2-Susmitra, Mark K....What is Wrong...Marriage challenges

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Dear Sushmita:

 

Listen to the words of your speech, and you'll begin to hear the

Planets that are reflecting ....your karmas and experiences....

 

You understand the Jyotish, and Vedic concept of

consequences, right?

 

Well, as hard as it is, to accept " when terrible things happen to

good people " ,..... this is one aspect of karma, as they say in the

East, or 'as you sow, so shall you reap.', according to the

West......

 

But, the most important thing here, is to accept that what

happens to us, is in some way our responsibility,....

 

We accept,....

so, that, we can ultimately gain the power to change anything!

 

Because if karma doesn't reign, then, it's truely possible to be a

victim, and if it's possible that we're being victimized, then,

there's even less hope.

 

The Universe is too big, too vast, and could beat us up, forever, if

it wasn't for one simple thing....

 

The Universe or God, allows us to do whatever we want,..... the

downside, as it sometimes feels like this,....is we're going to be

held responsible for our actions, whether we experience them,

from today, last year, or our last life time.....

 

The hardest thing to accept in life, is if we're suffering....

 

I remember, like yesterday, in my early pre 20's years, where I

was suffering all the time. I was very lonely, and sad, and very

sensitive to how mean and uncaring the World seemed to be.

 

Well, a number of years later, when I started to study Jyotish, I

could see the intellectual reasons, 'why' I suffered, and I didn't

know the real, concrete reasons why I created this reality, but it

did stop and make me think, when I could see the Astrological,

reasons, or configurations in my chart that literally, would explain

these sufferings...

 

I'm going to a great extent, to explain all this, because, in case,

there's a strain of 'blame' in your words.

 

If we're going to blame, our husband, or our parent's or God, or

life, itself, for our situation, then we're powerless.

 

The really great news about Karma, is....

if it's really true that karma is supreme, and " no one can do to us,

anything but what we've created for ourselves,..... "

 

Then!,.....this means that no one can really do to us, anything but

what we've already created!

 

In other words, we're really free!

to right now, from this very moment, ......

start the process of creating better and better karmas.....

 

When I take a quick look at your chart,

I'm first looking for Saturn, because sufferings are almost always

due to a malefic functioning Sani,.....but your Sani is good, in

Capricorn, in it's own sign,....

 

But, then I noticed that your Mars is weak, in it's sign of

debilitation, in Cancer...

 

This is important because the 'malefics' in our charts, give us

Astrological meaning, but even more importantly, they explain to

us where and how we need to strengthen ourselves,...

 

so that, we can create right now, better results!

 

Mars in Cancer, is often associated with people who get abused,

victimized, or 'TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF',.....

 

The reason for this is Mars is how we act, and stand up for

ourselves....

 

And when Mars is weak, we don't take good enough care of

ourselves....

 

But, now, you're aware that you've been taken advantage of,...

so this is a good thing, according to your Jyotish, that you're

beginning to say......'no'.....

 

As a woman and a wife, women need to say 'NO'! when they're

not being treated right!

 

farely, or equitably!

 

Also, can you tell me what your Rising sign is?

 

That'll help determine the exact placement of the planets...

 

 

So, my Jyotish prescription, is realize that you can change

anything!

 

And begin the process of knowing that you deserve better, but,

it's up to you, to begin this process,....

 

Karma isn't an excuse, for accepting, 'wrong' behaviors,.... from

ourselves, and especially from others...but

 

Accepting, 'karma', is so we stop blaming and being a victim,

and begin the very important process, of creating,....better

karmas and consequences for ourselves...

 

Good Luck!

 

 

Hope this helps,.....

 

Sincerely,

 

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

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pss.... you also said:

 

waiting for the good time to come and hope that things will

change.

> Is it possible to look at my chart and say when will i be out of

this

> nightmare which is caused not me and my husband but his

sisters.

> hwo do youlook at that in astrology.

> His date of birth October 7th 1944. Can i relie on him as i lost

> trust in him.He has no interest in bringing any happiness

home.

>

> ur reply will be appreciated

 

Yes, it is possible to see when some times might improve, but

it's also important to look at his chart, and even more importanly,

He, needs to get involved in taking responsibility for 'things', ....

 

In other words, we should look at his chart, and again what is his

rising sign,...

but He, also, needs to take responsibility, in his contribution to

these problems...

 

When I do 'Relationship', Jyotish counseling, I teach both people

what they're bringing to the relationship from their charts,.... and

each person needs to know these are my! strengths,...and my

weaknesses....

 

That way we stop blaming each other for the problems,.....and in

accepting responsibility, we begin creating better realities...

 

I'm sure he's blaming you, too, for some problems, right?

 

 

 

 

 

 

In , " sushmita "

<u_sastri> wrote:

> Dear sir,

> My DOB is Novemebr 7th 1962 Hyderabad India , Time 10 PM.

> I am getting tired of this living hell . Why do things go so bad

> eventhough we dont do anything.Due to circumstance i'am

married to a

> man who is much older than me. Initially he was nice. But after

15

> years i have realized that he is nothing but a big lie.

> I'am unable to take this at the same time i can't think of leaving

> him as i have to children and i do not want to deprive them of

father.

> My in-laws (his sisters) have tired their best to separete us due

to

> property matter's. He even gave up his share. But all this has

> created a lot of distance between us.

> We live like stangers and i have become very depressed. I'am

only

> waiting for the good time to come and hope that things will

change.

> Is it possible to look at my chart and say when will i be out of

this

> nightmare which is caused not me and my husband but his

sisters.

> hwo do youlook at that in astrology.

> His date of birth October 7th 1944. Can i relie on him as i lost

> trust in him.He has no interest in bringing any happiness

home.

>

> ur reply will be appreciated