I've looked at some people's charts, and both people's difficult Mars just means twice as much argueing.

 

I'd suggest that you publish your dob info, and have people look at all the various aspects of your chart, so as find some solution.

 

Sincerely,

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

ps... one quick bit of advice, for most Mars aspects upon the 7th house, is to change one's ways associated with one's Marishness.

 

In other words, if one has the habit of being too Marish, especially related to affairs of the heart, and partnerships, then, the suggestion is to tone down that degree of Mars, assertiveness.

 

The only exception I've found to this, is a client of mine who had Mars in Cancer, in her 7th, and she also needed to stand up for herself, more.

 

That's why I suggested, giving your dob, info, ....

 

ciao

 

 

 

 

 

kris nag <storageman1977

vedic astrology

Fri, 25 Mar 2005 13:18:52 -0800 (PST)

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Re: [vedic astrology] Re: what is kuja dosha and what if one has it?what are the precautions to be tak

 

 

Namasthe Guruji,

This is an excellent explanation.But I have one basic doubt.

 

As per your prediction I shouldnt have mangalya dosha as I have mars in 7th place and my moon sign is cancer with sagitarrius lagna but some astrologers insist that I should marry a girl with mangalya dosha.

 

As Iam in the process of bride search it would be helpful if you could reply.

 

with God blessings

krishna

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

sureshbabuag <sureshbabuag wrote:

 

Namasthe

 

For a female 7th is the Kalatra Sthana and 8th is the Mangalya Sthana.

For a male only 7th is considered (kalatra Sthana). Any malefic

influence by way of position or aspect in these rasi/bhava should be

countered equaly in the other chart.

 

To make it clear

 

If a female chart is having Mars in the 7th or 8th the male chart

should have a similar planet in the 7th (8th is not considered).

 

if this influence is in the 7th of a male chart then the 7th of the

female should have simlar planet.

 

if Mars is in the 1st he aspects the 7th & 8th rasi , if he in the 4th

he aspects the 7th (4th drishti), if he is in the 2nd he aspects the

8th rasi and if he is in the 12th the he aspects the 7th rasi. Hence

these positions are said to be Kuja Dosha positions.

 

Of these the position in the 7th of male and female and 8th of female

are the worst.

 

Exeption to the above is

Mars in capricorn (exaltation ) and in cancer (debilation) is not

considered are kuja dosha. Any exalted planet including mars is

considered benefic. Mars in cancer is like a charcoal ( burning

meterial in water) - incapable of any gross mischief.

 

A malefic position in the kendras particulary influences once

character, attitudes sometimes adversely and may not be condusive for

a happy married life. for example sun influences ego, authority- Mars

influences anger, military like attitudes while saturn induces

stuborness.

 

The idea of matching is that the other side should be capable of

handling such persons. apart from these there are other genetic /

phisycal/metabolic/Psychological compapatabilty issues embeded in the

same situation.

 

Be it a partnership or frienship , it shall be between equals.

 

It is this eqality that is being sought in marriage.

 

A.G.Suresh Babu

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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> Respected Members,

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> May i know what is kuja dosha and

when does one have it in a chart?

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> thanking you

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> with regards

>

> v.suresh babu

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