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Jai

 

ur lagna lord Guru is in a fixed sign in D1, D9 and his dasa starts from

12/Mar /09 so by June 24 09 u wud have started ur howward journey. the

periods of grahas [planets] in fixed sings will bring u back to base or home

country for best part, u will still travel on work for short durations. it

will be a v good period in manyways.

 

is ur wife's family better placed than urs in some ways?

 

many obstacles, indecessive times will be there due to Ashtama sani running

in ur case, mother's health also may suffer a bit. between 23/2/08 to

12/3/09 in this 13/5/ to 3/7/08 cud be one such period. some trouble to

vehicles also is possible

 

Mars aspect to 4thhouse, 4th lord is a factor it is placed in 6 in D9 too.

 

Arundathi's

 

is born in a Lagna sandhi will work on this only if there is some verifiable

data alsp post both urs and her pictures in the members picture area here

helps verify lagna features too.

 

I use ramans' ayanamsa so dasa, vargas, dates will differ from others in any

case lagna is a sandhi [cusp] point

 

for that matter both of urs data seems too good to be born on the dot on the

hr

 

Best wishes

 

Prashant kumar

 

On Sun, Jun 29, 2008 at 10:58 AM, Jai Dixit <jaidixit74 wrote:

 

> Dear Jay,

>

> I've approved your mail on the off-chance that members might wish to offer

> their opinion...and also because you've asked one specific question

> regarding your location/relocation. However I should remind you that this is

> a discussion group and not a place to request readings.

>

> Best Wishes,

> Mrs. Wendy

> Http://JyotishVidya.com <http://jyotishvidya.com/>

> ___________________________

>

> Dear Jyotishi

>

> I'm presently residing in USA and have a decent paying job. My wife and 7

> month daughter are with me here. My wife has a visa issue and if she goes to

> India she is most likely to be denied a US visa because of the weird US

> immigration rules. There is no issue if she continues to stay in US till I

> become a US citizen in July 2010. The problem is she desperately wants to go

> to India just to meet her family and she has become extremely home-sick.

> Added to this her mother and I have had major problems when she was here in

> US. So we are in a situation where neither her parents cannot/will not come

> visit us or my parents come visit us.

>

> My plan was to relocate to India permanently once I get US citizenship.

> Getting US citizenship has lot of advantages like retirement benefits,visa

> free travel to many countries while still maintaining Indian citizenship

> etc.

>

> Now with all said above I need to take a major decision on where I need to

> e staying. I hope that Jyotish can guide me in making a decision.

>

> 1)Is it good for me and my wife to relocate to India for good like in next

> few months thereby giving up US citizenship ? If so how are my career

> prospects in India in the forthcoming months?

>

> 2) Are there any chances of my wife getting back to USA if she leaves for

> India ?

>

> I have been doing my regular pooja everyday and reciting Navagrah sthothra.

>

>

> Birth details

>

> Jai

> Aug 2 1974

> 17:00 PM

> Bangalore, India

>

> Arundathi

> June 24 1976

> 7:30 AM

> Bangalore, India

>

> Thanks in advance,

> Jai

>

>

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Dear Shri Prashant Kumar,

 

Thanks a lot for your response. I've uploaded mine and and my wife's

photos for your reference.

Yes my wife's family is better off in terms of finance , social status

and family bonding.

 

I do agree that our birth times are seemingly " rounded off " . But this is

what we received from our parents and unfortunately.

 

Here is a brief history of my life events. If you feel my birth time

needs correction please let me know.

 

Childhood: Normal , carefree, studious. Good academic record.

Teenage : Fantastic academic record. Troubled relationship with father.

1992 - 1996 ( 18 - 22 ): Engineering degree. Below average academic

record. Not very high scores.

1997 - 1999 : Worked in India. Good career.

1999 (25 years ): Moved to USA.

2002 (28 years ): Got married. Marriage did not work at all because of

the weird/cruel nature of the girl. Depressed ,reclused and

disinterested in life

2003 ( 29 years ): Father passed away

2004 ( 30 years ) : Got divorced.

2005 April ( 31 years ) : Got married without getting horoscope matched

as we were in love with each other. Strained relationship after first

six months of marriage. Has improved a lot now. Got to know later that

our horoscopes do NOT match.

2007 Nov ( 33 years ) : Birth of my daughter

 

No major illnesses or accidents. Fairly good health. Average

finances,Middle class types

 

Mrs.Wendy,

Thanks for your consideration and allowing my post to go through.

 

Regards,

Jai

 

In jyotish-vidya , " astro desk "

<astro.prashantkumar wrote:

>

> Jai

>

> ur lagna lord Guru is in a fixed sign in D1, D9 and his dasa starts

from

> 12/Mar /09 so by June 24 09 u wud have started ur howward journey. the

> periods of grahas [planets] in fixed sings will bring u back to base

or home

> country for best part, u will still travel on work for short

durations. it

> will be a v good period in manyways.

>

> is ur wife's family better placed than urs in some ways?

>

> many obstacles, indecessive times will be there due to Ashtama sani

running

> in ur case, mother's health also may suffer a bit. between 23/2/08 to

> 12/3/09 in this 13/5/ to 3/7/08 cud be one such period. some trouble

to

> vehicles also is possible

>

> Mars aspect to 4thhouse, 4th lord is a factor it is placed in 6 in D9

too.

>

> Arundathi's

>

> is born in a Lagna sandhi will work on this only if there is some

verifiable

> data alsp post both urs and her pictures in the members picture area

here

> helps verify lagna features too.

>

> I use ramans' ayanamsa so dasa, vargas, dates will differ from others

in any

> case lagna is a sandhi [cusp] point

>

> for that matter both of urs data seems too good to be born on the dot

on the

> hr

>

> Best wishes

>

> Prashant kumar

>

> On Sun, Jun 29, 2008 at 10:58 AM, Jai Dixit jaidixit74 wrote:

>

> > Dear Jay,

> >

> > I've approved your mail on the off-chance that members might wish to

offer

> > their opinion...and also because you've asked one specific question

> > regarding your location/relocation. However I should remind you that

this is

> > a discussion group and not a place to request readings.

> >

> > Best Wishes,

> > Mrs. Wendy

> > Http://JyotishVidya.com <http://jyotishvidya.com/>

> > ___________________________

> >

> > Dear Jyotishi

> >

> > I'm presently residing in USA and have a decent paying job. My wife

and 7

> > month daughter are with me here. My wife has a visa issue and if she

goes to

> > India she is most likely to be denied a US visa because of the weird

US

> > immigration rules. There is no issue if she continues to stay in US

till I

> > become a US citizen in July 2010. The problem is she desperately

wants to go

> > to India just to meet her family and she has become extremely

home-sick.

> > Added to this her mother and I have had major problems when she was

here in

> > US. So we are in a situation where neither her parents cannot/will

not come

> > visit us or my parents come visit us.

> >

> > My plan was to relocate to India permanently once I get US

citizenship.

> > Getting US citizenship has lot of advantages like retirement

benefits,visa

> > free travel to many countries while still maintaining Indian

citizenship

> > etc.

> >

> > Now with all said above I need to take a major decision on where I

need to

> > e staying. I hope that Jyotish can guide me in making a decision.

> >

> > 1)Is it good for me and my wife to relocate to India for good like

in next

> > few months thereby giving up US citizenship ? If so how are my

career

> > prospects in India in the forthcoming months?

> >

> > 2) Are there any chances of my wife getting back to USA if she

leaves for

> > India ?

> >

> > I have been doing my regular pooja everyday and reciting Navagrah

sthothra.

> >

> >

> > Birth details

> >

> > Jai

> > Aug 2 1974

> > 17:00 PM

> > Bangalore, India

> >

> > Arundathi

> > June 24 1976

> > 7:30 AM

> > Bangalore, India

> >

> > Thanks in advance,

> > Jai

> >

> >

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Dear Jai,

 

After reading your chart I wish to point out a few things.

Firstly, we need to understand why you could not come up with a

decision on your own. A weak moon in natal chart and saturn conjunct

moon in the 4th house(D-9) explains your melancholic nature/ some one

easily given to stress; 5th lord mars is weak in natal chart and

debilitated in navamsa (D-9) indicates your indecisive nature. Even if

you get advice from the senior members of your family, it seems that

you get into arguments with them (influence of mars). So finally how

you form your decisions? You turn to those in the social circle

(11th) or approach a social group like this. Would you benefit from

such advises? Let's look into that. Your lagna is aspected by 11th

lord venus, lagna lord aspecting 7th, 9th and 11th houses.So,

certainly you would.

 

In my view, the challenge for you is to understand the

significations of these houses. 7th house says of relationship in

general. 9th house signifies father and your current spouse. 11th

house gains from social circle as well as income. Lagna lord is the

same as 4th lord which says of your mother. Is it true if I say that

your mother is the person who has influenced you the most?. What I

wish to tell you is that, your life is very much relationship

oriented. It is more important that you learn to adapt to the

challenges in relationships than anythingelse. How could you learn

that? Let's have a look at your personality and your approach to

relationships in general.

 

Your lagna (dual sign) and 7th house (dual sign) shows that you are a

dual natured person. The two planets -saturn and venus- in 7th house

aspecting lagna helps to understand your nature. In my view, at one

time you are well-groomed, charming and romantic person, at another

instance you are reserved, cold, stubborn person which is mostly

hidden. Also,Gemini being your 7th sign, communicating with your loved

ones is a major issue for you. It's lord mercury in rashi sandhi

speaks of the errors that could occur with it. You may be easily

misunderstood and find yourself in agony. Note that if anytime you

fail in a relationship it is because of your own withdrawal (ketu).

Remember that it's okay to give in to other person's opinion; that

would fetch you more love and a happy life. If you find that your

spouse's view is wrong, learn to put your views across in a calm and

patient manner. This will definitely help you in forming a decision.

 

Regards,

Manasa.

 

 

P.S. Praying to lord krishna and meditation would be of great help to

you in your most difficult times.

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Dear Manasa,

 

I'm absolutely amazed( in a good way ) at your systematic analysis and

very much appreciate your response and your kind advise. Your analysis

is spot on and infact my wife Arundathi agreed 100% as well. All your

points are well taken. Yes my mother has had a big influence for a

long time in my life and I used to be a mama's boy. Only recently I

have started to not follow her blindly after some sort of counseling.

I have learned my lessons the hard way and I only hope things go well.

 

Once again I appreciate your response.

 

 

Thanks and regards,

Jai

 

jyotish-vidya , " m2sangeeth " <m2sangeeth wrote:

>

> Dear Jai,

>

> After reading your chart I wish to point out a few things.

> Firstly, we need to understand why you could not come up with a

> decision on your own. A weak moon in natal chart and saturn conjunct

> moon in the 4th house(D-9) explains your melancholic nature/ some one

> easily given to stress; 5th lord mars is weak in natal chart and

> debilitated in navamsa (D-9) indicates your indecisive nature. Even if

> you get advice from the senior members of your family, it seems that

> you get into arguments with them (influence of mars). So finally how

> you form your decisions? You turn to those in the social circle

> (11th) or approach a social group like this. Would you benefit from

> such advises? Let's look into that. Your lagna is aspected by 11th

> lord venus, lagna lord aspecting 7th, 9th and 11th houses.So,

> certainly you would.

>

> In my view, the challenge for you is to understand the

> significations of these houses. 7th house says of relationship in

> general. 9th house signifies father and your current spouse. 11th

> house gains from social circle as well as income. Lagna lord is the

> same as 4th lord which says of your mother. Is it true if I say that

> your mother is the person who has influenced you the most?. What I

> wish to tell you is that, your life is very much relationship

> oriented. It is more important that you learn to adapt to the

> challenges in relationships than anythingelse. How could you learn

> that? Let's have a look at your personality and your approach to

> relationships in general.

>

> Your lagna (dual sign) and 7th house (dual sign) shows that you are a

> dual natured person. The two planets -saturn and venus- in 7th house

> aspecting lagna helps to understand your nature. In my view, at one

> time you are well-groomed, charming and romantic person, at another

> instance you are reserved, cold, stubborn person which is mostly

> hidden. Also,Gemini being your 7th sign, communicating with your loved

> ones is a major issue for you. It's lord mercury in rashi sandhi

> speaks of the errors that could occur with it. You may be easily

> misunderstood and find yourself in agony. Note that if anytime you

> fail in a relationship it is because of your own withdrawal (ketu).

> Remember that it's okay to give in to other person's opinion; that

> would fetch you more love and a happy life. If you find that your

> spouse's view is wrong, learn to put your views across in a calm and

> patient manner. This will definitely help you in forming a decision.

>

> Regards,

> Manasa.

>

>

> P.S. Praying to lord krishna and meditation would be of great help to

> you in your most difficult times.

>

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Dear Shri.Prashant

 

Please find the details below and let me know if you need any further

information.

 

First job in India : June 1997

Job change in India : August 2009

Moved to US on December 30 1999

First job in US: Feb 13 2000 ( Contract job )

Became a permanent employee on April 1 2001

Been employed with the same company ever since

Job location : Houston , TX

Father's death: December 5 2003

First Marriage: Sep 19th 2002

 

Second Marriage : April 15th 2005

Birth details of daughter : Nov 4 2007 , Houston TX 8:36 AM US Central

time

No abortions/miscarriages ever

 

I'm indeed prone to mood swings and violent behavior due to sudden

eruption of anger.

 

Thanks,

Jai

 

jyotish-vidya , " astro desk "

<astro.prashantkumar wrote:

>

> Dear Jai,

>

> well u have to provide dates wherever u can

> say married on divorced on

> any issues/abortions miscarriages in it

>

> father's death date. approx time.

> remarriage.

> daughter born on, time, place.

>

> one or tow dates of in and out of ur job/s. any relocation if any dates.

>

> YES a 2nd marriage was always on ur cards and the troubles u said in

it this

> also shows u r equally disturbed a person and prone to mood swings

and at

> times violent too. will cover this when i reply next.

>

> Best wishes

>

> prashant kumar

>

>

>

> On Mon, Jun 30, 2008 at 2:31 AM, jaidixit74 <jaidixit74 wrote:

>

> > Dear Shri Prashant Kumar,

> >

> > Thanks a lot for your response. I've uploaded mine and and my wife's

> > photos for your reference.

> > Yes my wife's family is better off in terms of finance , social status

> > and family bonding.

> >

> > I do agree that our birth times are seemingly " rounded off " . But

this is

> > what we received from our parents and unfortunately.

> >

> > Here is a brief history of my life events. If you feel my birth time

> > needs correction please let me know.

> >

> > Childhood: Normal , carefree, studious. Good academic record.

> > Teenage : Fantastic academic record. Troubled relationship with

father.

> > 1992 - 1996 ( 18 - 22 ): Engineering degree. Below average academic

> > record. Not very high scores.

> > 1997 - 1999 : Worked in India. Good career.

> > 1999 (25 years ): Moved to USA.

> > 2002 (28 years ): Got married. Marriage did not work at all because of

> > the weird/cruel nature of the girl. Depressed ,reclused and

> > disinterested in life

> > 2003 ( 29 years ): Father passed away

> > 2004 ( 30 years ) : Got divorced.

> > 2005 April ( 31 years ) : Got married without getting horoscope

matched

> > as we were in love with each other. Strained relationship after first

> > six months of marriage. Has improved a lot now. Got to know later that

> > our horoscopes do NOT match.

> > 2007 Nov ( 33 years ) : Birth of my daughter

> >

> > No major illnesses or accidents. Fairly good health. Average

> > finances,Middle class types

> >

> > Mrs.Wendy,

> > Thanks for your consideration and allowing my post to go through.

> >

> > Regards,

> > Jai

> >

> > In jyotish-vidya

<jyotish-vidya%40>, " astro

> > desk "

> >

> > <astro.prashantkumar@> wrote:

> > >

> > > Jai

> > >

> > > ur lagna lord Guru is in a fixed sign in D1, D9 and his dasa starts

> > from

> > > 12/Mar /09 so by June 24 09 u wud have started ur howward

journey. the

> > > periods of grahas [planets] in fixed sings will bring u back to base

> > or home

> > > country for best part, u will still travel on work for short

> > durations. it

> > > will be a v good period in manyways.

> > >

> > > is ur wife's family better placed than urs in some ways?

> > >

> > > many obstacles, indecessive times will be there due to Ashtama sani

> > running

> > > in ur case, mother's health also may suffer a bit. between

23/2/08 to

> > > 12/3/09 in this 13/5/ to 3/7/08 cud be one such period. some trouble

> > to

> > > vehicles also is possible

> > >

> > > Mars aspect to 4thhouse, 4th lord is a factor it is placed in 6

in D9

> > too.

> > >

> > > Arundathi's

> > >

> > > is born in a Lagna sandhi will work on this only if there is some

> > verifiable

> > > data alsp post both urs and her pictures in the members picture area

> > here

> > > helps verify lagna features too.

> > >

> > > I use ramans' ayanamsa so dasa, vargas, dates will differ from

others

> > in any

> > > case lagna is a sandhi [cusp] point

> > >

> > > for that matter both of urs data seems too good to be born on

the dot

> > on the

> > > hr

> > >

> > > Best wishes

> > >

> > > Prashant kumar

> > >

> > > On Sun, Jun 29, 2008 at 10:58 AM, Jai Dixit jaidixit74@ wrote:

> > >

> > > > Dear Jay,

> > > >

> > > > I've approved your mail on the off-chance that members might

wish to

> > offer

> > > > their opinion...and also because you've asked one specific

question

> > > > regarding your location/relocation. However I should remind

you that

> > this is

> > > > a discussion group and not a place to request readings.

> > > >

> > > > Best Wishes,

> > > > Mrs. Wendy

> > > > Http://JyotishVidya.com <http://jyotishvidya.com/> <

> > http://jyotishvidya.com/>

> >

> > > > ___________________________

> > > >

> > > > Dear Jyotishi

> > > >

> > > > I'm presently residing in USA and have a decent paying job. My

wife

> > and 7

> > > > month daughter are with me here. My wife has a visa issue and

if she

> > goes to

> > > > India she is most likely to be denied a US visa because of the

weird

> > US

> > > > immigration rules. There is no issue if she continues to stay

in US

> > till I

> > > > become a US citizen in July 2010. The problem is she desperately

> > wants to go

> > > > to India just to meet her family and she has become extremely

> > home-sick.

> > > > Added to this her mother and I have had major problems when

she was

> > here in

> > > > US. So we are in a situation where neither her parents cannot/will

> > not come

> > > > visit us or my parents come visit us.

> > > >

> > > > My plan was to relocate to India permanently once I get US

> > citizenship.

> > > > Getting US citizenship has lot of advantages like retirement

> > benefits,visa

> > > > free travel to many countries while still maintaining Indian

> > citizenship

> > > > etc.

> > > >

> > > > Now with all said above I need to take a major decision on where I

> > need to

> > > > e staying. I hope that Jyotish can guide me in making a decision.

> > > >

> > > > 1)Is it good for me and my wife to relocate to India for good like

> > in next

> > > > few months thereby giving up US citizenship ? If so how are my

> > career

> > > > prospects in India in the forthcoming months?

> > > >

> > > > 2) Are there any chances of my wife getting back to USA if she

> > leaves for

> > > > India ?

> > > >

> > > > I have been doing my regular pooja everyday and reciting Navagrah

> > sthothra.

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Birth details

> > > >

> > > > Jai

> > > > Aug 2 1974

> > > > 17:00 PM

> > > > Bangalore, India

> > > >

> > > > Arundathi

> > > > June 24 1976

> > > > 7:30 AM

> > > > Bangalore, India

> > > >

> > > > Thanks in advance,

> > > > Jai

> > > >

> > > >

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Dear Vic and Prashanthji,

 

Thank you so much for your appreciation. I look forward to your guidance

in every step so that I could post even better:-).

 

Vic, isn't it true that spouse from 2nd marriage has to be seen from 9th

house ?. By current spouse I meant just that. If I am wrong just

correct me,k.

 

Regards,

Manasa.

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