2-& Bill, ....from Mark Kincaid....3/22....re..... Benefits despite incompatibility?

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Dear Friends:

 

Here's an intersting discussion about the importance of compatabilities...

in success in relationships...or not!

 

 

enjoy

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dear Bill:

 

You bring up a very good Astrological question.

 

When you study people's charts, you can't help but find sometimes,

individuals who've been able to make their lives, and relationships, work

inspite of low or poor Astrological considerations.

 

Also, you can find people who have good potential to make their charts work

and yet, they have not been able to make it work.

 

2 me, this conjurs up two important Jyotish points....

 

#1....we have the free will, to desire, and strive to accomplish.... that

which is quote, 'not in the stars'....

 

This shows that it is 'we', or the 'I', or self...which is really supreme...

 

I like to think of Jyotish as a guide.

 

And certainly I've found it so accurate so many times, as it's

predictabilities...can't be denied...

 

But,....

 

we are not slaves to the Stars....

 

We are in fact....the creators of the Stars...

 

As we are the creators of our Karma.... we can also change and live beyond

any negative influences...

 

The power of spirit, of will, exists...there within us....

 

#2....I like to use, Jyotish rules and principles say of compatabilities...

as I said, as a guide....and for especially those people who are having

problems... to try taking advantage of some of these rules...

 

like the Moon's compatibilities.

 

and learn from Jyotish how 2 people's charts....can help or hinder their

relationships...

 

Also, certain people sticking to and making their relationships work inspite

of poor or low Jyotish compatabilities...

 

shows how important 'committment' is in life....

 

I find in those people who have not been able to make their relationships

work; that it's not because of lack of compatability....

 

but because of lack of desire......or committment...

 

This itself, is one of the major reasons why so many people are suffering at

lack of success in terms of relationships....

 

because they're looking for love....first...instead ....of realizing... that

love and respect and success comes through devotion and a lifetime of effort

instead of just some sort of effortless, spontaneous, love....

 

Hope this helps...

 

 

Sincerely,

 

 

 

Mark Kincaid

 

 

 

 

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> Ashwin Sun <ashwinjlsun

> JyotishVidya

> Wed, 17 Mar 2004 22:01:47 -0800 (PST)

> JyotishVidya

> Re: [JyotishVidya] Benefits despite incompatibility?

>

> Dear Bill-

>

> I think, depending on the attitude of the witness, that any relationship can

> definately be 'around' to increase our karmic proccess...as Wendy has been

> pointing out, everyone has to play their parts, and for us as individuals,

> someone has to play out our negative/positive karmic " backdrop " for our

> experiences.

>

> I personally have learnt most from my most challenging/discordant

> relationship...albeit the most painful & upsetting...

>

> Namaste-

> Ashwin

>

> Bill Kent <billkent wrote:

> Dear All,

>

> Does anyone have an opinion as to whether or not a husband and wife

> might be together to work out past karma in a positive way, to the

> mutual benefit of both people, despite having very little

> compatibility from a Jyotish point of view?

>

> In other words, could a marriage be a vehicle for growth, even though

> it had conflict and disappointment and ended unhappily and the charts

> indicate that the match was not good?

>

> myself: march 31, 1948. time of birth: 04:00

> place: Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

> longitude:113 degrees W30 minutes zero seconds.

> latitude: 53 degrees n32 minutes 59 seconds.

>

>

> Former wife: may 29,1949 .time of birth:14:14

> place: Sidney, British Columbia, Canada

> longitude:123 degrees W25;

> latitude: 48 degrees n38

>

>

> Is it possible that the comfort/happiness/enjoyment part of the

> relationship took second place to growth and development? Or is that

> just a way of rationalizing something that might have been not very

> good from any point of view?

>

> Your opinions would be very welcome!

>

> Thanks

> Bill

>

>

>