2-Susmitra, Mark K....What is Wrong...Marriage challenges

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dear mark,

 

appreciate your reply, for my quest looking for solutions, i don't

know what my rising star is...........if you can give me some clue i

will start seaching for it.

 

sincerely

sue

 

 

 

, " Mark Kincaid "

<m.kincaid@m...> wrote:

> Dear Sushmita:

>

> Listen to the words of your speech, and you'll begin to hear the

> Planets that are reflecting ....your karmas and experiences....

>

> You understand the Jyotish, and Vedic concept of

> consequences, right?

>

> Well, as hard as it is, to accept " when terrible things happen to

> good people " ,..... this is one aspect of karma, as they say in the

> East, or 'as you sow, so shall you reap.', according to the

> West......

>

> But, the most important thing here, is to accept that what

> happens to us, is in some way our responsibility,....

>

> We accept,....

> so, that, we can ultimately gain the power to change anything!

>

> Because if karma doesn't reign, then, it's truely possible to be a

> victim, and if it's possible that we're being victimized, then,

> there's even less hope.

>

> The Universe is too big, too vast, and could beat us up, forever,

if

> it wasn't for one simple thing....

>

> The Universe or God, allows us to do whatever we want,..... the

> downside, as it sometimes feels like this,....is we're going to be

> held responsible for our actions, whether we experience them,

> from today, last year, or our last life time.....

>

> The hardest thing to accept in life, is if we're suffering....

>

> I remember, like yesterday, in my early pre 20's years, where I

> was suffering all the time. I was very lonely, and sad, and very

> sensitive to how mean and uncaring the World seemed to be.

>

> Well, a number of years later, when I started to study Jyotish, I

> could see the intellectual reasons, 'why' I suffered, and I didn't

> know the real, concrete reasons why I created this reality, but it

> did stop and make me think, when I could see the Astrological,

> reasons, or configurations in my chart that literally, would

explain

> these sufferings...

>

> I'm going to a great extent, to explain all this, because, in

case,

> there's a strain of 'blame' in your words.

>

> If we're going to blame, our husband, or our parent's or God, or

> life, itself, for our situation, then we're powerless.

>

> The really great news about Karma, is....

> if it's really true that karma is supreme, and " no one can do to

us,

> anything but what we've created for ourselves,..... "

>

> Then!,.....this means that no one can really do to us, anything

but

> what we've already created!

>

> In other words, we're really free!

> to right now, from this very moment, ......

> start the process of creating better and better karmas.....

>

> When I take a quick look at your chart,

> I'm first looking for Saturn, because sufferings are almost always

> due to a malefic functioning Sani,.....but your Sani is good, in

> Capricorn, in it's own sign,....

>

> But, then I noticed that your Mars is weak, in it's sign of

> debilitation, in Cancer...

>

> This is important because the 'malefics' in our charts, give us

> Astrological meaning, but even more importantly, they explain to

> us where and how we need to strengthen ourselves,...

>

> so that, we can create right now, better results!

>

> Mars in Cancer, is often associated with people who get abused,

> victimized, or 'TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF',.....

>

> The reason for this is Mars is how we act, and stand up for

> ourselves....

>

> And when Mars is weak, we don't take good enough care of

> ourselves....

>

> But, now, you're aware that you've been taken advantage of,...

> so this is a good thing, according to your Jyotish, that you're

> beginning to say......'no'.....

>

> As a woman and a wife, women need to say 'NO'! when they're

> not being treated right!

>

> farely, or equitably!

>

> Also, can you tell me what your Rising sign is?

>

> That'll help determine the exact placement of the planets...

>

>

> So, my Jyotish prescription, is realize that you can change

> anything!

>

> And begin the process of knowing that you deserve better, but,

> it's up to you, to begin this process,....

>

> Karma isn't an excuse, for accepting, 'wrong' behaviors,.... from

> ourselves, and especially from others...but

>

> Accepting, 'karma', is so we stop blaming and being a victim,

> and begin the very important process, of creating,....better

> karmas and consequences for ourselves...

>

> Good Luck!

>

>

> Hope this helps,.....

>

> Sincerely,

>

>

>

> Mark Kincaid

>

>

>

> ps.... I do also more formal Jyotish readings, which I'll list

below,

> in case you still want to go into more detail:

>

>

> For Personal

> Jyotish Charts....

>

> See below for some more information.

>

>

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>

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>

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> strengths

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> transformations and

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>

>

>

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>

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>

>

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>

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>

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>

> pss.... you also said:

>

> waiting for the good time to come and hope that things will

> change.

> > Is it possible to look at my chart and say when will i be out of

> this

> > nightmare which is caused not me and my husband but his

> sisters.

> > hwo do youlook at that in astrology.

> > His date of birth October 7th 1944. Can i relie on him as i lost

> > trust in him.He has no interest in bringing any happiness

> home.

> >

> > ur reply will be appreciated

>

> Yes, it is possible to see when some times might improve, but

> it's also important to look at his chart, and even more

importanly,

> He, needs to get involved in taking responsibility

for 'things', ....

>

> In other words, we should look at his chart, and again what is his

> rising sign,...

> but He, also, needs to take responsibility, in his contribution to

> these problems...

>

> When I do 'Relationship', Jyotish counseling, I teach both people

> what they're bringing to the relationship from their charts,....

and

> each person needs to know these are my! strengths,...and my

> weaknesses....

>

> That way we stop blaming each other for the problems,.....and in

> accepting responsibility, we begin creating better realities...

>

> I'm sure he's blaming you, too, for some problems, right?

In , " sushmita "

> <u_sastri> wrote:

> > Dear sir,

> > My DOB is Novemebr 7th 1962 Hyderabad India , Time 10 PM.

> > I am getting tired of this living hell . Why do things go so

bad

> > eventhough we dont do anything.Due to circumstance i'am

> married to a

> > man who is much older than me. Initially he was nice. But after

> 15

> > years i have realized that he is nothing but a big lie.

> > I'am unable to take this at the same time i can't think of

leaving

> > him as i have to children and i do not want to deprive them of

> father.

> > My in-laws (his sisters) have tired their best to separete us

due

> to

> > property matter's. He even gave up his share. But all this has

> > created a lot of distance between us.

> > We live like stangers and i have become very depressed. I'am

> only

> > waiting for the good time to come and hope that things will

> change.

> > Is it possible to look at my chart and say when will i be out of

> this

> > nightmare which is caused not me and my husband but his

> sisters.

> > hwo do youlook at that in astrology.

> > His date of birth October 7th 1944. Can i relie on him as i lost

> > trust in him.He has no interest in bringing any happiness

> home.

> >

> > ur reply will be appreciated